Eric is a man with four wives, and after tomorrow he will have a fifth wife, and his original wife, Wanda, has no objection to this, even very happy.
Because Wanda is a double-xing love, Eric's wife can also be her wife
This is not something that happened to some feudal tribes in Africa, but a modern United States that advocates freedom and human rights.
Eric advocated polygamy, which he saw as an expression of freedom and love, free from worldly ideas. He hopes that this polygamous lifestyle can be treated fairly in society and even promoted
Katie, an anti-polygamous investigative journalist who has found that millions of women around the world suffer from it, and that these women often don't have good outcomes, have been working on the anti-polygamy movement since 2005.
She believes that polygamy will cause great harm to society, and this unhealthy way of life is an encroachment and deprivation of women's rights, status and freedom, and it is also extremely unhealthy for the growth of children.
Next, two people with diametrically opposed ideas will live together for eight days, convincing each other to agree with their ideas in various ways. During this time, their faith and patience will be greatly challenged, and who will be able to convince whom?
Four days ago, Katie needed to stay in Eric's mansion, and Eric and his wife Wanda received her warmly.
At the first meeting, the atmosphere was friendly, and Rick led Katie to the living room, where the three mistresses... Ah ~ no, Eric's three psychic wives are having fun.
She is Eric's third wife, and they have lived together for 8 years, and they have a seven-year-old daughter, the only child in the complex family.
She was Eric's second wife and they lived together for 9 years.
She is Eric's fourth wife and they lived together for 5 years.
Katie was shocked to see this, because situations like Eric's were uncommon among polygamous. Men and women, women and women, such a chaotic relationship, is more appropriate to describe it than polygamy than to be a group marriage.
Such an adult world makes Katie worry about the mental health of the only child in the family.
But the child's mother, Kate, disagrees, believing that she has the same love for Wanda and Eric, that they are a free union, and that this spiritual bond is incomprehensible to ordinary people in the world.
She didn't care what outsiders thought, she wrapped the relationship in the cloak of love, and undisguised draped over the shoulders of her children.
Katie couldn't accept this at all, and she had a hunch that the next few days would be extremely sad.
The next day, Eric and Katie talk about his father, which is why he is so passionate about this life. It turned out that his father was a scumbag, who often traveled for work reasons, and in every place where he traveled, he raised a little mistress behind his wife's back.
Eric was very sympathetic to his unsuspecting mother and hated his father's actions, so he vowed never to lie to women. So choose to find a lifestyle that you can enjoy and that everyone can accept.
To put it bluntly, the derailment of Chia Tai Guangming is not a derailment, yes, this wave of logical reasoning is very strong!
Katie hit the nail on the head, and Eric argued.
At the dinner, Eric announces to his wives that the family is about to welcome a fifth member, Samantha, a woman who has just suffered a love injury.
Eric and she had known each other for two months, Samantha had two children, and tomorrow she would come alone for three weeks to integrate into the family.
Katie noticed that at the round table, Eileencia and Rachino had some bitter looks, and they were not very willing.
Katie is sensitive to the discovery that the seemingly harmonious family is actually dominated by Eric and Wanda, and the other wives have no say, and agreeing to the addition of new members is only the result of group consciousness hinting and coercion, and their relationship is not equal.
Although Irenecia was very resistant to the new members joining, she was reluctant to have a direct showdown with Eric, because she vaguely knew in her heart that she had no say in the question of the new members' whereabouts. But she still does not recognize that the compromise in this relationship is the consumption of self-awareness.
On the evening of the third day, Eric's fifth wife, Samantha, came to the mansion, and the bright women embraced warmly, not knowing whether it was true or not.
Elena had a bitter smile on her face, and the inappropriate topic of children made the little girl cover her ears, and Katie realized that there would be more children involved in this complicated and chaotic relationship, and she could not persuade her to leave the scene early.
Before Samantha officially joined the family, there was also a round house ceremony, in which a man and two women, naked in front of the mirror, exchanged glasses each other, which was not so much a declaration of love as more like a religious ritual of sacrifice.
Katie sees Eric's routine, he always looks for women who have broken their hearts, and then promises to never change his heart, always be honest, he will rise to the level of lust to spiritual love, but the truth is a kind of abduction and brainwashing. Sadly, there are always women who believe these lies in their entirety.
For the next four days, Eric and they will stay at Katie's house, but because there are too many people, Katie only chooses Irencia and Kate to follow her home.
She saw that Elincia was tired of this kind of life, so she wanted to show her another way of life, Kate was because of the child, Katie wanted her to realize that this family relationship is not healthy for the growth of a child.
Katie tells the story of her interviews over the years with polygamous families where women have not had very good outcomes, with rates of sexual harassment, promiscuity, arranged marriages, and child marriages higher than those in monogamous families.
But Kate does not accept this statement, she interrupts Katie's story, she believes that her family is different from other polygamous families, and it will never turn out to be a bad outcome, even if Katie shows them the tragic situation of women who have escaped from polygamy, Kate is convinced that her family will always be harmonious.
People seem to have this illusion, thinking that it is different.
After only two days at Katie's house, they couldn't resist calling Eric and Wanda, and this sense of dependence made them lose the ability to face life alone.
Elena, unlike Kate, was touched by the current situation of women who had been hurt in polygamy. In fact, from the time she chose not to have a child with Eric, it can be seen that she is not confident in this relationship, she originally chose polygamy to pursue a free relationship, but now she is beginning to be confused.
Katie takes the two to see a psychiatrist, and through the conversation, it is found that they are indeed women who have been emotionally injured, and the infidelity of the previous relationship has caused them to feel insecure and no longer trust the monogamous relationship, and this life of polygamy that seems to have no concealment and secret makes them indulge in it, and they are trapped in a comfortable environment.
The sense of security they thought they had gained was like a ball of cotton wrapping them up, but the more appropriate statement was actually that the frog was boiled in warm water, self-awareness and independence were consumed, they felt no harm in the temperature of a little rise, and when the reaction came, they were almost ripe and could not escape.
Just like the ease with which the silk flower climbs the tree, but once the tree is broken or detached from the tree, they are vulnerable and cannot survive at all, in the final analysis, in fact, it is the lack of self-knowledge, the dependent personality in the encounter with the man's willing commitment, resulting in a mechanism of domination and obedience, the self-perceived zero-distance sense of spiritual communication is actually emotional manipulation.
They don't see or don't want to believe in the inequality in the relationship, and if they want to test whether the rights and status of men and women are equal in this relationship, they only need a new man to join the family and try it.
Whether polygamy is a violation of men's rights or a violation of women's rights is not much discussed, because it does not make sense.
When choosing polygamy, it is bound to cause inequality in the status of men and women, women's appendage attributes will become stronger and stronger, the contradiction between the rich and the poor will also be highlighted, driven by wealth and interests, men with ability and status will have more and more wives, and the probability of the poor having marriage will certainly become smaller.
Moreover, man is a thoughtful creature, and the selfish exclusivity of biological instincts can lead to a geometric multiplication of contradictions under polygamy and increase the factors of social and family instability.
Finally, I hope that everyone can treat the relationship life sincerely, do not split their legs and cheat, and if the relationship really cannot continue, please handle the relationship properly.
Whether polygamous or polygamous, it is morally disloyal to feelings and illegal!!!!!
As a normal-thinking woman, I would like to say one last word:
Go to NMD Polygamous !!!