Well-known Hong Kong star divorce! The wife who has been a housewife for 18 years, looking for another good match with small fresh meat?

Ban Yukichi

2024-05-13 17:30Published in Guangdong Xingzhi Online, founder and CEO

On May 2, the famous actor Guo Jinan in Hong Kong, China, announced his divorce from his wife Ou Qianyi on his personal social platform.

As soon as the news came out, netizens were stunned.

The two have been married for more than 18 years, have a son and a daughter, and are a model couple in the entertainment industry.

Guo Jinan joined TVB in 1986, but at that time, there were many stars, and he could only make a living by playing supporting roles.

Even if he became an actor, he has been renting a house, while his parents have been living in an old wooden boat, in order to have a better life for his family, he gritted his teeth and bought two houses, one for his parents and one for himself, and since then, he has begun to bear a high mortgage.

In order to make money, I usually save money and don't dare to find a girlfriend.

It wasn't until 1999 that Guo Jinan finally paid off the mortgage and returned to TVB.

By chance, he met Ou Qianyi, a newcomer who had just entered TVB, the difference between the two was 16 years old, although Guo Jinan had a good impression of the small and delicate Ou Qianyi, but he didn't think about it.

But Ou Qianyi was very active, she helped Guo Jinan iron clothes, clean up, cook for him, and finally captured Guo Jinan with female tenderness.

However, due to the big age difference between the two, many things are difficult to communicate, in 2002, Guo Jinan proposed to break up, Ou Qianyi disagreed, and according to legend, he threatened to commit suicide, in this case, Guo Jinan could only compromise.

After that, Guo Jinan's career was greenlit all the way, and a "Jackie Chan" became popular across the Taiwan Strait and became a first-line actor on TVB.

Everything fell into place, and it seemed that marriage should be on the agenda.

In 2003, Guo Jinan proposed to Ou Qianyi, but Ou Qianyi refused, because she was only 23 years old at the time and still wanted to continue to work hard in her career.

It dragged on for three years, during which Ou Qianyi accidentally miscarried twice.

Until 2006, 42-year-old Guo Jinan successfully married 27-year-old Ou Qianyi, and the two held a luxurious and dreamy wedding at Disney.

After marriage, Ou Qianyi gave birth to a son and a daughter, and returned to the family as a full-time housewife.

Ou Qianyi's parents made a living by doing odd jobs, and they couldn't buy a suite in Hong Kong after working hard for half their lives, so Guo Jinan took the initiative to buy a suite for her parents-in-law, which was directly called a good son-in-law by Hong Kong media at that time.

may have been used to it since childhood, Guo Jinan saved or bought a house as soon as he had money, and then opened a number of health care product stores with his sister, with a net worth of more than 100 million.

The husband realizes financial freedom, a son and a daughter are well-behaved and obedient, if they change to other women, even if they have no feelings, they may not divorce this marriage.

But Ou Qianyi filed for divorce.

Many people can't understand it.

Hong Kong media reported that Ou Qianyi, who faded out of the background, worked hard to increase her value, studied a bachelor's degree in marketing and management, and obtained a bachelor of science with honors in food and nutrition in 2020.

Combined with Ou Qianyi's previous interview about married life, she once said: Every day is to pick up and drop off children from school, and the money to take care of children depends on the living expenses given by her husband. So at the beginning, when she decided to make a comeback and return to the entertainment industry, the first thing the child asked her was whether she would have more money after work, which made her feel sad.

Maybe Ou Qianyi watched her peers succeed in their careers, and she also wanted to have her own value after being a housewife for 18 years, and she didn't want to trap her life in a monotonous marriage, which Guo Jinan couldn't understand, because when his wife was busy, he had to make some concessions and cooperate with his wife's plan, so the two also had a lot of conflicts.

Later, it was rumored that the 5 properties in the family were all written in Guo Jinan's name, and Ou Qianyi's name was not written, and the family's savings were also in Guo Jinan's name, which would make Ou Qianyi feel uncomfortable.

But in any case, it can be seen that although material things are important in marriage, what should be paid more attention to is the spiritual fit between husband and wife. Marriage can only last if there is a balance between the material and the spiritual.

In this process, communication is indispensable, only full understanding and respect, in order to eliminate the estrangement between each other, if blindly insist on their own opinions, strong demand that the other party conform to their own change, then the marriage will definitely fall apart step by step.

At the same time, we must also learn to give each other enough space in marriage and allow each other to have independent and free individual lives, rather than treating marriage as a shackle. What do you think?

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