Housework to let the wife contract is the performance of loving the wife?! KK Wei Wei's confusing remarks and the 62-year-old Ni Ping, who opened his eyes, made two hot searches for the first divorce variety show in China, "Goodbye Lover".
Supermodel Tong Chenjie raised her husband as a son, seemingly tired, in fact, KK has "eaten tong Chenjie thoroughly". Being dependent and having a sense of existence is exactly the missing part of Tong Chenjie's first marriage.
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Former international Footballer Xie Hui and supermodel Tong Chenjie were invited to participate in "Lu Yu Has a Date" in the third year of their marriage. The two behaved decently, but there was a bit of a pinpoint between their words. Not only did he sing "TravelIng Apart", but he also revived the fact that the wedding involved his ex-girlfriend.
It is worthy of Lu Yu, which pot does not open which pot.
At the grand TV wedding of Xie Hui and Tong Chenjie, there was a "Tang Bohu Dian Qiu Xiang" link, and the organizers arranged 4 girls for Xie Hui to guess which was his bride.
The 4 girls became "a bunch" in Xie Hui's mouth, and the difficulty coefficient increased between words. Not only did he not find the genuine "Qiu Xiang", but he also mistakenly held his ex-girlfriend's hand.
Xie Hui didn't think so, and Tong Chenjie was naturally a little jealous. And in the show, Xie Hui admitted that Tong Chenjie mentioned it several times afterwards, and he couldn't help but talk about it.
It can be seen that the small episode at the wedding has become a knot in the heart.
People always say that the first love is unforgettable, not to mention that this Miss J is still a woman who was written into her autobiography by Xie Hui, and her status can be imagined. Watching movies over the wall in the middle of the night, holding hands and strolling around the campus, romantic to the extreme.
Look at the "Goodbye Lover" again, Tong Chenjie identified KK's friend's wedding. It was KK's jealousy, hard work, and anxious attitude that made Tong Chenjie feel that he was the "center of the universe".
The scenery of being looked up and climbed high, and the joy of being pampered and loved.
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Shortly after Tong Chenjie and Xie Hui married, she complained that the former international did not do housework, and said in an interview that Xie Hui was not the ideal husband and hoped that the other party would slowly mature.
When the two could not escape the seven-year itch, many media pointed out that if the two had a child to do bondage, they might not be separated. Moreover, the two did pass on the birth plan after marriage, which means that Tong Chenjie is not a Dink family.
When Tong Chenjie and KK were married for more than 1 year, they revealed that they were trying to get pregnant.
When he participated in the recording of "Here Comes the Opportunity" the following year, he said that he could use high technology to have a baby. Including "Goodbye Lover", Guo Keyu revealed that Tong Chenjie insisted on exercising and maintaining her body during the fatigued trip.
This all shows that Tong Chenjie has always had plans to become a mother, but the time is not ripe.
It can be seen that housework, drinking, and childbirth are not the most critical links in the two marriages, but communication and security are.
A reporter once learned that Xie Hui and Tong Chenjie often quarreled after marriage, and Xie Hui said: "I will not let you because you are young and a woman." When Tong Chenjie could not contact Xie Hui, he would call his teammates, and Xie Hui was very disgusted by this.
Tong Chenjie likes the sense of youth and endures childishness. She married two men with similar personality "weaknesses", and her failure in the first marriage seems to carry over into the second.
Stubborn men don't want to change, beautiful women don't want to compromise.
Children are more like chips to distinguish between winning and losing.
However, Xie Hui and KK have a big difference, Xie Hui has a successful career, economic stability, and good women's popularity. His aura and sense of accomplishment shrouded Tong Chenjie, even the first generation of supermodels who went abroad were not as good as national football athletes.
Proudly say that the number of his ex-girlfriends is more than the number of Tong Chenjie's ex-boyfriends.
Once love at first sight, 9 years of getting along, but the pre-marriage and post-marital property is clearly divided, unwilling to pay the ex-wife proposed 3 million breakup fees.
So no matter how rich a man is, it is useless not to be willing to spend it on you. Regardless of business dealings, the commercial value created after the combination of strong and powerful, buying out or rewarding youth is not willing?
An attitude of making up, forbearance, and control, in the second marriage, Tong Chenjie reversed her past self and became a strong woman and a weak man.
I don't want to embarrass my wife, but my ability is limited, except for escaping socializing, going to a drinking friend to listen to something nice. What KK can do in this marriage is to show weakness.
That's why he said, "I made her feel that I couldn't live without her." "That's the logic of his not doing housework.
Tong Chenjie enjoyed the unprecedented reliance on the great shore, the pleasure of being needed. So KK's words may annoy a lot of people, but that is the way he gets along with Tong Chenjie.
KK's occasional little rebellion does not want the "old mother" to look stupid, but it just happens to explain that Tong Chenjie's affairs are not huge.
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Tong Chenjie's two marriages have too many similarities, and entering the marriage again, mainly because there are some qualities in KK that she has not received in Xie Hui. At least there is no first love like a fish in the throat, and some are the husband's single-mindedness on tiptoeing.
As the show progressed, viewers found that drinking, partying, and children were not the crux of the problem. It's that children mean different things to the two of them!
KK has a traditional concept of succession, and he wants to give himself an explanation, a thought. Tong Chenjie, who is infinitely tolerant of KK, has an attitude of being responsible for life. And she was testing KK's bottom line, asking if she wanted her children to continue living with multiple-choice questions.
From the audience's point of view, KK may not necessarily change his lifestyle for the sake of his children. A marriage relationship that is on the verge of an end solves another problem with one problem.
Tong Chenjie is 39 years old, and with her love for KK, she will largely compromise. After giving birth to a baby, it is both an experiment and an adventure, but the marriage relationship is still unknown.
From Tong Chenjie's treatment of the first and second marriages, it is obvious that she has a preference for KK.
It is said that Tong Chenjie and Xie Hui had been in the cold war for a long time before their divorce, and in "Goodbye Lover", Tong Chenjie also admitted that they were officially separated after a year of separation. Moreover, the problems in the relationship between the two were still exposed by the media, rather than exposing themselves.
Tong Chenjie and KK, who took the initiative to participate in the show, must think that there is still room for maneuver in the relationship between the two, and further communicate through other perspectives and channels.
Tong Chenjie is like a mother, she thinks that her son is lazy in her mouth, and she is still working on her hands. KK is like a giant baby, feeling omnipotent in his heart, but unwilling to put it into action.
If Tong Chenjie and KK can't change the mode of getting along and don't solve the origin problem, they may fall into a si cycle.