The water is silent, and the people are steady.
The man who seemed reticent was not speechless, nor was he without friends. They know that at the right time, when they say the right words, they have the city government and excellent skills, and they are "capable people" who can do things.
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The taciturn person is always quietly working hard.
In the workplace, many people believe in "doing things in a high profile and being a low-key person", but in fact, when a thing is just starting out and facing many difficulties, what is needed is not to be high-profile, but to work hard quietly.
Taciturn people, in the workplace, are often the backbone of a unit or a company.
Most of the tasks they have to accomplish are urgent, difficult, and important tasks assigned by the leaders. For example, a speech for a major conference; a plan for an important negotiation.
Whether it is technical problems or communication and coordination, it is necessary to have superior skills, to be able to "catch it", "horse to success", and to have the ability to deal with things quickly and at high speed, it is necessary to insist on it day after day.
Taciturn people often spend other people's tea and chatting time to delve into business. One day or two days can not see that they have anything outstanding, after three years and five years, it is obvious that everyone can not reach the grade.
Of course, they are strict with themselves, and they will not "show the dew", and occasionally, they will chat with everyone, group activities, and try to participate. This so-called "social" is actually to put a layer of "protective color" on yourself, so as not to make yourself look too eye-catching and too "out of place".
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The taciturn person does not wronged himself or hurt others.
A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. Being able to speak is often seen as a sign of high emotional intelligence.
A taciturn person who knows how "it is better to say more than to say less, and it is better to say less than not to say". They are as good as gold, and they always say a few words when they have to.
Their attitude towards rotten people and bad things is indisputable. For example, I know that my supervisor boss is jealous of his ability because of his lack of ability, not only does the credit and hard work are all on himself, but he also always likes to make small reports and make random complaints. In this regard, they will only pretend not to see, not to hear, to do more refined work at hand, and let the visible performance speak for themselves.
Moreover, for those who deliberately embarrass themselves, silence is a force, and taciturnism is a kind of counterattack. When you are not yet able to fight back, just bury your head and work hard. At first, it was forbearance and grievance, but later, when a gorgeous turn was achieved, it was a kind of open-mindedness and indifference.
Someone said: "Even if we are completely right and the other person is the one who is absolutely wrong, we cannot let the other party lose face and not come to the stage." ”
Many times, people who are silent and taciturn hold on to the idea of "forbearance is over" in their hearts. No matter how hard it is, do not give up on yourself, do not demean yourself, and do not complain about others.
There is no tomorrow that cannot be reached, only yesterday that cannot go back, taciturn people, know how to live in the present, cherish what they have, step by step, to achieve the dream in their hearts.
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Taciturn people are often very urban.
As the saying goes, "Knowing the face knows the heart". In the workplace, for the sake of their own interests, almost everyone has their own small calculations in their hearts, if any joys and sorrows are written on their faces, but also shout everywhere, they will become a transparent person, and others can grasp your handle and calculate at any time.
When a person learns to shut up, he also begins to learn to be a person with a city government.
For the results you have worked hard to achieve, no matter how well you do, you will push it all to the leader and other colleagues, so that everyone will feel that you are really praising them. But if there is any fault, you must not take it all over and say that it is your own mistake. When analyzing the reasons for failure, we must put our own efforts and deeds out to give people a good impression of "repeated defeats and repeated battles."
A taciturn person, looking at the world coldly, knows how to cultivate obscurity, and only shoots when it is time to shoot. Always the one who hides deeply.
If you are still complaining, why do your days always not improve, it is better to reflect on yourself, is not always chattering.
If so, let yourself learn to shut up.
When you get used to being a taciturn person, you really mature.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
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