Silence is golden. I would love to be a silent person.
I remember going back to the original school to get the transfer order, and the old leaders and old colleagues repeatedly told me: When I arrived at the new unit, no matter what people said, listen, and talk less.
Having worked together for many years, they knew my personality: I don't talk in a roundabout way, and it's easy to offend people.
Their instructions were motivated by my protection.
At the new school, almost all of them are unfamiliar faces. Always remind yourself: do your job well and talk less.
There are also times when you can't hold back.
There is a C teacher, who is a master of grasping teaching results, and I heard that a class with the bottom one, he spent half a semester, and the average score exceeded that of the parallel class by ten points.
During one recess, Teacher C brought three boys into the office, and the three boys held homework books in their hands, their small faces frightened like frosted eggplants.
"Wrong a few questions, slap yourself a few mouths!" Teacher C gave an order.
"Snap! syllable! Snap..."
Every sound tugged at my heart.
The student left the office, and I couldn't hold back any longer, but fortunately I thought about saying it as euphemistically as possible:
"Teacher C, only by controlling your emotions can you protect yourself." In the eyes of parents, these children are good babies. Corporal punishment is a very sensitive topic, and now the electronic products in the hands of students are very common, and if they don't get it right, they will lose their jobs. ”
Speaking from his point of view, he may be more receptive.
A few days later, another parent approached the principal's office and reflected that Teacher C was speaking foul language in class. Teacher C was interviewed by the principal.
During this time, Teacher C was much gentler and no longer rude to the students.
Silence is certainly golden, but some words must be said, but it is better to pass the brain and say it euphemistically.