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Old men, who always seem to have a mysterious attraction of their own, attract many girls, can't help but want to get closer, involuntarily. In "The First Half of My Life", Lolo falls in love with his father's good friend Lao Zhuo is a typical example.
Luo Luo experienced the divorce of her parents since she was a child, and then followed her father for a while, followed her mother for a while, and lived a life of upheaval and displacement, and later after her father died, her mother did not want to see her, only her father's friend Lao Zhuo took her in and was very good to her.
Although Lao Zhuo is a little older, but when he was young, he was also spirited and handsome, and when he was older, he added some vicissitudes of charm, for Luo Luo, a girl who was extremely lacking in love in the original family, it was simply Ganlin after a long drought, so, in the long-term relationship, Luo Luo was moved, fortunately, Chen Daoming played the old Zhuo, there is integrity, there is a bottom line, he completely sees through Luo Luo's innocent mind, but he always presses it, does not give Luo Luo the opportunity to take advantage of it, and finally breaks Luo Luo's thoughts.
However, in reality, there are few old men like Lao Zhuo, who are well versed in the psychology of the little girl, so they use gentle traps to seduce them, and in the end, the girl is watching herself indulge step by step, but she cannot escape the entanglement of the emotional whirlpool. It wasn't until the day she woke up that she realized that it was stupid to fall in love with an old man.
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First of all, when I was in college, I had a silly white and sweet classmate, and at that time I was good with an uncle. The uncle seems to have opened a toilet paper factory, so this female classmate often brings back a lot of toilet paper from the dormitory, and as a neighboring dormitory, we also get a piece of the pie. It wasn't until later that I learned the origin of this paper, which frightened the people in our dormitory, to return the paper one after another, and the female classmate also said that we were cowards.
When we graduated, we were all running around looking for a job, and only she was arranged by the old man to work, so she played games in the dormitory every day. Later, after we set the job, she cried and came to our dormitory to complain, saying that she did not have the permission of the man, she called the man's original match, the result was angry, at that time just when the internship period expired, she thought that the work would be logical, but did not expect that her good job was dismissed by the boss for an internship period.
She went to the man to help, the man was completely cold and violent, ignored her at all, she went to his unit to find him, the man took her to a nearby café, clearly said, find him trouble again, have her good looks.
She was frightened, and now compared to this uncle and when he was good to her, it was almost like two people.
I advised her at that time, in fact, you should be glad that you found out that this extramarital affair was vain early, don't you think that you and your uncle are very far apart? You must obey him completely, but if you do this disobedience, you will be greeted by this kind of retaliation that you cannot prevent, and you will not be able to fight him; and even if you can always keep listening to him, then you are just like a captive canary, and your status can never be balanced. So, stop clinging to and trying to get it back, you're not his opponent at all.
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Old men don't take love seriously, but once a woman loses this relationship, it's enough for you
The old man's rank is far more advanced than we think, and the mind of a little girl is completely unobstructed in their eyes.
You occasionally mention that you want to eat a certain dish, he can take you to the top restaurant in the city to relieve your hunger, you occasionally mention that a certain brand of shoes is good, on your birthday, you can receive gifts from him carefully sent for you; you make a little fuss for no reason, he will not accuse you like a straight man, on the contrary, he will kiss and hug, lift high, and soothe your emotions incomparably;
And you encounter problems and obstacles in the workplace, he can always point out the problem for you to the point, with him, you are like carrying a living dictionary and Sun Wukong, he understands everything, he can withstand any situation, so you fall, you think he is the hero who put up colorful clouds to save you, but where in the world are there so many kind heroes? And you forget "Are God's gifts priced?" ”
A reader friend of mine just broke up with an old man not long ago. This man is a leader, has a family and children, and during his love affair with the reader, he confesses everything, but he does not deceive her, she herself is willing to fall.
And the reason for her downfall is simple, because this man is so good to her. She was just divorced at that time, still with a child, the days are very difficult, and this man sent warmth very timely, transferred her to a comfortable post, the treatment did not drop, chatted with her at night, gave her a variety of comforts, even the problem of children going to school also helped her solve it, said that the timely rain is not too much, and she wants to buy a house, the man is another to give her 500,000, but also found a developer to give her the lowest discount, she was fortunate to have the help of this man after her divorce, she will not fall into embarrassment.
Of course, she also has to pay the price, that is, to accompany him to the underground affair without a name. She said that she once wanted to live like this, but when she thought of her daughter getting bigger and bigger, she always felt that she should still become a family, be a serious person, and give her daughter a good direction in life.
She said, but she found it particularly difficult to cut. Although she didn't think she loved him much, once she wanted to give up this relationship, she still felt that the whole person was empty, and then insomnia, depression, hair loss, she didn't know what was wrong, in short, she couldn't return to the past. I said, that's right.
Old men in the extramarital affair will not actually invest in any real feelings, but once a woman enters the extramarital affair, it is almost impossible to be as ruthless as a man, a woman is an emotional animal, once she becomes dependent on a man, in letting her leave, it will make her experience bone-eating pain.
Therefore, women must understand that the good things and conveniences in this world are not in vain, and they all have to pay a price. And at that time, if you didn't want the benefits he gave you, you may not be as good as you are now, but you will be mentally free.
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Tu Lei once said his views on the love of the year. He said: "It is difficult to be in love for a long time if it is not culturally cultivated and at the same height as the level of knowledge. In secular yearless love, it is usually men who exchange wealth for women's beauty. Women, exchange beauty for enjoyment. ”
Yes, the so-called "love" given to you by old men is mostly a "fire pit", old men will not do uneconomical business, and the love he gives you is full of naked calculations. Once the East Window incident occurs and you have to terminate the relationship, you are far from his opponent.
Chen Yulin was sent to prison by Wu Xiubo, and the flight attendant paid nine million to Professor Lang, which is a bloody fact, even without these, the pain when you lose your feelings and withdraw from it is not something that ordinary people can bear.
So why not choose a man who is in the right age and have a good relationship? Although, in the love of peers, there is no game, and there is no dispute between back and forth. But feelings of this kind of thing, should not be this kind of evenly matched PK? Only in this kind of PK, you can have both pain and joy, both pain and growth, love should not be something that is at your fingertips, but you must pay hard work and sweat, passion and pain, and work hard to get the rewards of life.
And the love given by the old man seems to be a shortcut, but it is actually a pit.
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