Hey, guys, you know what? Nowadays, some families choose not to notify their relatives when the elderly pass away! This simply subverts our traditional beliefs, aren't they afraid of being talked about? Don't worry, don't worry, listen to me slowly reveal to you the three "mysterious" situations behind this.
Imagine that in the ancient poem, what we read is the heroic scene of "the funeral is miserable, and the horses are also mournful". But in reality, some families have chosen a very different approach. They may not be apathetic, but for a specific reason.
First, imagine the "undercurrents" within the family. Sometimes, there may be some unspeakable contradictions between siblings. At a critical moment such as the death of an elderly person, they may fear that the arrival of relatives will exacerbate these contradictions and even become a laughing stock in the eyes of others. Therefore, they choose to keep a low profile to avoid unnecessary disputes.
Second, we have to talk about the "economic account". In reality, funeral expenses are not a small amount. Some families may feel that it is better to bear the burden themselves silently than to ask relatives to give gifts and increase the financial burden. This can not only reduce the economic pressure, but also avoid the entanglement of personal debts.
Finally, there is also the possibility of "philosophical disagreement". Some families may feel that the death of an elderly person is a natural phenomenon and that there is no need to organize a funeral with great fanfare. They value inner remembrance and memories more than the formal excitement and hustle and bustle. As a result, they choose to mourn their loved ones in a more low-key and intimate way.
What do you think? After listening to these three situations, do you think that these families' practices also have their own reasons? In fact, every family has its own considerations and choices. We should also respect their decisions and give them sufficient understanding and support. So, what are your thoughts on this topic? Come and discuss with me in the comment section!
Of course, I'd be happy to add something at the end of the article to make it richer and more complete. Here's what I've got in store for you:
Speaking of which, it is not difficult for us to find that every family has their own considerations and choices when dealing with such a major event as the death of the elderly. Whether it is due to conflicts within the family, financial pressures, or different understandings of funeral rites, these choices reflect the tacit understanding between family members and respect for the deceased.
In modern society, we are increasingly focusing on individual independence and freedom. This change is also reflected in the handling of family relationships. Different families have different views and practices on the notification of the death of the elderly and the way in which funerals are held. There is no right or wrong in itself, as long as it can reflect the remembrance and respect for the deceased, it is worthy of respect.
At the same time, we should also realize that the family is the basic unit of society, and the harmony between family members is essential for the stability and development of society. When faced with family conflicts and disputes, we should deal with them with a rational and tolerant attitude, and try to avoid escalating and intensifying the conflicts. In this way, we will be able to create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere, so that the elderly can enjoy their old age in peace and the young can thrive.
Finally, I would like to say that no matter how we choose and deal with such a major event as the death of an elderly person, it should be based on the premise of respecting the deceased and caring for the family. Let's build a better family and society with love and tolerance. Thank you for reading and sharing, and look forward to seeing your wonderful comments and views in the comment area!