According to Taiwan media reports on April 16, Taiwan's well-known male stars Dou Zhikong and Xu Shuwei have entered their 10th year of marriage, and their life after marriage has always been very harmonious. However, because Dou Zhikong's wife, Xu Shuwei, decided to surgically remove the right fallopian tube at the end of 2019 in a second-degree ectopic pregnancy, Dou Zhikong also revealed at the time that he planned to be ligated out of concern about his wife's physical health problems. When Dou Zhikong participated in the program interview a few days ago, he also admitted that he did not want to have a third child.
Dou Zhikong and Xu Shuwei were related by drama, Xu Shuwei was just an unknown small actor at that time, and Dou Zhikong already had many works, and there was a gap in identity, but since the fate came, then any other problem naturally had to give way. Dou Zhikong met Xu Shuwei because of his 2007 cameo TV series "Joy to Tease The Array", after which the two began to communicate, and after 3 years together, they finally achieved positive results, and the two walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, and from then on entered a happy married life.
After the marriage, the two spent nearly 7 years in the sweet two-person world before they ushered in their first child. The following year, Dou Zhikong announced the good news, revealing that his wife Xu Shuwei was pregnant with the second child. Now the couple has two sons, the eldest son Daifuku is less than 3 years old, and the younger son, Daijin, has just turned 1. After having children, this happy family is also more complete and harmonious. Unexpectedly, Xu Shuwei was 2 degrees of ectopic pregnancy at the end of 2019, which made Dou Zhikong very worried and afraid of his wife's physical condition. After the couple thought twice, Xu Shuwei decided to do surgery to remove the right fallopian tube.
At that time, Dou Zhikong was very anxious and worried, and even revealed that he planned to ligature. How much love one has to have for one's wife to make a man think like this. Sterilization must require a lot of courage for a man. From this point of view, Dou Zhikong really loved Xu Shuwei, otherwise he would not have had this plan.
In fact, in addition to Dou Zhikong, Xiu Jiekai also revealed at that time that he wanted to "ligature for love", because Jia Jingwen gave birth to 3 children, and having too much child will also cause harm to women's bodies. For the fertility situation of families in today's society, it is already considered to be too many to have 3 children. Xiu Jiekai was worried about Jia Jingwen's physical condition, and when asked if she considered having 4 births, Jia Jingwen said that she would not have 4 more children, while Xiu Jiekai said that she was going to be sterilized. Xiu Jiekai's move immediately attracted the attention of many netizens, and many netizens also said that Jia Jingwen really found her own happiness. But later, due to various reasons, Xiu Jiekai also changed his mouth to say that he would not be born again in a short period of time, and the matter of ligature would not be solved.
Dou Zhikong was interviewed a few days ago when he participated in a show, and was asked about the third child, Dou Zhikong frankly said: "If there is a third son, my wife will go crazy." "The reason is that I am afraid of having a son again." Dou Zhikong could answer this way, and his wife had already had surgery to remove the fallopian tubes, so presumably the matter of planning to ligature at that time was also turned over.
Although neither Xiu Jiekai nor Dou Zhikong had surgery in the end, a man who could openly express this idea for the sake of his wife's health must have summoned up a lot of courage. Failure to do so does not mean that he does not love his wife, and these things are the joint decisions of their husband and wife, and the happiness of life is the most important.