Talking too much is a curse, silence is gold.
In life, we often encounter some very silent people, who seem to be insensitive to everything around them, that is, they involve their own things, and they will not care, everything is "out of the way".
In fact, the silent person often competes in the dark, and also masters the method of competing with people, and without others noticing, he has achieved success and become more excellent.
Silence is a kind of wisdom, the power of silence over sound; silence is not only to control one's own mouth, but also to control one's own behavior and control one's inner world. Very silent people tend to have the following mentality.
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The mentality of "less nosy" is better than less.
As the saying goes, "Don't be nosy and nourish your spirit." ”
Instead of taking care of other people's affairs, it is better to do your own things well; instead of getting involved in right and wrong, it is better to live quietly.
A person who talks endlessly is mostly talking about other people's things, and most of the talking points have nothing to do with themselves. Some things that really involve themselves will be hidden, and most of them will use methods such as changing the topic to avoid further exchanges and discussions.
Since it is someone else's business, why should I discuss it? People who are really smart are mostly "not concerned about themselves, hanging high" attitude towards other people's affairs. Only when justice is upheld will it take the initiative to intervene.
For example, if you are at the door of the community and see someone "cursing the street", you take the initiative to care and ask others what to scold. When you took the initiative to inquire, you originally cared about others, but others thought that you were not at ease, and even scolded you.
To be a person, you should pursue simplicity, do not be unrelated to people, and be unclear.
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The "keep a low profile" mentality never exposes your talents and wealth.
People of the older generation often tell us that we must "keep our wealth from revealing."
In the past, my family lived in the countryside, but when thieves came to the village, most of them went to rich families. Those poor families rarely find thieves to remember. The reason is that because of the rich family, the house is more foreign, the furniture at home is more expensive, and the electrical appliances are also tall, giving others a feeling of "there should be valuable things in the home".
Silent people, who do things very low-key, are also cautious about their money. Found a way to get rich, have a large amount of cash in your pocket, buy a very expensive mobile phone, we must pay attention to "confidentiality", rather than showing everywhere, and can not casually send a circle of friends to show off.
A talented person often feels that he is not wise enough, and he is still in a state of half-understanding of anything. No matter who they are in front of, they treat themselves as students and know how not to be ashamed to ask.
There is a word called "still water and deep flow", that is, to tell us that we should be quiet and quiet, do not show off ourselves, otherwise it means that we are very impetuous, and it is easy to be seen through, and it will be remembered by bad people, which is a sign of trouble.
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The mentality of "waiting and watching" is to be a good bystander, judge the situation and wait for opportunities.
A mentality called "Ren'er southeast and northwest wind, I stand still." No matter what happens around you and what happens in the distance, don't rush to deal with it, but observe the ins and outs of things, find out the "bottom line" of things, and then decide the next action.
"Rushing to the hospital in a hurry" will definitely suffer losses. Instead of blindly tossing, it is better to find the direction, make a good plan, slowly toss, so that every step you take becomes an effective step, without the need for backwards and turns.
Wait, bear with it, the things that can't be seen through are often seen through, and the ending will slowly emerge.
A silent person is often accustomed to "waiting for flowers to blossom and thank you", grasps the law of things, and does things according to the law, actions and words, are relatively stable. As soon as there is a turnaround, act immediately and let the opportunity become an opportunity to change your destiny.
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The mentality of "secret competition" is humble in the face, but behind the scenes is competing.
Silence does not mean depression, let alone waiting for death, but a different way and effective action.
My colleague Ah Wei was named an excellent employee last month and won the 1,000 yuan sales champion award. He was like a dark horse, and suddenly rushed out, which made the colleagues in the sales department look at him with astonishment.
All the rises are prepared. The reason why Ah Wei was able to succeed was that he had made a personal work plan several months ago and actively contacted customers. He had a foundation in his work and then showed his results last month.
Some people grasp the law of "no dispute is a winner", when others are sharp, they will converge their sharp edges, and when their strength is strong enough, they will quickly surpass others.
Silence is actually to hide yourself in an inconspicuous place, and then take advantage of its unpreparedness to fight a turnaround battle. If you like to promote yourself and like to argue with others, there will be enemies on all sides, forming invisible resistance.
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The mentality of "living thoroughly", when suffering is the head, insist on moving forward silently.
Life is a process of ups and downs, and no one stays at the top all the time. When a person is downcast, he likes to cry bitterness for days, which increases the negative energy, and the opportunity to turn over is slowly decreasing.
Someone said, "You don't have to say your suffering to others." ”
People who cry out for suffering will not get the understanding and help of others, but will be ridiculed. When a person sees through this, he is too lazy to cry bitterness, but takes suffering as a stepping stone, insists on learning, and improves himself.
For example, a person who has failed to start a business sees the reason for his failure, thinks seriously, and begins to prepare for the next business. If you cry out every day and don't work hard, then the creditor will come to the door, and the entrepreneurial experience will have no use. Only by learning to see through can we understand the truth that "failure is the mother of success".
Anything, when it reaches its extreme, will develop in the opposite direction. Therefore, life is at a low ebb, do not cry bitter at all, but learn to "lie dormant" and wait for the spring of life to come.
Li Bihua said: "Often the most valuable is the one who is more silent, so why waste the posture?" Not only expensive, but also noble. ”
Obscure people are actually putting their minds right, quiet and far-reaching.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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