Wen | Mei Ya / Lyceum
The child is the future sustenance of the parents and the spiritual pillar. Therefore, when educating children, parents are very attentive and hope to teach their children what is respect and what is politeness. Do not want the child to have some wrong behavior, to the detriment of the interests of others. But these children understand the truth, but many adults do not understand.
There was a foul smell coming from my son's room, and my mother noticed that there was an unknown liquid on the windowsill, and she almost threw up when she smelled it
Ms. Peng (pseudonym), who lives in Hangzhou, encountered an infuriating incident, and when her son returned to his room, he suddenly said loudly why does it stink? Ms. Peng and her husband did not think so, and thought that the children were joking with them. As a result, after entering the child's room, Ms. Peng found that there was really a very bad smell.
Soon Ms. Peng found the source of the smell, there was a lot of unknown liquid on the windowsill, and Ms. Peng was about to throw up when she smelled it. Looking up at the window sill, there was still a lot of liquid flowing down, Ms. Peng made a bold guess, is someone pouring pee from the upper floor? Because the liquid is yellow, it also has a smell of urine.
This incident made Ms. Peng very angry, thinking that the upstairs residents were too immoral, so they knocked all the way up the door to find the culprit, but knocked on the 26th floor and did not find the culprit. And everyone said that they had encountered the same situation and found a foul smell on the windows. There was no way, Ms. Peng had to choose to call the police.
There is no upward-facing monitoring probe in the cell, so it is more troublesome to investigate. However, according to the owner, not only spilled urine, but also people upstairs who splashed dirty water and dumped garbage. Therefore, it is hoped that the police will be able to investigate the matter clearly and not let them continue to suffer from this torture.
When encountering such uncivilized behavior, how should parents educate their children?
1. Take the child to try to find out the truth
When encountering such uncivilized things, parents should not get by, we should set a correct example for our children and strive to find out the truth of the matter. In this way, the child understands that when his own interests are damaged, he should strive to fight for it, rather than getting by, and lose a lot of things in vain. In this way, children will become more and more courageous to fight for their rights.
2. Let the child recognize the seriousness of the problem
When discovering the wrong behavior of others, parents should let the child take it as a warning, realize the error of the matter, and ensure that it will not appear in our behavior habits. In fact, this is also a good educational opportunity to allow children to grow. Parents should understand what it means to lead by example, slowly cultivate a good quality in their children, and let their children thrive under our education.
What should parents do if a child behaves in such a wrong way?
1. Strict education
When children do the wrong thing, parents must not feel that they choose to let go of children when they are young, our indulgence will only become the children's food, so that the evil deeds are more and more obvious in them, so parents must give them a strict education, let the children understand the seriousness of the matter, and ensure that they will never commit it again next time.
2. Let your child have the courage to admit mistakes
If we make a mistake, we must admit that after educating the child, we must let the child know what it is to have the courage to take responsibility. Take him to say sorry to the people who have been hurt, this kind of education can impress the child, understand that what he is doing is not right, and never dare to behave the same way again. Such parents are responsible for their children and will not let their children fall into the whirlpool.
Message
When encountering such uncivilized behavior, we must have the courage to protect our rights and interests, not only for us, but also for our children, to make a correct example for children, so that they know what justice is and how to protect their rights and interests. When the children are alone, they will not be easily bullied by others.
What do you think about the behavior of upstairs occupants?