Men and women, when the flame of emotion is quietly ignited outside the walls of their respective marriages, the impulses and entanglements are often confusing.
And in this complex and chaotic world, there are some principles and counsel that are like beacons that light the way forward, reminding us how to deal with this undeserved emotion.
01
I remember what Mr. Lu Xun once said: "A real warrior dares to face the bleak life and dare to face the dripping blood." ”
Similarly, when two married men and women are struggling in the whirlpool of emotions, they also need the courage to face reality.
I once received a message from a middle-aged man who was filled with pain and confusion.
He told me that he was in an undeserved relationship with a married lady, and that the emotion brought him endless pain and suffering instead of happiness. He knows that his actions have betrayed his family, but he can't help himself.
At this moment, I want to say to him, "No matter how much you struggle inside, remember that your actions are not only about yourself, but also about your family and children.
Every choice you make will affect their future fate. So, please be brave enough to face the reality, stop losses in time, and find a way out for yourself and your family. ”
02
Children are the hope of the family and the flowers of the future. They are innocent and innocent, and should not fall prey to the emotional entanglements of adults.
As Tolstoy said, "Where there is life, there is happiness." ”
We should cherish every moment we spend with our families and fill them with love and warmth.
Therefore, when married men and women are emotionally disoriented, remember: no matter what, please do not harm innocent children.
Your emotional problems should be solved by yourself, not by your children.
03
In the face of emotional entanglement, some people choose to escape, and some choose to deceive. However, these practices only complicate the problem.
As Shakespeare said in Hamlet, "Delay is the thief who steals time." ”
We should not let time pass in our evasion and deception, but should bravely face our hearts and solve emotional problems as soon as possible.
Only in this way can we find a real way out for ourselves and our families.
04
On the path of emotion, we are often confused by appearances, and it is difficult to distinguish what true love is.
However, as the ancients said: "The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time." "True love needs time to precipitate and test.
When two married men and women are caught in an emotional entanglement, please think calmly: Can you tell what true love is?
Are you willing to give everything for this relationship? If you choose a family, then be cruel to your lover outside of marriage; If you choose true love, then be brave and face all the consequences.
05
We play a variety of roles in the journey of life, and as a responsible adult, we need to be responsible for ourselves, our families, and our loved ones.
When we are faced with an emotional choice, remember: please allow yourself to be a responsible adult.
Every choice you make will affect the future of you and your loved ones. Therefore, think carefully about finding the best path out for yourself and your family.
In this complex and ever-changing world, emotional issues are always elusive. However, as long as we stick to our principles, face reality bravely, cherish family and affection, and have the courage to take responsibility, we can find our own happiness on the emotional road.
Finally, I would like to conclude this article with a quote from Rabindranath Tagore: "Love is another name for understanding." ”
When we truly understand each other, cherish each other, and give for each other, our love will become stronger and more beautiful. May every married man and woman cherish their family and love and create a better future together.