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Qian Yan'er's heart was blocked during this time, and she wanted to find someone to complain about it, but she was afraid that others would shatter the three views, which was simply too strange!
She was pregnant in October, gave birth, and added a big fat son to her husband Liu Yuan, and she had extra milk, saving a lot of milk powder money.
This was a good thing for everyone, but some time ago she suddenly found that there was less and less fresh milk stored in the refrigerator.
This is really strange, the son has been drinking the hot milk on her body, the milk stored in the refrigerator is just in case, the son has not moved yet, where did the milk go?
Under her confusion, she finally found the answer in her mother-in-law's sneaky behavior.
It turned out that the mother-in-law carried her behind her back and secretly gave the milk to her father-in-law to drink, which was simply a matter of ruining the three views for Qian Yan'er.
The milk she stored for her son was actually drunk by her father-in-law?
This spread out are afraid of others, what ghost operation?
She was furious, looking for her mother-in-law theory, but the mother-in-law in turn beat a rake, saying that the father-in-law had done the operation and needed to supplement nutrition, and the milk bought in the supermarket had ready-made human milk that was nutritious?
Besides, she has enough milk, and her son can't finish drinking, so when she puts it there, it expires, isn't it also wasted?
The father-in-law will help to drink a little, one to reduce waste, and the other to enhance nutrition.
In this way, Qian Yan'er's pattern is small, and her in-laws are clearly helping her to be diligent and thrifty, but she is not grateful.
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Qian Yan'er alone could not talk about her in-laws' nonsense, and couldn't help but call Liu Yuan, who was on a business trip abroad, to get angry.
However, Liu Yuan's side was tight on time, the task was heavy, and he hurriedly said a few perfunctory words, and this matter was temporarily put aside.
The most taboo in marriage is mutual suspicion, paying attention to a mutual understanding and tolerance.
Therefore, Qian Yan'er did not twist Liu Yuan's troubles, she understood that his work was not easy, in the end it was all for this family.
From the time she was pregnant to now, she has not worked for more than a year, her in-laws have long lost the ability to work, and the whole family has pointed to Liu Yuan's life alone.
The pressure can be imagined, if Liu Yuan is not busy at work, she will not let her in-laws move in with the two people.
Since the ancient mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are contradictory, she has long understood this truth.
But there is really no way, Liu Yuan has to travel for work, so he has to ask his in-laws in his hometown to temporarily move over and help take care of this small family.
The in-laws were also cheerful, carrying a large bag and a small bag, when Qian Yan'er was still feeling guilty, after all, the father-in-law had just finished the operation, and should have been recuperating at home and taken care of by the mother-in-law.
At this time, the mother-in-law not only had to take care of her father-in-law, but also had to serve her and her son, for which she was extremely grateful.
During the month, the mother-in-law did serve her comfortably, and the mother-in-law's dedication to this small family was in her eyes and in her heart.
In addition, she has no mother since she was a child, and she has also sworn that she will be as filial as her mother-in-law in the future.
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Unfortunately, after a long time, the shortcomings of the in-laws have gradually been revealed, and there are many innocuous things, and Qian Yan'er has silently endured.
For example, the in-laws do not flush after urinating, Qian Yan'er reminded many times, they said at first that it was to save water, and then simply used that perfunctory attitude.
Qian Yan'er thought that they came from a hard day, there was no weight, every time before going to the toilet, she first took the water to flush it.
For another example, the in-laws rare children, often mouth to mouth kisses, and they do not love to brush their teeth, every time Qian Yan'er wants to open her mouth to stop, but can see the in-laws really love the appearance of their sons, and swallow the words raw, they are afraid of hurting the heart of the in-laws.
There are still many things that are trivial, and Qian Yan'er does not want to mention them again.
Only the habit of her in-laws entering her room and not loving to knock on the door made her very mad, and Liu Yuan was fine when she was at home, at least not so embarrassed.
But liu yuan left on a business trip, sometimes she was nursing a child in the room, and the father-in-law, a big man, suddenly broke in, and the atmosphere was particularly strange.
Qian Yan'er has reminded her many times about this, and her father-in-law only copes with it with his mouth, but his actions have not changed.
Every time Qian Yan'er milks a child, she can only sneak around like a thief, and then lock the door to feed her with peace of mind.
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It is also blamed that before Qian Yan'er married Liu Yuan, she did not have a good understanding of the behavior habits of her in-laws and did not know that they looked like this.
But when it comes to understanding, when she and Liu Yuan were in love, where did she have time to understand?
Originally, she was busy at work, her father's health was not good, she was busy every day, and even her acquaintance with Liu Yuan was bumped into because of hurry.
As soon as I bumped into Liu Yuan, this relationship began, and it was four or five years to talk to him, which was strange to say, but the two people who were so busy, but they managed this relationship very well.
It may be because Liu Yuan has a good personality, looks good, and more importantly, he is very self-motivated, so Qian Yan'er did not bother to think about it so much and married him without hesitation.
Despite the poor conditions in his family, although he also has many minor problems.
When getting married, the in-laws could not take out the bride price, because the money was given to Liu Yuan for the down payment, Qian Yan'er was kind-hearted, and felt that the life was two people living, as long as Liu Yuan was good to her, self-motivated, it didn't matter if he took the bride price or not.
The wedding ceremony was only a simple invitation to two relatives and elders.
Qian Yan'er's understanding made her mother-in-law feel pleased, and Liu Yuan was even more fond of her, so she turned around and changed the name of the real estate deed, he said that in this life, this house can only write her name.
But Qian Yan'er has been touched for a long time, and it will be worth it no matter how hard and tired she is in the future.
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After the marriage, the couple worked together to make money, and they wanted to pay off the mortgage earlier.
Until Liu Yuan was promoted and raised, a person was enough to afford the family expenses, Qian Yan'er dared to have a child, and was at ease to raise a fetus at home.
When she was eight months pregnant, her father-in-law had an operation due to poor health, and although the money was not much, it needed nutrition to be slowly raised in the later stage.
Then it was Qian Yan'er who gave birth and needed someone to take care of the confinement, so he took over his in-laws, and a lot of things happened in front of him.
She had never heard that her father-in-law dared to drink her daughter-in-law's milk with a thick old face, and after her daughter-in-law became angry, she did not think about repentance, but felt that it was deserved.
This kind of thing, people don't dare to make it up like this, right?
Anyway, Qian Yan'er thought well, and when Liu Yuan returned from this business trip, he let his in-laws go back to his hometown, and he should recuperate from illness and rest.
If she stayed any longer, she would really be tempted to quarrel with them, affecting her feelings, and Liu Yuan was also embarrassed in the middle.
Seriously, people with three different views really can't live under the same roof, keep a little distance, and this family relationship can barely be maintained.
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However, when Liu Yuan returned from a business trip, Qian Yan'er held back his words again, seeing that he had lost a lot of weight, his beard was pulled, and his face was full of exhaustion.
But in order not to let them worry, she squeezed out a smile, and Qian Yan'er felt very uncomfortable.
Thinking about it, she was the one who asked her in-laws to come here, and it was she who wanted to drive people away at this time.
Why couldn't she stop for a while?
Liu Yuan traveled from place to place for this family, living a better life for her and her son, and was very busy.
She really shouldn't bother Liu Yuantu anymore, at least not now, she should let him take a hot bath and relax.
Because this is the nest they love, it should be a warm and warm place, not a purgatory that makes Liu Yuan physically and mentally exhausted.
If there is something to talk about later, just bear with it, and when the son is weaned, the in-laws will naturally go back, and before that, they will not store milk.
The in-laws are not bad people to the extreme, at most they are not communicating smoothly, after all, the ideological dimension is not on the same level.
Qian Yan'er thought of being patient like this first, not creating troubles for Liu Yuan, which was the greatest help and support for his work.
Unexpectedly, a few days later, the in-laws took the initiative to go back to their hometown, and solemnly apologized to Qian Yan'er before leaving.
Saying that they are old and confused, they really should not do that kind of thing to embarrass her, and I hope that she will not take it to heart and forgive them.
When these words came out of the in-laws' mouths, they were very sincere, not at all like gambling or hypocrisy.
This family is so big, people who know about this matter can't get out of this house.
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Qian Yan'er ran to ask Liu Yuan, and Liu Yuan scratched his head and was a little embarrassed to admit that this matter was indeed secretly coordinated by him behind his back.
In fact, he had long seen Qian Yan'er's dilemma, even if Qian Yan'er did not complain, his mother had complained to him from time to time, his mother was a countryman, and his vision was somewhat short-sighted.
Doing things doesn't think so much, basically doing what you think of, without thinking about the consequences.
He has been with Qian Yan'er for so many years, of course, he knows her personality, generally does not touch her bottom line, she will not easily get angry.
Moreover, Qian Yan'er is kind, and he knows his reasoning even more deeply, so that he can't pretend to be confused and let her swallow her breath and hold back.
It was his parents who did it wrong, it was wrong, and he wouldn't ignore his wife just because it was his parents.
Besides, his parents went back to the countryside to recuperate, which was much better than nesting in this city.
In the future, he will travel as little as possible and try to find as much time as possible to accompany his wife and son.
He has never left from scratch, Qian Yan'er has never left, and now is the time when he needs his company, and he should do a good job as a husband and father.
Liu Yuan opened up his thoughts to Qian Yan'er before he breathed a sigh of relief.
After Qian Yan'er listened to his thoughts, a wave of her brain flew into his arms, and her eyes were red when she accidentally.
How long have they been, how long have they not hugged?
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It is the pressure from society and the trivialities of life that consume their enthusiasm, and it is chai rice oil salt and frivolity that drown out romance.
But love, which has always existed, is carefully guarded by two people who understand and tolerate each other, and love does not diminish in the slightest.
Liu Yuan hugged her tightly and asked, "I have become a mother, why do I still cry like a child?" ”
Qian Yan'er did not answer, she was afraid that as soon as she opened her mouth, she couldn't help but choke, and with a crying voice, she would be laughed at by Liu Yuan.
Originally, she thought that Liu Yuan did not take her words to heart, coupled with the busy work, he must have forgotten those things long ago.
However, Liu Yuan not only did not forget, but also secretly handled this matter well, neither breaking out the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, nor letting her suffer all grievances.
Liu Yuan also said: "Over the years, we have grown together, wind and rain together, many times, not you need me, but I can't do without you, there are also many times, I carelessly let you suffer a lot of grievances, sorry."
Wife, I especially want you and my son to have a better life, so I just played the work of life, but I ignored your feelings, you are now in need of my company, how can I be absent?
When you told me about that ridiculous thing on the phone, I was also angry and speechless, but at that moment, I didn't know what to do? On the one hand is my hard-working parents, and on the other hand, my understanding wife...
Please forgive me for my cowardice at that time, my parents are not bad at heart, maybe they are really old and a little confused, now that they have gone back to their hometown, you don't have to worry about that matter anymore, okay wife? I hope you have a good time. ”
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If it weren't for that ridiculous thing, Qian Yan'er wouldn't have found that Liu Yuan was so able to speak the Tao, and Geng Yuhuai wouldn't have been there, but her heart was a little awkward.
However, she believes that time can dilute everything, just like Liu Yuan said, the in-laws are not bad, and she does not have to hold on to this little thing all the time.
Besides, she has found a good husband in her life, what is she not satisfied with?
At least from the perspective of the way this matter is handled, she did not choose the wrong person, Liu Yuan is a responsible and worthy of lifelong good man.
Qian Yan'er is lucky and happy.
How many men have money to learn badly, and in order to prove that little sense of charm, go out and mess around and raise a little three?
How many men are out there, ignoring the affairs of the family, ignoring them?
And these, Liu Yuan did not have, his dedication to Qian Yan'er, remembered in his heart, his love for her, not diminished in the slightest.
There is not so much vigorousness between them, there is not so much sweet talk, some are just mutual understanding in life, spiritual encouragement.
Adjust good chai rice oil and salt, dissolve good chicken feathers and garlic skin, the so-called white head to old, probably no secret, but in love, save a little touched, when there is a contradiction, more understanding and tolerance.
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