Tonight (November 23rd), the second season of the Japanese special episode of "Do Not Disturb" is about to be unveiled. The realistic version of "Nobita" came on a blind date, which triggered a big discussion about "wife's right to speak". How do lovers get along? Meng Fei brilliantly concluded: "Men must learn to coax women, and women must learn to stop at the right time." Another male guest's emotional experience is quite representative, "After she gave up her career and returned to the family, we had fewer and fewer common topics and eventually broke up." Everyone couldn't help but sigh: growing up together is the best look of love.
The realistic version of "Nobita" appears handsomely
"The wife's right to speak" has attracted attention
Male guest Taro Takeuchi is a chinese-Japanese mixed-race handsome man, his father is Japanese, his mother is Chinese, and the female guests all said that his looks and temperament are particularly similar to Nobita in "Doraemon", "It is simply a realistic version of 'Nobita'!" "Takeuchi Taro is an architectural designer, and has also lived in the United Kingdom and the United States, with a diverse and inclusive personality, coupled with the artistic temperament that has been cultivated since childhood, as well as the handsome appearance and personality of the dress, so that the female guests are full of good feelings and interest in him.
What made the girls on the field appreciate more was Takeuchi Taro's emphasis on the scene of "the wife's right to speak", "Some Japanese boys have machismo, in the Traditional Japanese family, men are often dominant, and there are not many boys who can cook in Japan." I pay great attention to the equality and sharing of two people together, and my wife's voice in the family is also very important, and I am willing to go to the kitchen for the future one, and when she comes back from work, there will be a delicious meal waiting for her. Jiang Zhenyu also praised: "The words of the male guests really speak to the hearts of the female guests, which will be a good experience for girls in the future." ”
The female guests also expressed their attitude: "The best way to manage love and family is to participate together, machismo is not allowed, and women's right to speak is also very important." Love needs to be balanced, and there should be equal respect for each other, and two people can only go longer together if they look at each other equally. Many girls used the lamp to express their recognition of the male guests, and Lu Mengxin was even more excited to confess: "I only want to leave the lamp for a person who deserves it, and I look forward to you taking me away, I am very sincere!" The three teachers also matched: "The two people, regardless of temperament or appearance, look particularly matched!" "In the end, can two people come together smoothly?
How do lovers get along?
Meng Fei: Men must learn to coax women, and women must learn to stop at the right time
It is said that people are not tired of getting along with each other, which is the best relationship, and this is especially true between lovers, and they can not get tired of getting along for a long time. Qiu Yufeng, 30, currently lives in Tokyo, Japan, and runs a milk tea shop. Talking about the criteria for choosing a mate, he stressed: "If you want to find someone who can understand me, don't get too tired when the two people are together." Therefore, he is more inclined to find a peer, "younger girls may be more playful and uncertain." I am about the same age as I am more mature, and it will be easier to get along. ”
How can lovers get along without getting tired? Female guests suggested that first of all, when choosing a mate, you should choose a partner with the same three views, each other can better understand each other, no matter how you chat and do things, you can be on a channel, thinking about problems can be on one level; secondly, you must know more about each other, try to catch up with each other's pace, you can gradually turn each other's interests and hobbies into your own hobbies, so that two people have more common topics and common languages; in addition, two people must learn to tolerate and understand each other, after all, each other's growth environment is different. There will be certain differences in living habits and thinking habits, you should learn to seek common ground while reserving differences, consider problems from each other's point of view, give each other enough understanding and respect, and constantly look for a balance between two people to make getting along more relaxed.
Talking about the topic of lovers getting along, Meng Fei brilliantly concluded: "Men must learn to coax women, and women must learn to stop at the right time." Huang Lan also suggested: "Girls will not always be so rational, sometimes they just want the other party to give her a little more love." Boys should study girls more and spend a little more energy on emotional communication. Between lovers, don't worry too much about how much one party pays, and use a little care for each other to make getting along more harmoniously. ”
At the scene, the male guests selected Two high-value girls, Jiang Yilun and Chai Rin, into the final constituency, can he successfully hold hands?
Returning to family for love?
Growing up together is the best form of love
Wu Yue, a male guest who has been confused for nearly a year, runs a kimono company in Kyoto, Japan, and has done a very successful career, which can be said to be the most representative Chinese in the Japanese kimono circle. However, his emotional path was not smooth, and he once had a failed marriage. The turning point of the relationship between the two occurred after the woman returned to the family, "After she returned to the family, her life was gradually disconnected from society, when the company was developing rapidly, I was getting busier and busier, and at the same time improving rapidly." There were fewer and fewer common topics between the two men and eventually separated. ”
The female guests couldn't help but sigh: "Girls really can't give up their careers for love, can't stand still, that will be rejected." Girls must love themselves and work hard, the other party will love you more, and the two people can go better. Meng Fei also said: "Only when you are more excellent, can you attract better people, you can't say that you hate me badly, I will wait for the person who does not dislike me to appear, I will definitely wait, that is called true love." No, if you're bad and you attract someone who likes you, the other person probably won't be too good either. ”
Huang Lan's words touched people's hearts even more, "Why do some girls give up their jobs? A lot of times she's escaping a kind of social responsibility, often when the work is not so happy, not so smooth, and when she suffers a lot, she begins to wonder, can I return to the family? People should first pursue their own social value, and do not expect to meet a golden turtle son-in-law to take them away when they feel so hard. In fact, every step of our life is decided by ourselves, do not push the responsibility of life tragedy to others, that is because you have given up on yourself, do not talk about love, say it is your own sacrifice. ”
Just like the personal experience of male guests, if the growth distance between two people is too far, they will slowly lose their common language. After entering marriage, in order to have a stable happiness, both people must maintain the two abilities of independence and self-growth, strive to improve themselves, and create a better life together. Their own optimization and the other's changes will continue to bring surprises to two people, and will also make two people more hopeful about the future and grow together, which is the best appearance of love.
For the other half of the future, Wu Yue specifically asked "must have an independent character and ideas", can he hold hands with the person on the stage?
【Watching tips】:Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" Japan Special Season 20:30 starts tonight (Saturday, November 23) Wonderful not to be missed!