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For Xiaofei, the beginning of school should be the best time for friends to get together. Shopping, stringing, fashionable clothes... The good life away from home was recorded by her with a camera. In order not to let parents think more, Xiaofei set up a "circle of friends that does not let him see me", which was thought to be seamless, but his parents had already noticed it.
Xiao Fei, who had reopened his circle of friends to his parents, suddenly felt tied. Seeing herself eating out, her parents love to tell her to go home early and go to bed early; once she takes a group photo on her PO, her parents will not forget to ask if there are any classmates they know in the question...
Therefore, it is too late to send a circle of friends, parents can not understand the Internet language can not be used, too cute selfies can not appear in the photo dynamics.
In the face of the questions and advice that came from the "overwhelming sea", Xiaofei felt very troubled. I have a hard time to have free time, but my parents like to grasp the small things that they think are not called. In this situation, she felt that it was better to shield her parents to be clean. Regarding the common topic with his parents, he is also more willing to create it in the form of video chat.
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At the beginning of the semester, Xiao Xu was favored by the God of Love, and this secret she did not share with anyone, and was ready to put it in the circle of friends and quietly announce it to everyone. That day, she struggled for a long time about whether to let her parents see this circle of friends, and finally, with a crossed heart, she chose to make it visible to everyone.
Xiao Xu, who was already preparing to meet the lesson of splitting his head and covering his face, unexpectedly received a blessing message from his parents: "Parents see your circle of friends, believe in your daughter's vision, and get along with others." When she heard this voice, she almost burst into tears. It turned out that when I grew up, I really ushered in the day when I could communicate with my parents on an equal footing.
After that, Xiao Xu completely got the "privilege" of releasing himself in the circle of friends, encountered an interesting professional class, and climbed the wall of which new idol... He will leave a playful circle of friends. Although parents often say that they can't understand it, they also love to like and leave messages below, read a little about their recent situation, and tell their stories and perceptions.
Xiao Xu thinks it is also very interesting, parents will not overcorrect, they can also get a casual and free. Over time, the parent seems to be able to read his mood from the dynamics, and the disputes and contradictions dissipate. At that time, Xiao Xu felt that it was really good to let his parents read themselves without saying more.
03
At home, Xiao Zheng is the "baby" of his parents one by one, and the canteen that is crowded after opening the life away from home, the internship work that will be required to work overtime at any time... Every minute and second had the urge to crash. Unexpectedly, the spit in the circle of friends that was thought to be nothing became a sentimental text in the eyes of his parents.
So a large string of "parental essays" appeared in the comment area to comfort himself, often starting with nicknames such as "baby daughter" and "baby", watching his breast names being exposed to mutual friends, making Xiao Zheng cry and laugh.
She felt that her parents were often overly worried, and how to look at it was a bit like a "humble" speech. But because she didn't want to make her parents sad, she could only start the idea of partial shielding. The beautiful sunset can be recorded, and their love lunch can be shared, but what they don't want to see is resolutely blocked. Even so, Xiao Zheng still felt a little embarrassed by the short peace, and the secret seed hidden in his heart was a little difficult.
She thought that one day she could edit a circle of friends happily, and she didn't care what her parents would think, so she could be her true self with their approval. Perhaps, the "little baby" seen in the eyes of parents is really not strong enough to fly alone.
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Do you want to block your parents in the circle of friends? In the eyes of many people, there are different answers.
Going out to study is a short absence from home, from seeing each other every day to being together in the cold and summer, and we may be farther away from our parents in the future. For them, the dynamics of the circle of friends seem to have become a great way to glimpse our lives, they may be clumsy and strong, but they also want to get a little connection with us, show their love, and also care for us.
Of course, the circle of friends dynamic is only one, and there are many ways to express our hearts. No matter how far we go, don't forget that the old man who gave us the seeds of life is still watching. Wherever we are, remember to leave a passage for love.
Source: Qing Xiaoxiao