In the "Altar Sutra", the clouds: from time to time, there is a wind blowing, a monk is known as the wind moving, and a monk is moving. Hui Nengjin: non-wind movement, non-movement, benevolent heart.
The meaning of this sentence refers to the fact that many things seem to be disturbed by people and things outside, but in fact, they are their own internal turmoil. It can also be said that many times, the cause of troubles or when they are in a certain choice in life, it is not an external problem, but an internal cause, which is also the root of human problems.
Just like Su Tong's two women in "Red Pink", Qiu Yi and Xiao Calyx, they are the same fireworks women, but because of different choices, they have different lives, and finally Qiu Yi married an old man whose appearance is not good, and Xiao Calyx chose to continue to rely on men for a living.
And the similarity of their choices can be understood as self-abandonment under the low desire life, and they are not willing to change the status quo, and even unwilling to try a new life and life, and finally Xiao Calyx chooses to go with the flow, floating like duckweed, and Qiu Yi is stumbling in a numb life, compared to Xiao Calyx is more pathetic.
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One early morning in May, an off-road vehicle was parked in front of Cuiyunfang, ready to pull a group of women with heavy makeup to work hard. Two of the most prominent women in this group, wearing a satin cheongsam and high heels, was Qiu Yi, the head of Cui Yun Fang, followed by her little sister Xiao Calyx.
Qiu Yi said to her little sister Xiao Calyx, who wanted to be good: Anyway, I am tired of living, even if it is to kill my head, I am not afraid. However, when she looked up, she saw lao Pu, the old friend, and shouted at him: Lao Pu, I am gone.
However, the matter was not what Qiu Yi thought of shooting them, but to check the body first, and when the body was examined, Xiao Calyx was frightened and trembling, and did not dare to enter the room, and even cried out.
Qiu Yi stomped her feet and said: "If there is no goods, then I will accompany you in." I saw The little calyx curled up on the bed, but he covered his clothes tightly and begged for forgiveness: I am not sick, I do not want to check, and I am coming on, it is inconvenient.
At this time, Qiu Yi deliberately let out a very loud fart and blinked at the small calyx, and then the people outside also laughed together. Only then did Xiao Calyx's pale face have a trace of blood, and then said to Qiu Yi: I feel that my body is dirty.
Qiu Yi sighed, did not pick up Xiao Cai's words, but diverted the topic and said: It is said that if we want to work, I don't care, I'm afraid you won't be able to eat that suffering. Hearing this, Xiao Calyx tightly held Qiu Yi's hand, and the two agreed to leave it alone, horizontal and vertical is a disaster.
However, just as the truck was slowing down, Qiu Yi suddenly let go of the hand holding the small calyx, jumped and escaped from the truck, and then there was a scream on the car.
Qiu Yi, who had jumped down, quickly got up from the ground, kicked off her high heels, and ran away with her cheongsam. After Qiu Yi ran away, only Xiao Calyx and other women were left to participate in labor reform.
Su Tong's "Red Pink" on the surface seems to tell the friendship and story of Qiu Yi and Xiao Calyx, two fireworks women, but in fact, it is written about the low-desire life that is unwilling to change, the ruggedness of fate and life encounters.
In the friendship between the two women, Qiu Yi has always been the leader of Xiao Calyx, who relies on Qiu Yi no matter what he does, and Xiao Cai has no desire for life, only hopes to have food to eat, have money to spend and do not rely on himself, only wants to rely on men to survive.
Qiu Yi is different, she is a quite assertive, and dare to love and hate the spirited woman, the transformation in her eyes is to continue to participate in labor, and then forget men, no longer go to solicit customers, but Qiu Yi thinks that she does not need to reform at all, she has saved enough money to live for many years, so she chose to run away.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > woman who does not want to change, stems from the low desire of human nature to get by and get by</h1>
After escaping, Qiu Yi returned to Cuiyunfang after dark, and the old bustard was still rubbing mahjong, and was surprised to see her return and asked: How to let you come back. Qiu Yi didn't answer either, just said: I'll come back and get my things.
The mother bustard said: Take what? Your jewelry and softness have been confiscated. Qiu Yi did not eat this set, nor did she pay attention to the mother bustard, but pedaled upstairs to find her own things, while saying: Don't come with me to this set, you swallow my things and you are not afraid of thunder in the sky?
From this sentence, we can also see Qiu Yi's pungent and unafraid character of not being afraid of heaven and earth. She also said to the mother bustard: Before you expected me to make money, now the tree is falling and scattered, who does not know who. If you don't light a fire and burn it here, just burn it, no one will pass it.
The mother bustard saw that Qiu Yi was really crazy, so she threw a package in a hurry and said: It's all here, take it and roll quickly. In this way, Qiu Yi walked to the street, but there was an unprecedented sadness, she was a little worried about Xiao Calyx, but at this time she herself was also difficult to protect herself, no matter how to run to the old friend Lao Pu first.
Lao Pu also genuinely likes Qiu Yi, although he is not single-minded, but Lao Pu is also really good to Qiu Yi, so he takes her home and lies to his mother that he is a new nanny.
Angry Qiu Yi scolded Lao Pu directly: Can't you say that it is your newlywed wife? It seems that everything is false, your kindness to me is also false, and my pleasing to you is also false. But saying that, she obediently went home with Lao Pu, because she had no other place to go.
Lao Pu pointed to a western-style building and said, This is my family, this is the property that my father bought before he died, usually only my mother takes a maid to live, and there are many empty rooms. And warned Qiu Yi that her mother was a person with a lot of status, and when she saw her, she must restrain herself, saying that it was her colleagues who borrowed it.
However, Lao Pu's mother still saw through Qiu Yi's identity at a glance, and even after Qiu Yi walked away, she angrily rebuked her son: I can see at a glance what kind of goods she is, and you are not afraid of other people's jokes when you bring this kind of woman back.
Of course, Qiu Yi knew that this was deliberately said to her by the old lady, she didn't hear it, and she didn't care what others said, as long as she could live, as long as Lao Pu loved her enough, she did whatever the old lady said, and it was a big deal to be afraid of her. Qiu Yi thought so and did the same.
After that, Qiu Yi did not go out during the day, slept alone in the Old Pu family, and accompanied Lao Pu at night, she really wanted to marry this Old Pu, but she also understood that men were not reliable, so the key was to have money and wealth.
Until the old lady issued an eviction order to her, she said bluntly: Miss Qiu, when are you going to leave my house, I let you live for half a month is enough to give face.
Qiu Yi also replied: Don't put your face on me, if you have anything to say, you ask your son to tell me. Only to see the old lady crying and making trouble to Lao Pu, Lao Pu had to say to Qiu Yi: Tomorrow I will find you another place to live. Qiu Yi scolded Lao Pu, one would scold him for not showing up, one would manage Lao Pu for asking for money, and the other would kick Lao Pu a few times.
Lao Pu muttered: How much you want, how much money you want, I will give it to you. Hearing this, Qiu Yi cried and said, "I want to live your money for so many years?" Then she went to the nunnery in a huff, and never saw Lao Pu again, and she ignored Lao Pu several times.
In order to persuade Qiu Yi not to leave home, Lao Pu even ran to find Xiao Cai, wanting to ask Xiao Cai to persuade her, but at that time, Xiao Cai was still working hard to reform, it was impossible to leave, and told Lao Pu that she had to sew sacks every day, and only hated herself for not being able to die.
Xiao Calyx also chose to commit suicide during labor reform, but she was saved by others, she was unwilling to suffer anymore, she was not willing to work, and she was only willing to be raised by men. However, under the compulsion of reality, Xiao Calyx quickly adapted to labor, but he was unwilling to work in his heart, or because he was "too lazy to do it".
Therefore, when choosing a job, her requirements are very simple: what is light, I will do, I am a person who is lazy and lazy, and is not willing to suffer.
From Qiu Yi and Xiao Cai, two different values can also be seen, for Qiu Yi, her ideal in life is to have a person who agrees with her, and then lao Pu, whom she loves, appears to be a promise because of her mother's opposition, which makes her very frustrated. Choosing to become a monk in one breath is also enough to see Qiu Yi's fierceness and assertiveness.
In Xiao Calyx, although she is very timid and afraid of things, she is not willing to work hard in everything, and she is not willing to pay, only willing to be a person who enjoys life and gets by, which also lays the groundwork for her future tragedies.
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Soon after, Lao Pu's life as a young man was over, because his family's property was confiscated and the huge deposits handed down by his ancestors were frozen, which turned him into a poor egg, but he still had a job to do.
One day Xiao Calyx came to him, Lao Pu was very happy, although he had no money in his hand, he still borrowed some to invite Xiao Calyx to eat Western food, Xiao Calyx just scolded Lao Pu for having no conscience, and he did not care about Qiu Yi. Lao Pu said that he was also very bitter and could not take care of her, and even invited Xiao Calyx to dance to his residence.
The natural dance was not done, but the two people got better. These two people are a bit like Zhang Ailing's Fan Liuyuan and Bai Liusu in "Love in the Fallen City", the difference is only that the male protagonist Lao Pu is a poor egg, but Lao Pu said: I can sell gold watches, and then ask my mother for money to get married.
So the low-desire calyx met The same drifting Lao Pu, but Lao Pu promised Xiao Pu to rent a decent courtyard, and then Xiao Calyx would quit his job to be a full-time wife at home. In order to marry Xiao Calyx, Lao Pu was also scolded by his mother for a long time, saying that Lao Pu was a high-class son and had to marry a prostitute.
However, at this time, Xiao Calyx was pregnant, so the old lady had to accept it, and then gave Lao Pu five gold bars, and then Lao Pu held a wedding with infinite scenery, but the sadness on his face did not dissipate for a long time.
After marriage, Xiao Pu wants to wear good clothes every day, eat well, always complain about Lao Pu this is not OK, that is not OK, so Lao Pu's face is more sad, and Lao Pu also found that the landlord Mr. Zhang's eyes are always staring at his wife, staring at the wrong place, which makes Lao Pu very depressed, in order to meet his wife's material needs, Lao Pu began to give Xiao Pu a lot of money, and Xiao Pu was also very happy, and began to recover his vigor and return to the past time.
It was only a long time, and it didn't take long for Lao Pu to be arrested, and it turned out that the money he gave to Xiao Pu was all public funds of the unit, only because Xiao Cao said to Lao Pu: I didn't hurt my father since I was a child, my mother didn't love, only by men, if you are not good to me, I will die to show you.
In this way, Lao Pu's life was also buried in the money, and after Lao Pu's death, Xiao Calyx had an affair with the landlord man in order to survive, and was later discovered by the landlady and beaten out. At this time, Xiao Calyx had to carry her son on her back, and she had to go to work again, and before long she knew a man in her forties, so she sent her son and ran away with the northern man.
And Xiao Calyx's fate follows different men, repeatedly staged again and again, she could have relied on her hands to live a new life, but she was unwilling to work hard, did not want to suffer unnecessarily, only wanted to find a shortcut to survive, even if she could only feed and clothe, she was not willing to change the status quo, and she was not willing to change herself.
So fate made her pay the price for "laziness" again and again, and her husband Lao Pu lost her life because of her comparison and pleasure; in order to be able to eat and have a place to live, she could sell her body countless times, but she was unwilling to rely on her own labor to change her life.
Qiu Yi, who is invincible on the contrary, has chosen to live in the present, adapt to the times, and even choose a seemingly plain, but in fact quiet and good life.
Unwilling to change is divided into two endings in active and passive states, there is no doubt that Qiu Yi is in the active control of the fate of the party, and Xiao Calyx is because of the low desire of life attitude, constantly betraying herself, and eventually become duckweed floating around.
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