Life is wonderful because of stories, read other people's stories, and feel your own life. The story I want to tell today is about Uncle Li's marriage, let's listen to it together!
Self-narrator: Li Bin (pseudonym)
1【House of Singles Who Are Looked Down upon】
I am Li Bin (pseudonym), born in a remote township in Hunan, where my parents have been farmers for generations. In our small place, they have their duty to be people all their lives, and my father used to be a secretary in the brigade, because he went to junior high school, and he was still a cultural person in their generation, after all, he knew a few big characters.
My mother was an honest and frugal rural woman, no way, it was really a bad economy at that time, and every family had a difficult time. For the sake of the family, she would be overly frugal, and when everyone else was on the lights, they would go to bed very early every day, just to save that little electricity. Reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, the kind that is more critical to people, hard work for a lifetime, a penny is broken into two halves. Because of the special diligence and thrift, in that era we were a rare million yuan household.
My family's frugality is famous in the village, and some money has been saved, and it is inevitable that some people will be red-eyed and say something bad. Because my brother and I are of marriageable age, we have not yet married. As long as there is a conflict with the neighbor because of some things, people will point at my mother's nose and scold, what is the great, what is the use of that little money, the son is not a single stick, your family will be extinct.
Sometimes the honest mother, who is always a bad neighbor, will only secretly wipe away tears. In fact, it is not nothing to say that the kiss is not nothing, I also talked about a girl before, when I was ready to bring it to the house, the girl would talk about it because of the neighbors, saying that my family was not good, and the money was valued seriously, and the people were looked down upon. In this way, the countryside has been passed on from ten to ten, ten to a hundred, and all the flavors have changed.
At that time, the girls in the ten miles did not want to marry our family, our two brothers were getting older and older, the years were merciless, the parents were old, I was 40 years old, and I did not have a skill, the family conditions were now general, we became a veritable single stick, two brothers in a family could not get a wife, we were famous.
2【Blind Date Meets Partner】
At the age of 45, a fellow who worked in a fireworks factory told me something, and he asked me: "Do you want to start a family, he said that there is a 26-year-old girl on their team, who has some mental problems, but is healthy." Because her parents are older and in poor health, they can't take care of her for a lifetime, and they are willing to say that they are protégés, but they are also a matter of heart, and the old man can go with peace of mind. ”
I thought about how the 26-year-old, whose age was so different from mine, could look up to me. The fellow said: "This is not necessarily true, you try it, anyway, just go and see it, and it doesn't affect anything." ”
Listening to the words of my fellow countrymen, I also let go, anyway, I am ready to spend a lifetime of bare sticks, and it is not a big deal to see. The next day, I put on clean and tidy clothes and shaved my beard, which was my most grand blind date.
Riding on a fellow countryman's motorcycle, more than a dozen miles away from home, not far. When I arrived at my destination, I entered the door of the other party's house, and the room was full of people, and I was somewhat embarrassed to smoke one by one. The countryside is like this, and everyone likes the occasions that are lively.
I glanced at the girl, medium-sized, fat, sitting stupidly on the couch, the snot on her face was first-class, and she quickly wiped it with her sleeve, and the skin on her face in the winter was frozen and somewhat cracked. Her mother said that no matter how cold she was in winter, she liked to run outside.
The neighbor in the same room jokingly asked her: "Xiaomei, do you like this brother?" It's okay not to talk," she replied, "Like, brother buys something to eat" As soon as she spoke, her eyes would blink and she would roll her eyes. The first time I saw her talking, I was a little scared.
It was the first time we met, and the day after we came back, my fellow asked me what I thought. In fact, at the beginning, I was quite entangled, although the other party said that he was young, but he had mental problems, and I had to take care of her. But after thinking about it, my situation is like this, and no normal woman wants to marry me. A lifetime of loneliness is also a life, although it is a mentally retarded, just as a companion, the end of this life.
3[Mentally handicapped wife, treasure in the palm of her hand]
The day we pulled the marriage certificate, our parents-in-law signed it with their household registration books and psychiatric forms. After a meal with her parents, I was legal with her. Later, when I returned to the village, I still set up a few tables like a decent, invited the people on the team to come to dinner, and the family was only 26 years old, I was so old, how to do it, I had to be decent, and I couldn't wronged her. Second, in recent years, the family has not done anything important, and I also want to take this good opportunity to collect some gift money to come back, which is the consistent practice of rural people.
After getting married, my life has really changed a lot, there are many things to do, but there is also a little more fun every day. Give her a bath, tie her hair, and although her IQ is only a three-year-old child, there is something cute about her. As the days went on, she became very dependent on people, and she had to go with me when I went to the ground to do things, and followed her everywhere.
The fact that I married my wife has become the best talking point for the neighbors after tea and dinner. Some people joke about me, a lot of age, single life is not good, but to find a burden to come back. But I don't think she is a burden at all, her parents are dead, at least I went home, in the cold and clear home, there is a person, someone called me, I think this marriage is worth it.
Xiaomei sometimes menstrual events come, they don't know, just at the beginning, I am a big boss is also careless, do not know what to do? Let her make a few uglinesses in front of her neighbors. Later, I used to note her cycle time and prepare a tampon for her.
In the beginning, the neighbors deliberately tried to tease her, asking her to call this or that, and even more excessively, some people wanted her to roll on the ground. After I knew it, I scolded her one by one, thinking in my heart, no matter how smart she is, she is the daughter-in-law I am marrying, and no one can be bullied. The parents-in-law are very satisfied with my intimate care for their daughter, saying that the daughter is still in good health and has found a conscience, and they are very relieved.
4【Who said my family is the queen!】 Hi Daddy, Happy Blossom】
Xiaomei married for two years, she occasionally has nerves, running outside in the middle of the night, it is me and my brother outside to find home, most of the time she is still obedient, do not give me trouble, give her good food, drink well, she is also quiet.
One month, her menstrual affairs suddenly stopped coming, I did not understand, I thought it was normal, until one day the fat aunt came to me and said that your family Xiaomei had gained weight during this time, are you giving her too much to eat. I said where, this time should be thin is, she has a bad appetite, often sleeps at home, does not eat.
In the following days, Xiaomei's belly was getting bigger and bigger, and I just thought, is she pregnant? When I said that the neighbor's aunt didn't believe me. It turned out that they had always known that Xiaomei had said two family affairs before, and they had all been returned, because the third family found me because the man could not give birth to a child.
I still don't feel at ease, went to the town hospital to check, a life of most of the life, there is good news, Xiaomei is pregnant, I happily forgot what year and month today is. The doctor was still complaining about how I was a father, and I came to the hospital in the fourth month of pregnancy. Fortunately, when the children were all healthy, I put my mind at ease and announced to my parents-in-law one by one, who was so happy that he almost fainted, and told me to take good care of them.
Almost 50 years old, when grandpa's age, but be a father, God opened his eyes, although everything came a little late, but in the end gave me, I am very grateful and content. In the following days, I worked hard to serve Xiaomei, did not dare to be sloppy at all, and when I thought of being a father, I couldn't sleep happily.
5【Full moon wine, Grandpa sent a house with pride】
Pregnant in October, a childbirth, it is really a gift from heaven, Xiaomei actually gave birth to a big fat boy for me, I am like a dream, pinch myself a few times, the pain feels real. Taking care of my wife and children and being discharged from the hospital, the first thing I did was to immediately run to the grave of the child's grandmother to announce the good news, and when our family finally had a back, I cried with joy in front of the grave.
When the child was full moon, I invited the best village cook, set up more than 10 tables, lively and lively, I obviously felt that those who had taunted me and married a mentally handicapped woman as a wife, seeing the way I look now, I feel more or less punched in the face. And I set up so many tables and banquets, just to let them see how good I am now, have a wife, have children, and are much better than those who can't marry a wife.
When I was busy before and after, someone suddenly called me, "Look, look, big ben, Li Bin, when did you get married to a rich man?" "I'm confused and don't know who it is?" Getting off the bus was a man in his 50s, with a big belly and extraordinary temperament, and a woman dressed in exquisite clothes, with large bags of things to carry off the car. Rural people have short knowledge, but everyone who comes down from this kind of car, everyone must respect a few points, and they all look strangely the same.
My parents-in-law hurriedly motioned for me to come and greet the guests, and I hurriedly beckoned them to enter the door. Sitting down to hand over the cigarette, my parents-in-law said to me, "Call Daddy, Mommy." I was amazed at where The Dad came from. Later, I learned that this was Xiaomei's biological father, before the family in order to have a son, they sent Xiaomei to my parents-in-law's house as a daughter, and my mother-in-law was sick and could not give birth to a child, so she treated Xiaomei as if she were her own. Only when she was 5 years old, she had a high fever, and before she could see it, Xiaomei completely burned out her brain and became what she is now.
Over the years, Xiaomei's biological parents have become older and older, and they feel very guilty about abandoning Xiaomei that year, and now they only want to do their best to make up for her. Xiaomei's biological father came to hold the child, and the birth mother took out a red book, which is a 120-square-meter house real estate certificate, in Changsha. Saying that it was a meeting gift for the child, he said that the child could go to School in Changsha in the future, and grandpa could bear the cost.
Everything that happened was like a dream, looking for a wife, actually giving birth to a son, giving birth to a son, and a rich old man ...
7 [My fate begins with marrying a wife and reversing things]
The old man opened several restaurants in Changsha, is a very hard-working businessman, considering my future livelihood problems, he always talks to me, how to plan his life, after all, he is a family person, to be a good father, to set a good example for his children, he will try his best to help me.
After repeated discussions, taking advantage of the advantages in the countryside, we decided to engage in planting, the old man invested, I planted vegetables in this greenhouse, raised some chickens and ducks, and supplied him with those restaurants, one to solve my employment problem, and the other to his restaurant can also get reliable organic vegetables, the best of both worlds.
Now my life is no longer as muddy as it used to be, and I have my own goals and directions. Not only to take good care of my wife and children, but also to take care of my farming industry. The days are getting better day by day, and the son is growing up day by day. Thanks to my wife, I have a son and a life now.
8【Conclusion】
In fact, a man's life, a person can live a very dashing life, but the feeling of having a family is completely different, responsible, with their own children, life is full of rush. Although it is said that one person has enough to eat, the whole family is not hungry, but it is also helpless.
In the past, I lived a muddy life, and when I was in my 40s, I had a family and children, and I began to mature and know the meaning of hard work.
When a person was bare, he was laughed at and looked down upon, and later married a wife, which was also a variety of irony. Now those people are shut up . Because they're all growing vegetables together in my greenhouse, there's no time for nonsense.
For the rest of my life, live a down-to-earth life, we all have to work hard, as if everyone describes me as, the iron tree blossoms, the better it gets, yes, I want to work harder and amaze everyone with my achievements.
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