[This content is an adaptation of a short fictional story, please watch it rationally, and do not sit in the right seat]
"Li Jianmin! I tell you, even if you kneel down and kowtow to me, I won't be nice to you, just like you are poor, you still want to find me as a daughter-in-law, go home and find a mirror to look at yourself......"
Every word she uttered made me feel "thunderous", and I didn't even dare to look up at her, because in addition to her embarrassing humiliation, there was also a crowd standing around.
My name is Li Jianming, I am 28 years old, and the boys in the village who are the same age as me have already gotten married, and even their children have gone to primary school in the village.
My mother is also very anxious about my marriage, and often takes the food from the family to "bribe" the matchmaker, so that the matchmaker will give priority to me when she says goodbye.
But the matchmaker didn't look down on the "gift" given by her mother at all, because she felt shabby, either the local eggs at home or the persimmons from the persimmon tree.
For the countryside, the most important thing is these foods, after all, in the same village, looking down and not looking up, the matchmaker still chose to accept it.
However, the matchmaker still introduced me to a few girls, but these girls were either widows or had some disabilities.
Although I can't even look at my mother, after all, I am old, and my family is poor, and because I can't find a partner all year round, my parents have also received a lot of discussion from the village.
So they also persuaded me to try to get in touch, and when I saw that my mother had taken great pains to help me find a daughter-in-law, I finally agreed to meet, but I didn't expect that even the widow would not look down on me.
This also brought a lot of damage to my self-esteem, because my mother was supporting the family I lived in, and my father was also bedridden all year round because of illness.
And I didn't go to work in other cities like other village boys, but farmed and raised chickens at home, and many people in the village thought that I was unproductive, and I had no future in the future.
Although my mother was also in a hurry, there was no way to change the current situation, but one day, my mother suddenly entered my room with a smile on her face
I asked her to go to the city to order clothes, and when I was puzzled, my mother smiled and told me that it was the matchmaker who introduced me to a good partner, not only for the first marriage, but also very handsome.
So let me pack up quickly, and in a week I will arrange for the two of us to meet, so that I can cherish this opportunity, after all, a girl is begging for a hundred families.
My mother also followed the matchmaker's advice, so she thought of going to the city to help me get dressed, so that I could make a good impression on the girl and win her heart.
However, I felt that my mother had a lot of trouble, after all, the widows in the village did not look down on her, let alone a young and beautiful girl, and I did not have much hope this time.
And it costs a lot of money to order clothes in the city, and I don't think my mother has to do this, but my mother's face suddenly darkened, and she put away her previous smile.
She told me solemnly: "Li Jianming, I don't care what you think this time, but you must cherish this opportunity to meet, so that your father can hold his grandson before he dies!" ”
My father was a warm-hearted man, and because he helped his fellow villagers chase goats, he fell off a cliff and ended up not only disabled, but also sick.
But he didn't get them in exchange for thanks, and even felt that his father was doing it himself, after all, it was his father who took the initiative to help them chase the goats, not the neighbors who asked for it.
It also cost a lot of savings to treat my father's illness, and the people in the same village were afraid that our family would rely on their family, so they only gave 1,000 yuan in "thank you money", and they never interacted with each other again.
This incident also brought me a lot of blows, and I felt that my father's kind deeds did not get a good return, and even brought a burden to my family.
So after graduating from high school, I stayed at home and didn't go to other provinces with other people until I was 28 years old, and my mother became more and more anxious about my marriage.
Seeing that my mother's gray hair was getting more and more, I still agreed to my mother's request, and went with her to the city to order the cheapest clothes, hoping to behave well in front of that girl.
Since this suit is tailor-made, it also fits very well when you wear it, and it also makes the whole person look a lot more energetic, and even spent money to go to the city to get a haircut.
When my mother saw my neat appearance, she felt that there was hope for this blind date, and even stuffed 50 yuan in my pocket on the day of the meeting.
said that when the two of them met, I asked me to go to the city to take her to the restaurant or buy a silk scarf, in order to be able to go on a blind date, I accepted my mother's kindness.
On the agreed day, my mother did not go with me, but took the matchmaker on my uncle's bicycle and went to the girl's house for a blind date.
The girl's house is not far from my house, and the ride is only ten minutes, although I am very nervous inside, but I still express very calm on the outside.
When I first entered the courtyard with the matchmaker, I found that they were already waiting here, and I was speechless when I saw the girl's appearance.
She has two braids, her cheeks are a little chubby, and her eyes are very large, and she looks very cute overall, just like my ideal daughter-in-law.
This side also gave me a lot of good feelings, and I suddenly felt that my mother's gift was still somewhat useful, otherwise such a good-looking object would not be my turn.
But when her parents saw that my mother didn't come, their faces suddenly darkened, and they felt that our family lacked some sincerity.
In fact, the reason why my mother did not come was because she lacked decent clothes, and it had cost the family a lot of money to make a dress for me.
So in order to leave a good impression on the woman, she didn't choose to come, but these real reasons are difficult to teeth at all.
The matchmaker saw that the woman's parents were a little happy, and quickly took out the snacks that my mother and I had bought in the city before, and after seeing these snacks, their attitude eased a lot.
Her parents and matchmaker talked a lot, probably meaning that they hoped to find a responsible and responsible young man, their family did not value family conditions, but more importantly, the quality of the man.
Because their family heard about my father, they felt that our family was very responsible, and they felt that such a father would not be bad at educating his son, so they thought they could meet each other.
Hearing these words from her parents, she felt a lot better, so she had to behave well this time and win the hearts of their girls.
Although we were a little awkward when we met for the first time, I also knew a lot about her, her name is Zhao Qiufen, she is 26 years old, 2 years younger than me.
However, at her age, she is also an older girl in our village, and I heard from the matchmaker that her vision is very high, so she has never been married.
Since I entered this courtyard, Zhao Qiufen has been looking at me, and although she has a good impression of her, she still feels uncomfortable every time she looks at me.
The first meeting ended in the communication between the two sides, but this time it seemed more unexpected, their family didn't seem to be so disgusted with me, and I don't know if it was my father's reason.
However, in the process of returning with the matchmaker, I found out that their family had also received help from my father, and one year there was a flood in our village, and many farmers' stored grain in their homes were blistered.
So the people in the village would take the initiative to help, and my father happened to go to their house to help, so to speak, it took a day and a night to transport all the food from the family.
So her father still has a very good impression of my father, and now that my father has such a thing, their family not only does not dislike it, but also wants their daughter to get along with me.
It can be seen from here that their family is also very kind, and after this meeting, Zhao Qiufen is also willing to try with me, and it can be said that the development of this situation is also very good.
A few days after we met, I asked her to go to the People's Park in the city to play, and even bought her a soda, but only one bottle, as long as she could quench her thirst.
When we sat by the lake and chatted, we found out that we went to the same high school, but she didn't get into high school because she didn't study well, and I failed the college entrance examination because of my father's affairs.
This kind of conversation also pulled into each other's previous feelings, and also left a good impression on the other party, who originally wanted to take her to the next restaurant in the city at noon.
But she refused, because she also knew the conditions of our family, but this also made me have a lot of good feelings for this girl, and even really wanted to marry her as a daughter-in-law.
It can be said that I have been in contact with Zhao Qiufen more and more frequently, and the 50 yuan my mother gave me was quickly spent, so I was cheeky and asked my mother for money.
However, my mother's expression was a little embarrassed, because my father's illness had worsened and he needed to be hospitalized, but my mother did not choose to tell me in order to get married as soon as possible.
With the money given by my mother, I took Zhao Qiufen to the city to play, and even experienced the "ice skates" of the city people, which also made our relationship more and more intimate.
However, I seem to like the life of people in the city, and the number of times I ask my mother for money is becoming more and more frequent, and after asking for money, I take Zhao Qiufen to spend.
But when I went to call Zhao Qiufen again, she was very cold to me, not only did not go to the city with me to consume, but also humiliated me.
She pointed at the tip of my nose and scolded, "Li Jianmin! Do you really think I've got a crush on you? I tell you, even if you kneel down and kowtow to me, I won't be nice to you, just like you are poor, you still want to find me as a daughter-in-law, go home and find a mirror to look at yourself......"
Every voice made by Zhao Qiufen made me feel "like thunder", and her humiliation also attracted a lot of neighbors to watch jokes, which also made me feel angry in my heart!
When I returned home angrily, I found that my mother and father were not at home, and I didn't come back until midnight, and the next day I inquired and found out that my father was hospitalized.
When I rushed to the hospital, I found that my mother knelt down for a doctor, and this scene also deeply shocked me, and I quickly helped my mother up.
It turned out that my father's condition had worsened, and if he had not undergone surgery, he might not have lived for a few years, but the price of surgery was so high that our family could not afford it.
That's why my mother knelt down for the doctor, but the doctor said that there was no way, after all, their hospital was not up to their own discretion, and there was no way to cheapen their mother.
Seeing this situation, my heart was also very tormented, I felt that I was very ignorant, not only did I not know how to take on family responsibilities, but I even kept asking my mother for money.
I couldn't afford my father's medical expenses by farming and raising chickens alone, so in order to change my family's situation, I finally chose to work in the coastal area, so that I could also cover my father's medical expenses.
After I said goodbye to my mother briefly, I took my luggage and left my hometown, but when I left this time, I didn't say goodbye to Zhao Qiufen, after all, I am a poor boy, how can she look at it!
It can be said that when a person first arrives in other provinces, his life is also very difficult, not only has a big problem in communication, but even food, clothing, housing and transportation cannot be guaranteed.
But this time God seemed to favor me, and when I was desperate, I met my former high school classmate, who is now the manager of a garment factory.
Under his care, I got a basic guarantee for food, clothing, housing and transportation, and he was very smart and used the resources in his hands to open his own clothing company.
Due to the lack of manpower, I also became his right-hand man, so I went into business with my old classmates, and in the past 5 years, I also saved a lot of money.
However, I am also 33 years old, and the money I earned also allowed my father to be treated in time, and my old classmates saw that I had not returned to my hometown for a long time, so they specially let me rest for a month.
When I came home and saw my parents, I found that they were much older, and it can be said that in the years of business, I never came back, but the money I earned would be mailed back.
My mother was very excited to see me, but she asked me to find Zhao Qiufen, and I knew from my mother that she had helped take care of me in the past few years since I was away.
This also touched me very much, but remembering what she said back then also made me "palpitate", but my mother saw my concerns.
My mother's eyes were slightly red and told me that the reason why Zhao Qiufen said such things back then was because she knew that the money that the two of us went to the city together to spend was borrowed from relatives!
And my father was seriously ill at that time, but my mother stopped my father's medicine in order to let me date, which made her feel very guilty, so she stimulated me and made me realize my mistake.
In the five years since I left, she has helped them with her own salary, so when I came back this time, my mother asked me to thank Zhao Qiufen, and even after five years, she is still not married.
My mother's words made me feel ashamed, because I finally understood her good intentions, so I immediately rushed to her house, and when I saw her again, I found that she had become much more mature.
But I didn't say anything, just hugged her tightly in my arms, and a month later I proposed to her, and now we have both children and live very happily!
Looking back on all this now, I feel that people can only grow up quickly after going through hardships, and I am as enthusiastic as my father to help others in need.
It is precisely because of my father's good deeds that I found a responsible partner, so I will also use my greatest strength to warm the world like my father!
This work is a short story, and the plot is purely fictional, and if there is any similarity, it is purely coincidental. All people, places and events are artistically crafted and are not intended to offend or disparage any individual, group or organization.
Art comes from life, but it is higher than life, the plot of the article is accidental and one-sided, just to increase readability, without the purpose of attracting people's attention, can not be generalized, can not rise to reality, the ultimate purpose is to make readers understand, to achieve the purpose of advocating positive social energy, no vulgarity and other bad guidance.
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[This content is an adaptation of a short fictional story, please watch it rationally, and do not sit in the right seat]