On Valentine's Day, her sister would like to share some love stories with you.
Some time ago, there was a very moving hot search, I don't know if the friends saw it.
The hot search is about a letter written by a 74-year-old grandmother to her deceased wife.
Grandma Cheng and his wife who wrote the letter met each other on a blind date.
The first time they met, the two of them watched the game together. And then just like that, we watched together for most of our lives.
This letter, Grandma Cheng said, should be written to his wife who has gone to heaven, may he hear it, may he be all right.
When she officially began to read the letter, just read the first sentence, Grandma Cheng's voice couldn't help but start trembling.
"You and I have watched football together for most of our lives, and I always want to compete with you for right and wrong.
Those unreasonable words, those arguments with you, to whom do I say them now?
You have been gone for a year, and I seem to understand that there have been many brilliant things in life, but in the end they all need to be repaid with the loneliness of this moment. ”
It can also be felt through the screen, and it is almost all her strength to make the tears not stay so quickly.
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Grandma Cheng wiped her tears with a tissue as she walked out of the reading booth.
But when she picked up her mobile phone and showed the host the golden wedding photo she took with her wife, she immediately laughed and happily recalled the story of the two people who were married.
At that moment, it was as if she was back in her youth, just getting ready to get in the car and go to her wife's hometown, marry him, and start a new life.
Under this hot search, there is a comment that reads:
"It's nice to be able to marry love."
Maybe it's because I've been hurt in love, or because I've seen too many news of divorce and infidelity, and I don't know when it started, love has become a scarce commodity in life.
It seems to be like the canned pineapple in the movie, which will expire one day.
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But in these grandparents, her sister suddenly saw another look of love.
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Love can also "lie"
Let's call this grandmother "Easy Mother-in-Law" for the time being.
The "Can I Go Home with You" program team happened to meet her on the side of the road.
At that time, she had just come out of the mass hot spring room, wearing a pink plaid dress, and the whole person looked particularly bright.
After a brief consultation, she happily agreed to follow the program team.
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On the way home, the program team chatted with the relaxed mother-in-law, asking her what time she usually arrived home and who she usually lived with.
"Usually I'll be home late, and there's no one at home yet."
"Do you live with your husband?"
"Yes."
Every time she answered, she didn't hesitate.
It's a completely cool grandma look.
Easy mother-in-law's home looks very cozy.
It was filled with all kinds of daily food and supplies, many of which were related to her husband.
There was strawberry jam bought by my husband in the fridge, drinks to drink with my husband, and glasses that my husband had iced for a beer.
"He's going to have three drinks a day [ of beer ] , and when he's done, he's going to have some drinks."
She recounted little by little, and no one noticed that she had actually lied to the camera.
The lie went on for a long time.
Until the program team asked in passing: "Where do you and your husband usually eat?" ”
"It's there." Easy mother-in-law drank the drink and pointed to the tea table, and then looked at the spirit position not far from the coffee table and said, "My husband is no longer there, and he has been gone for two months." ”
"Emphysema, suddenly gone, called for emergency care, sent to the hospital, but it is no longer possible."
It wasn't until this moment that the thoughts buried in her heart leaked out little by little.
She didn't dare turn off the lights.
In the two months after my husband left, from the kitchen to the bathroom, all the lights in the house were turned on.
Even the neighbors felt that lately she always seemed to have forgotten to turn off the lights.
Facing the camera, she was just silent for a moment and said:
"I hate black."
"The highlights are good, I hate the black."
She stopped making stews.
Because the familiar sound of chatting across the table will never ring out again, the meals I like to eat seem to be somewhat tasteless.
She doesn't drink much anymore.
If it wasn't for the bottle of drink in the refrigerator to give to the program team to taste, she might never open it again.
"It's not good to drink alone."
The lie told on the road was probably not expected that the program team would actually enter her house.
So subconsciously, according to the inner thoughts, pretend to live with your husband.
At that moment, you will feel that the lies in the original love are not all irritating.
It may not be to deceive another person, but to deceive itself, pretending that the other person is still with him.
Perhaps you should be happy, before the program team said goodbye, easy mother-in-law turned off one of the lights in the house.
It was as if she was finally about to move forward slowly again.
Love is "can" be forgotten
Chao Wenzhen in Shanghai is also walking non-stop.
11 metro stops, 4 bus stops, then walk 800 meters.
Every week, Chao Wenzhen goes this way 4 or 5 times, in order to go to the nursing home from home to visit his wife who has Alzheimer's disease.
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At first, he didn't want to send his wife to a nursing home, he wanted to take care of her personally at home.
But after taking care of it for 2 or 3 years, watching his wife lose from the beginning to unable to remember people, it gradually seems that even he has to forget.
Sometimes, can't help it, the old nest will also be anxious.
At the old nest house, there is a whiteboard that was bought to remind his wife not to forget things.
In the corner of the whiteboard is written the following sentence: "When you are old enough to forget the world, what will love you with?" ”
The nest felt that love was still love.
Later, I really couldn't eat it, and I had no choice but to send my wife to a nursing home.
When I arrived at the nursing home, I was still far away from my wife, and the old nest couldn't help but start asking, "Do you remember who I am?" He said, and walked quickly to his wife.
Hearing his wife call out his name, he immediately put his arms around her and held her tightly in his arms. Don't let go.
Lao Chao said to the director of the shooting: I hope that one day his wife can go ahead of him, because then he can take care of his wife for a lifetime.
His wife suffered from osteoporosis and accidentally broke his leg shortly before the epidemic.
At that time, it was just in time for the New Year's party in the nursing home. The old nest took a mobile phone and took a video around the nursing home.
Photograph the decorations inside, how everyone celebrates the New Year, and prepare to take it back to the ward for his wife to see.
The photographer asked him what new year's resolutions he had.
The nest said to his wife, "I wish you all the best in the New Year." ”
Then added a few more words:
"My greatest wish is not to forget me."
"It doesn't matter if you forget me Chao Wenzhen, as long as you don't forget that I'm a good person."
As long as you remember that he is a good person, you are willing to believe in him.
He could still retain his greatest strength and walk to her side again.
Love is not to worry
Also suffering from Alzheimer's disease, there is also the Internet celebrity grandfather Lao Xia.
Grandpa Lao Xia and Grandma Cui'e have been together for more than 60 years.
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Older, bad memory, but in the face of Cui'e, Lao Xia can still turn into a "love master".
Cui'e went to the vegetable market to buy things, and after a while, Lao Xia couldn't sit still and begged her granddaughter to take him out.
"I'll come back when I meet her, and I'll come back if I don't touch her."
The granddaughter was worried that the market was too far away, the weather was very hot, and Lao Xia's body could not stand it, so she urged him vigorously.
In the end, he still couldn't be persuaded, and could only follow Lao Xia to the vegetable market.
Along the way, I stopped and stopped, and finally met Cui'e on the road.
Looking at Lao Xia's slightly pale face, Cui'e was distressed and angry, and couldn't help but chant a few words to him.
Old Xia sat on a chair on the side of the road with a smile and did not return his mouth.
The granddaughter said that Lao Xia insisted on going outside, because she felt that Cui'e would be happy to see him, because "my husband has come to pick you up." ”
In the face of Cui'e, Lao Xia's love words could not be stopped.
Sometimes, it "goes the other way."
Read the small note written by my granddaughter, obviously it is "Chang'e Benyue", but here in the old Xia who is full of Cui'e, no matter how much persuasion, it will finally be pronounced as "Cui'e Benyue".
Sometimes, it's very direct.
Cui'e asked him who he loved the most, and without even a second's hesitation, she said directly, "You!" ”
In the face of her granddaughter's questioning, she simply responded domineeringly:
"Of course I love her."
"I don't love her, who do I love?"
Other times, don't forget to be humorous.
He praised Cui'e as young, beautiful, and capable, and finally turned sharply, adding: "She is not as beautiful as me." ”
It made Cui'e laugh.
After more than 60 years of feelings, Lao Xia later summed it up in one sentence:
"She married me, I begged her, and I was very happy."
On the day that Old Xia left, Cui'e was with him.
As if she had a premonition, she did not cry, but gently stroked Lao Xia's head and pressed it to his ear and said:
"Obedient, you can rest assured that you can go well, don't worry, I will take care of myself."
In love, even in the end, there is always someone who has to go first.
"Don't worry." It is probably the most beautiful love words that can be given to each other at that moment.
Probably as the song goes:
"When you're old and can't walk,
Snooze by the fire to reminisce about youth.
How many people have loved your youthful and cheerful hours,
Admire your beauty, fake or sincerity.
Only one person still loves your pious soul,
Love the wrinkles on your old face. ”
Seeing the stories of those grandparents, it seems that I suddenly understood the meaning of this song.
Old people are forgetful, but they don't forget to miss each other.
Love, its shelf life, can also be permanent.
It is melted into the bloodstream by time, and even if it is separated, it cannot be eliminated.
We will be separated one day, but if we can, we still hope to leave the best image of the time in our memory.
Her sister wishes you a good harvest of love.
If not for the time being, it doesn't matter.
May you always have the courage and strength to love and accept love.