(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)
In our opinion, if the mother-in-law's family is really very difficult, there is no problem to support it, after all, it is the biological parents of his wife, as long as it is not a demon to help his brother, we can accept it in any way.
But such a thing, I never thought it would happen to me, after marrying a North Korean wife, I found that I seemed to marry an "ancestor" back, not only to support my father-in-law's family on weekdays, but recently I directly asked me for 3 million!
01
My father is in business, and my mother has been working as a "full-time wife" at home, and the family's living expenses are all dependent on my father.
If you want to say that you are very happy to live in such a family, you are indeed quite happy, and you don't have to worry about the economy at all, but the only bad thing is my father's temper, which is very strict with me, and I usually have to go out to socialize, so I am more afraid of my father mixed with strangeness.
Since I started school, the school I went to has always been that kind of aristocratic school, for this feeling, I don't like it very much, because the children around me are everywhere under the pampering of their parents, and they can't play together at all, and it is estimated that it has not been a year since I went to school, and I am yelling at my mother to change schools.
And asked to go to that kind of ordinary school, and the mother was also very puzzled: "What's the matter, son, isn't the aristocratic school good? Is the school's education method not good or is someone bullying you?"
I replied, "No, it's all good, but I can't play with my classmates, they always like to call for wind and rain, tell this to do something for themselves, ask that conductor to do something, and it's uncomfortable to play."
In fact, in my opinion, primary school is not so important, as long as I am willing to learn, junior high school and high school are the turning point.
When I first entered the school, I was not very familiar with my classmates, but I gradually became familiar with each other through slow contact, and I had no concept of money in primary school, only knowing that I could buy snacks and toys.
I played with a very good friend at the time, and the two of us played very well in school, but his family situation was not very good, he came from the countryside, and his parents hoped that he would receive a good education from an early age, and he could change the situation of the family through learning.
However, he also worked very hard in this area, and was always at the top of his class, every time he went to the school's small supermarket.
I've never seen him come in, I've always gone in and bought it myself, and I didn't have any doubts once or twice, but I always feel curious after a long time.
Then he asked, "Why don't you go in and buy snacks, what are you waiting for me at the door?"
He bowed his head very embarrassed and said, "I don't like snacks."
This makes me even more confused, how can there be children who don't like to eat snacks, isn't this the best thing in the world?
After some communication with me, I learned that it was not that he didn't like to eat, but that he had no money to buy, and the money every week was only enough for three meals a day, and he didn't have any extra money.
If I debunk him directly, it will definitely make him feel very inferior, so every time I buy snacks, I will deliberately buy more and say to Xiao Han: "You can't eat it, Xiao Han, I bought too much and couldn't finish it."
At first, he didn't refuse, but after a long time, he said directly to me: "Are you doing it on purpose, how can you buy more every time?"
At this time, I suddenly had a feeling of being debunked, but I insisted: "Oh, it's okay, you can eat, I think I can finish it every time, but I didn't expect it to be finished."
Xiao Han naturally didn't continue, but just whispered: "There are so many classmates, only you are really good to me."
I heard it at the time, but I didn't pay attention to him, I just pretended not to hear it, after all, not everything has to be told in the open, it's not really good, just know it.
Our friendship was officially broken in elementary school, and when I was in junior high school, due to family reasons, we didn't go to the same school, and I could only do more than I could do that whoever was good to me was good to whomever I was.
We haven't been in touch since, and after the college entrance exam, my father sent me to a school in the Northeast, which I didn't want to go to because the winter was so cold.
02
When I first entered the school gate, I could feel the veritable Northeast enthusiasm here, and the seniors were pulling our luggage for us and introducing the campus.
Should I say it or not, men are double standards, after seeing so many beauties in this school, I think it's pretty good here, and there are a lot of North Korean girls, and it's the first time I've seen foreign girls, and I feel that they are very good-looking.
I stayed in school for almost half a year, and my roommates didn't want to go to eat at that time, so I went to the restaurant to eat by myself, and it was at this time that I actually met a familiar face "Xiao Han"!
I didn't dare to meet him at first, I was afraid that I was wrong, so I walked up to him incredulously: "Xiao Han, is it you"?
He turned around and was stunned when he saw me: "Komori, why are you, why are you in this school, we haven't seen each other for many years."
It was really like a sight, and the girlfriend next to him asked, "Xiao Han, who is this, why don't you introduce me to it." ”
I only heard Xiao Han say excitedly: "This is the friend Xiao Han who I always told you that I was very good to me in elementary school, I didn't expect us to be able to see each other again, it's really a great fate"!
We sat on the side and started chatting, and his girlfriend was like the superfluous, not able to interject at all, but she could understand the relationship between us.
Since then, we finally have contact information, and never cut off contact, Xiao Han's girlfriend saw that I have always been single, so she said: "Xiao Han, why don't I introduce you to a girlfriend, I have a North Korean girl in my dormitory, she is beautiful, and the looks of the two of you are absolutely worthy"!
This is quite embarrassing for me, so I thought about getting to know each other first, and I didn't think so much about it first.
After meeting, it can really be described as love at first sight, after all, men are the same, and they can't walk when they see beautiful women, and it will also make people have a desire to protect.
Her name is Yiqin, maybe it's in the eyes of her lover, I feel like she's good anywhere.
Under the "tie-in" of Xiao Han's girlfriend, the relationship between me and Yiqin is getting closer and closer, and in a month or two, we have determined the relationship as a couple.
In this way, I was a one-person walk every time, and now it has become a four-person walk, which is also the picture I dreamed of, and in my opinion, college is really the most free and relaxing time for me.
This life continued until she graduated from college, and the problem gradually surfaced, because Iqin was a North Korean girl, she could only stay in our country for three years, and when the time came, she had to be repatriated.
I discussed with her that I would go back to my house first, and then tell my parents about it when it was a good time, and then discuss getting married.
As soon as I arrived in my hometown, my father arranged for me and Han to work in a company, and Han was lucky to be able to meet a friend like me, which saved a lot of trouble, which is why we are still together today.
After working for a year, I first told my mother that she didn't care where I was married, as long as we were happy and healthy, and as for my father, he listened to my mother, so he didn't discuss it with him.
Next came Itchie's parents, the two of us took some time to go to her hometown, and when we first arrived at the door, my father-in-law and mother-in-law were quite hospitable and didn't have any problems with me.
Just stayed for a while, I found that my brother-in-law was a lazy person at home, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law didn't instruct him to move at all, so he was playing with his mobile phone, but I didn't care very much, anyway, I was the one who wanted to live with Xiuqin.
After three rounds of drinking, I mentioned to my father-in-law the idea of marrying Yiqin, and after hesitating for a while, they said to me: "I heard that you Chinese daughters-in-law all ask for a bride price, right, how much are you going to give for us Yiqin to marry so far away?"
As soon as I heard this, I said: "Uncle, the bride price is not a problem, I will do my best to give Yiqin the best, and I will definitely not treat her badly, after all, she is so far away, and she only knows me." ”
After some discussion, getting married is not as difficult as I imagined, it is nothing more than a matter of more money and less money, but the premise of all this is that your father-in-law and mother-in-law have to be optimistic about you.
When we got back to China, we started to plan for the wedding, and after picking a good date, we invited my father-in-law and mother-in-law to our side, and they were very surprised to see such a scene, probably not much in their area to see such a wedding.
After we got married, Itchie and I moved into our new house, and just when our lives were on track, all kinds of things began to surface!
I found that Yiqin's money was not enough to spend every month, and I kept asking me for money, and I didn't care much when I just got married, don't girls just love to buy something.
But gradually, I learned that Yiqin would send money to his family every month, six or seven thousand at a time, and I couldn't help it: "Yiqin, why do you keep sending money to your home, is there something at home that uses money? ”
Yiqin really followed my words and said, "Yes, my father fell recently, and my brother is unemployed and unemployed, so I only send money to the family every month." ”
Since Yichen has said so, what can I say, can I still not support it?
03
But this state is supported for a year, and there are hundreds of thousands of dollars in money, such an amount is really surprising to me, after all, my money is not blowing in the wind, and I have played so much without consulting me!
When I went to ask Yiqin, she showed that she didn't care, and it was not at all the same as what she looked like before marriage: "My brother hasn't looked for a job yet, don't I, who is an older sister, have to help?
I don't know what to say, I didn't expect Yiqin to be a "brother demon", I work hard every month to earn money, but your brother doesn't work and takes my money chic.
We quarreled a lot about it, but when I think about how I promised my father-in-law at the time, I regret it, and I am sure of what I said.
However, before I could go to my father-in-law to question him, he came to ask me first: "Xiao Han, do you remember how you assured me at that time? Didn't you let Yiqin be wronged? Why did you keep crying and calling me and saying that you were quarrelling?"
I didn't get angry: "Dad, I earn hard money every month, Yiqin sends money to my brother-in-law every month, do you still let our family live?"
At this time, my father-in-law was silent, but just changed his way to tell me about the quarrel, and I really didn't know what to do.
After two years like this, after the quarrel, the money is not so compact, but it is a little bigger from time to time, but I never thought that my father-in-law would get an inch.
I was at work that day, and my father-in-law said to me: "Xiao Han, you transfer 3 million to me, something happened to your brother-in-law and he urgently needs money, otherwise his life will be gone"!
Before he finished speaking, Yiqin called and said, "Husband, hurry up and transfer money to my father, otherwise my brother's life will be gone, I beg you"!
After some understanding, I realized that my brother-in-law owed so much money because of gambling, and I felt very ridiculous, this is using me as an ATM.
I rejected this matter bluntly, I didn't think that Yiqin would directly say to me: "If you don't transfer money to my family, let's divorce, and I will take the children with me"!
I was surprised and said, "Yiqin, I know it's your brother, but why didn't you stop him when he was gambling, and he remembered me when something happened?
Although I have this kind of money, I haven't given it to them so far, do you think I'm doing the right thing?
(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)