Home is the smallest country, and the country is tens of millions. On May 12, on the occasion of the 31st International Day of Families, the Guangdong Women's Federation's 2024 Family Education Publicity Week and the "5.15" International Day of Families "Guangdong Family Beauty" series of activities of the Panyu District Women's Federation "Marriage and Family University" public welfare sharing meeting was held in the Rabbit Dad School in Panyu District, Guangzhou.
It is reported that the event was jointly sponsored by the Guangdong Provincial Women's Children's Fund and the Guangzhou Panyu District Women's Federation, and jointly supported by the Guangdong Women's Volunteer Association, the Parent School Professional Committee of the Guangdong Family Education Research Association, the Guangzhou Family Education Research Promotion Association, the Guangzhou Youth Development Foundation, and the Rabbit Daddy Education Fund.
The sharing session was carried out in the form of a combination of on-site participation and online live broadcast, and specially invited the director of the Guangdong Women's Children's Foundation, the vice president of the Guangdong Women's Volunteer Association, the "Three Beautiful Families" of the Chinese Parents' Day, the "Top Ten Most Beautiful Families" in Guangdong, the "Civilized Family" in Guangdong Province, and the winner of the Top Ten Outstanding Fathers in Guangdong. Cheng Min shared "Good Family Style Makes a Good Family", which lasted for 2 hours, and the number of offline and online participants was nearly 10,000.
What is family style? Bunny Dad introduced with questions, which aroused everyone's thinking. Family style is a family atmosphere passed down from ancestors and a value code for future generations. Combined with his own growth and family education experience, Dad Rabbit analyzes in simple terms the good family style from ancestors, from the family, from the family, and from the inheritance. The stories of our ancestors are actually our beliefs and our roots. Family style, family education, and family motto are a kind of education and a kind of inheritance.
Then, everyone listened to the family style story of three generations of Daddy Rabbit's family. In the experience of Rabbit Dad's "Three From": medicine, business, and teaching, I understood the life creed of "but do good deeds, don't ask about the future".
The family style originates from the ancestors and has been passed down from generation to generation.
Rabbit's father's original name was Wu Mingzhi, and when he was 13 years old, his grandfather died. My grandfather was an orthopedic surgeon, and many people spontaneously remembered and saw him off at the farewell ceremony, and the villagers spoke highly of my grandfather. That is, from that day on, Daddy Rabbit was determined to set an example for his grandfather and be a likeable person.
Rabbit father's grandfather Wu Quanbang and uncle Wu Jinbang have won the championship of Zhongshan, Nanhai and Shunde double boat races. Before the founding of the People's Republic of China, Daddy Rabbit's uncle donated a batch of stone benches to Xiaolan Park, which were also engraved with the words "Wu Jinbang sent", and these stone benches are still serving the citizens today...... The spirit of diligence, frugality, pragmatism and dedication of the ancestors has always influenced Bunny.
Daddy Rabbit's mother is a well-respected orthopedic surgeon in Shili Eight Townships, honest and conscientious, and goes to work in the hospital early to treat patients. Mother's benevolence and benevolence, Dad Rabbit sees it in his eyes. When the patient comes, the mother will immediately put down the dishes and chopsticks and serve the patient first. When she saw that the patient was cold, the mother would ask the rabbit father to take out the best clothes and put them on for the patient. Mother warms every patient with tenderness. Mother is always a role model. She often admonishes Dad Rabbit to empathize, but to suffer small losses, and never take advantage. Take care of yourself, do your own things, don't give what you should do to others, and don't make trouble for others.
Rabbit dad "three from", good teaching, good words, good deeds.
Under the influence of his mother, Dad Rabbit also became an orthopedic surgeon, working in the Panyu District Maternal and Child Health Hospital, and was a doctor who resolutely did not accept red envelopes and did not prescribe kickback drugs. Arrive early and open for patients on weekends. Not only that, he is also a "literary youth", active in the literary and artistic stage of Panyu as an amateur singer and host. During the day, he wore a white coat to work in the hospital, and at night he wore a white tunic to perform on stage, singing "My Chinese Heart". Cheng Min is the "stage name" of Rabbit's father, and because he is young, he resembles Zhang Mingmin, so he has the name of "Panyu Zhang Mingmin".
Later, Dad Rabbit gave up medicine and went into business. Break out of your comfort zone and experience more possibilities in life. As the owner of an advertising agency, he is very busy, not only responsible for employees, expanding business, but also often doing public welfare. Every year, 6%-8% of the profits of the company under his name are invested in public welfare undertakings, and he has no time to take care of his small family, so that he has no way to accompany his daughter. When her daughter was in the third grade, she cried that she was like a stray dog. So, Dad Rabbit reflected on himself and decided to use pen and paper to write a letter to his daughter to communicate. From her daughter's third grade to her third year of high school, she wrote for ten years, leaving more than 300,000 words of family letters, giving her a special companionship and love. Because of his warm education for his daughter, he was called "Chinese Rabbit Dad" by the media.
In this kind of letter, the signature of the rabbit father is "big friend", the wife is "middle friend", and the daughter is "little friend". Respect is based on equality, the Bunny family advocates democracy, big and small things are communicated through letters, and everyone's opinions are respected. Actively communicate and use your thumb to guide your child from "obedient" to "conversational". Through the warm companionship of "Diary and Family Letters", her daughter Weiwei grew up to be a national volunteer, and during her graduate studies, she taught at Confucius Institutes in Europe and served as a cultural envoy.
In 2010, Dad Rabbit was selected as "Top Ten Outstanding Fathers in Guangdong" by the Guangdong Women's Federation, and after being featured in Phoenix Satellite TV's "Luyu Appointment" column twice, more and more parents came to him to ask for experience in educating children, and thus embarked on the road of teaching. Bunny Dad is not just a person, but also an educational proposition. He advocated that as parents, we should be gentle, open-minded, calm, pragmatic and sober.
Teach by example, do things with heart, and be a man with love.
In the past ten years, Daddy Rabbit's family has been enthusiastic about public welfare, and has been engaged in traditional culture, family education promotion, women and child protection and youth growth publicity work with his wife and daughter, and has carried out more than 800 lectures. It has successively set up the Rabbit Dad Education Fund, self-raised funds to establish the "Rabbit Dad School", launched the "Travel with Love with Rabbit Dad" public welfare research project, and the Guangzhou Panyu "Good Parents" Women's Volunteer Propaganda Team formed by Rabbit Dad was also awarded the "Guangdong Province Women's Volunteer Demonstration Propaganda Team" to mobilize the majority of families to participate in the construction of family education and family style......
Sincere devotion, full of emotion, Daddy Rabbit's narration is touching! Family style is a lesson by example, a word of words, a role model, an environment, and a way to behave in the world. Dad Rabbit also deeply analyzed the "four principles" of good family style: family harmony, home harmony, family harmony, family style and kindness, and family morality. Bunny Dad concluded: A good family style makes a good family, first of all, we must start from ourselves. A good family style requires good teaching, good words, and good deeds.
Accumulating virtue and kindness, benevolence and love others are the heirloom of the Rabbit family. Dad Rabbit used humorous language to bring everyone an infectious family style tutoring sharing session, which received continuous applause. The parent-child families at the scene listened carefully, thought positively, interacted frequently, had a warm atmosphere, and boldly came to the stage to share their experiences and insights. Dad Rabbit also gave them his family education books "Daddy Rabbit's Family Letter" and "Strange Dad Stupid Girl", hoping that everyone will be the inheritor of family style and the guardian of a happy family.
Some parents said that this sharing session was held in a timely manner, which relieved the anxiety and confusion of family education, and they will set an example in their future life and work to inherit the good family style. Some parents were moved to tears several times, saying that the story of Rabbit's family style was touching and inspiring. The happiness of the family is hidden in the details, which requires the joint efforts and dedication of every family member, mutual respect and love, and mutual tolerance. Daddy Rabbit's ancestors were virtuous, and passed on great love and altruism from generation to generation, and infected with this kindness from the bones.
This public welfare sharing meeting, with a clear theme and rich content, further created a strong atmosphere of "focusing on family, family education, and family style", advocating to devote oneself to the construction of a good family style with one's own practical actions, achieving a good family with a good family style, promoting family virtues, and building a happy family.
Text / Photo: Correspondent Wei Jiaxuan