Just watched "BJ's Single Diary 2: The Edge of Reason", for Renee Zellweger has a new understanding, this appearance of no merit of the woman, but with her superb acting skills, won the Oscar queen, won the world's recognition. Bridget Jones, played by Renee Zellweger, is a life winner, almost useless fat woman, but is loved by the male god, loved by the goddess, I can't help but ask, what is this god operation?
Probably everyone has a dream of the stars holding the moon in their hearts, fantasizing about their useless self, being unscrupulously spoiled by handsome men and beautiful women. In fact, most of this kind of thinking will only happen in everyone's childhood, in the adult world, where there are no years quiet, no hundred days of red, no hundred days of good people, your so-called years are quiet, just because someone is carrying the weight for you.
In the film, Renee Zellweger was framed and smuggled drugs, in the face of this scene, the boss of the flower heart that made Renee Zevig's heart slip away without backbone, in the painful years of Renee Zellweger's imprisonment, it was the Mahdasi who said that she was the worst boyfriend came to the Thai prison and rescued Renee Zevig, it was the man who said that he was full of shortcomings rescued her, not the boss who almost took away his virginity, which happened in the movie, It happens to the heroine with the aura of the protagonist, and if it happens in real life, this life will be ruined.
Therefore, it is really necessary to cultivate a pair of fire eyes and golden eyes, to distinguish who is your nemesis, to distinguish who is your confidant and friend, and the relationship between people is wearing a mask, and no one will easily show his true face. Don't marvel at the fickleness of human nature, don't marvel at the sinister nature of the human heart, if you think that someone has suddenly changed, it's not that he has suddenly changed, it's just that you suddenly found out, he just accidentally dropped the mask and just let you see it. Don't simply think that a person is good, or that a person is evil, that no one will be a full angel, that no one will be a full devil, that we should not overestimate the goodness of others, nor can we underestimate the evil of others.
In the film, Renee Zellweger and Makdasi eventually come together, which reminds me of what Chin said to Wolverine in X-Men 2: "Girls will date bad men and then go home with good men." In psychology, calling this psychology a good father preference, Qin will flirt with Wolverine, but the laser eye that is more likely to be a good father is her destination.
Many times, even if a man is not good at providing resources, if he can fully show women that he will be a good father who is willing to provide resources for his children in the future, he will also be favored by women.
Whether or not they can truly become a good father is a matter of the future, which cannot be directly observed when choosing a mate, so over time, women have evolved genes for the preference for "good father" related clues, for example, whether men are reliable in doing things and whether they are willing to actively interact with their children. In women's minds, if a man is reliable in his daily life, it means that he will also be responsible for the family in the future. For example, when a man shows that he can actively interact with children, his sexual attractiveness in the eyes of women will rise sharply, and this feeling will be generalized.
One thing that seems hard to relate to the "good father" preference on the surface is women's desire for romance. Buying a diamond for a girlfriend and buying daily necessities with exactly the same value as this diamond, even if it is a bag for the girlfriend, causes the girlfriend to feel completely different. The reason why there is a difference between the two is that romantic things must meet two characteristics: either extremely time-consuming and laborious, such as summoning the whole class of boys to make a heart shape with a candle downstairs for girls to confess, or extremely expensive, such as sending diamonds, or extremely dangerous. Romantic things must have no real value. The logic behind romance is: you are willing to spend so much time, energy and money for me to do this kind of thing that has no practical value, then you will do something of practical value for me and my children in the future, let alone do it. Diamonds are a testament to the fact that they are expensive and worthless.
Renee Zellweger is a smart woman who chose the down-to-earth and reliable Makdasi, which I think is why this film is named "The Edge of Reason". In fact, some people come into your life just to teach you a lesson and then turn away, and some people come into your life just to tell you, you are so deceitful. When you meet a person, every time you see him, you can't help but want to laugh and think that he is real and reliable, then you must cherish it. People's life, encounter love, find love, is not easy, if you meet and find, go to love.