Love and marriage are two different things, having a marriage does not mean having love, so what does it mean to be married? For men, what can marriage bring to them? Many people say that marriage is a woman's second life, and if you don't understand this sentence, you will definitely feel something after reading the following story.
My sister has been missing for 8 years without a trace
On June 15, 2011, Liu Dong's wife, He Mei, ran away from home for 8 years. In the past 8 years, He Mei's family has searched all the places and seen no clues.
He Mei is the third eldest in the family, due to an accident, her face was burned, resulting in her natural inferiority and sensitivity. She has a sister she loves most, And as the youngest daughter in the family, Sheli is anxious about her sister's disappearance.
But what makes Heli angry is that the brother-in-law not only conceals the truth about her sister's run away from home, but also goes to the door to beat up the 75-year-old father, and secretly takes photos of his son to threaten her, forcing Heli to go to her wife, and threatening to make them look good if they can't get it back.
Brother-in-law of the second cousin
He Li was not afraid of her brother-in-law, she was just worried about her sister, worried about whether she had an accident.
Brother-in-law Liu Dong is a second-in-command son with serious domestic violence, and the third sister complained to her more than once. Now that her sister is missing, her brother-in-law is spreading rumors outside that her wife does not return home every day and night, is addicted to gambling, has an improper style, and is not a good woman at all.
Liu Dong's actions make He Li wonder if his sister's disappearance is related to him? Otherwise, why would you stop yourself from searching? Seeing that the He family did not listen, they angrily and insulted.
In the past 8 years, He Li has visited the door many times to ask her brother-in-law whether there is the whereabouts of the third sister, and her brother-in-law Liu Dong will be particularly excited every time. In the face of Heli's questioning, he even threatened: Even if he beat her to death, what would happen? Even if the wife is run away by herself? You can't help me anyway.
The brother-in-law has the contact information of his sister
Since He Mei disappeared, He Mei's body has been worse than a year, and now the biggest wish is that his daughter can return safely, so He Li returned to her hometown from Shenzhen and was determined to find the third sister.
When He Li came to the door of Liu Dong's house, she did not see her brother-in-law, but instead saw her sister's mother-in-law.
The villagers saw He Lidu and surrounded them, and it turned out that Liu Dong told them that his wife was working in Guangdong, so he had not returned for 8 years.
However, the mother-in-law said that she was not clear, she only knew that on the day He Mei ran away from home, the two couples had a fight.
"Has Liu Dong ever found his wife"?
The old man shook his head: "I haven't looked for it."
Seeing He Li, Liu Dong's performance was as irritable as ever, but this time when he saw the media, his attitude softened, telling He Li that he had his wife's contact information, and said that his wife often talked to his daughter on the phone during the past 8 years.
Sister changed her name
Knowing that Liu Dong had his sister's contact number in his hand, He Li hurriedly asked him, very excited, and finally almost saw the third sister.
However, when He Li called according to the phone number, it was not the third sister He Mei who answered the phone, but a rescue station, and there was no He Mei in the aid station.
She did not want to miss this opportunity, she described her sister's physical characteristics to the staff, and the staff said that there was a woman named Ma Xiaoxiang who was very similar to her description.
He Li got this news and immediately rushed to the aid station, the staff took out the photo, He Li recognized at a glance, this is her third sister He Mei.
The staff provided her with a phone number, and Heli called according to the number, and it was a man who answered the phone, and when he learned of Herry's intentions, he said that he could meet.
He Li came to the agreed place, the other party was already waiting for her, and as soon as she opened her mouth, she called herself Ma Xiaoxiang's husband Li Yi.
Li Yi led He Li home, as soon as the door opened, He Li cried out, standing in front of him was not the third sister He Mei? He Mei couldn't cry when she saw her sister who had been separated for eight years, and the two sisters hugged each other tightly and cried bitterly.
Pity each other with the disease, and suffer bitterly
He Mei told his own experience, saying that since marrying Liu Dong has not had a good day, Liu Dong regarded beating her as a kind of fun, beating her 24 hours a day, and he Mei really couldn't stand it and ran away from home.
After leaving home, because he did not have a penny on his body, he could only wander around, and for a long time under the influence of Liu Dong's domestic violence, He Mei also suffered from headaches, and when he was serious, he also had temporary amnesia. He Mei, who had no way out, was desperate and threw away his documents and decided to commit suicide by jumping into the river, but fortunately was saved by Li Yi, who was passing by.
Li Yi and He Mei have the same disease, his wife has a tendency to domestic violence, from time to time to beat him and scold him, he can't stand it and divorced his wife.
After saving He Mei, seeing that He Mei's life was so pitiful, he felt pity, rented a house, and the two of them lived a life.
If one man owes you, there will definitely be another man who will make up for you. He Mei, who was beaten by Liu Dong and was full of injuries, was carefully taken care of by Li Yi, and every time she had a headache, she would take her to the hospital for treatment, and although her life was bitter, she was very happy.
In order to repay Li Yi for saving his life, He Mei sincerely lived with him and gave birth to a son and a daughter for him.
Seeing the happy expression on her sister's face, He Li was really happy for her, and she suggested that her sister go home with herself and make a decision with Liu Dong. Although He Mei's heart was very afraid, in the company of his sister and Li Yi, he still made up his mind to go back and divorce Liu Dong.
Say goodbye to the haze and embrace the light
When Liu Dong saw his wife return with a man, he was furious, shouting that he wanted to kill Heli, and scolded his wife.
He Mei felt particularly wronged, he married Liu Dong, who was ten years older than himself, at the age of 16, and gave birth to two children for him, but the other party scolded himself at every turn.
He Mei said that originally Liu Dong did not beat her, since returning from working in other places, he is like a changed person, often do not go home at night, but also with a woman on the phone to engage in ambiguity, since then, from time to time to beat her, but said to the outside world that he is addicted to gambling, and he does not return at night. For these, He Mei silently endured, as long as her husband could feed himself.
Now He Mei only wants to dissolve the marriage relationship with Liu Dong as soon as possible, in these 8 years, the current husband Li Yi is considerate to her, making her feel a lot of warmth, and she wants to be with Li Yi for life.
Because of domestic violence, He Mei suffered from headaches, Li Yi spent a lot of money for her, He Mei hoped that Liu Dong could compensate her for 130,000 yuan, and from then on, the two of them were clear. Unexpectedly, Liu Dong said that as early as three years ago, he divorced his wife.
It turned out that three years ago, Liu Dong reported his wife as a missing and dead person and filed a divorce with the court, and the application was approved. That is to say, the husband and wife relationship between Liu Dong and He Mei was terminated three years ago, and Liu Dong only threw out a sentence in a fluttering manner: I am only 40 years old, and I still need a wife.
Knowing the result, He Mei sat down, and heaven finally took pity on this woman. After mediation, Liu Dong said that he would not interfere with He Mei's family from now on.
After settling the grudge with her ex-husband, He Mei returned to her hometown and met her old father who had been separated for eight years, and the old man laughed happily, and his wish for many years was fulfilled. Finally, I sincerely wish this bitter woman that she can be treated tenderly by life in the future.
Domestic violence is only 0 times and countless times, many women choose to endure again and again in the face of husbands who love domestic violence, but patience will only make the other party inch forward, so what should we do?
Only a man who has no ability will vent his anger on his wife, and it is a little ridiculous to face outsiders who are grandsons and become warriors in the face of his wife.
When you are subjected to domestic violence for the first time, you must bravely fight back. Why is there very little chance that a woman with a hot personality will encounter domestic violence? Domestic violence men will only bully weaker than themselves, if you are stronger than him, he will be afraid of you.
One. When encountering domestic violence, the society collects evidence, reports it to the women's federation organization or directly reports to the police, do not continue to entangle with the other party, and decisive scorers or divorce are the right way.
Two. Men who like domestic violence are particularly concerned about face, the more irritable and irritable they are, the more gentle and elegant they will behave externally, if they collect evidence of domestic violence, they will directly expose it to the public, so that his true face is exposed to the world.
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