Fate is like duckweed!
When fate gives you a chance, you don't have to bargain with him, you have to catch him, and perhaps, your life can be completely and completely changed.
I come from a small mountain village in Changzhi, Shanxi Province, relying on one point of stubbornness, two points of persistence, three points of courage, out of this poor and backward small place, birds do not, and now I am the project manager of African aid construction, with an annual salary of one million, and buy a house and a car in Taiyuan, and live a completely different life.
Here's my life story.
Needless to say, even in my own opinion, it is a miracle to be able to get out of the mountains by reading.
My hometown is full of mountains, and there is only a narrow mountain road up the mountain, which winds and turns upward, and if one car happens to come down, the two cars can't avoid it at all. There is a ditch on the left, and a slope on the right, so I walked in and out on this road, until I walked to high school, and went to a middle school in the county seat.
People say that the mountain is a treasure, anything can grow, but the mountain in my hometown does not grow anything, only one kind of tree grows a pepper tree, the hard-working mountain people put the slope neatly and neatly, form a circle, plant peppercorns, and then, bitterly hope that they can produce pepper seeds, so that they can be exchanged for money in the market town.
The mountain is a barren mountain, and the ditch is a great ditch.
Maybe it's because it's too barren, so the mountain people are determined to get out of the mountains, and all those who can go are gone, and few people go back.
When I was in the county high school, my grades were mediocre, I came from the mountainous area, and my IQ was average, plus the children in the county were much smarter, so I struggled to study. In the 90s, it was still very difficult to get into a university, and a class could usually only be admitted to one or two universities and two or three technical secondary schools, so I didn't have much hope of going to school with my grades.
At that time, I even thought that if I couldn't pass the exam, I would set up a small stall at the foot of the mountain after graduation, selling bits and pieces of things, and live the rest of my life. However, the results have taken a turn for the better!
Somehow, in my sophomore year of high school, I changed to a female teacher who had just graduated from normal school to teach mathematics. The female teacher spoke softly, but I was able to understand the content of her speech word for word, and I was able to do math problems, which was very magical, and mathematics was enlightened. I did the same again, and I calmed down to ponder physics and chemistry, and I was able to understand it, and my grades began to rise. By the time I was in my third year of high school, I was already far ahead of the grades, which was incredible, and I hid in the corner, holding my breath and nervously doing the questions, while secretly having fun.
Later, not surprisingly, I successfully ranked second in my class in the college entrance examination and was admitted to a Jiaotong University. At that time, the whole small mountain village exploded, and they didn't expect that even someone like me would be able to go to university.
When fate shines a light on you, you must catch him. Undoubtedly, for the first time, I grasped the gift of fate and walked out of the mountains.
I always thought that I was the poorest student in the world, and I was ashamed to mention it in front of people, but it wasn't until I went to college and met my classmates from Yunnan that I realized that in this world, suffering is everywhere, and there are people who are poorer than you.
I studied in college is a major in "tunnel", there is a student from Yunnan in the class, after getting acquainted, he talked about his hometown, generations to grow tobacco for a living, only by selling tobacco to make a living, that day is more bitter than my hometown, how difficult it is for children to come out of the poor door. This world is full of people who need to change their fate, they have extremely resolute expectations and visions for the future, even if there is a glimmer of light, even if it is a little bit of light, they will rush to him, firmly grasp him, and successfully rewrite their fate.
After graduating, I went to the engineering bureau in Taiyuan and then to the construction site of Gerben in Qinghai. In fact, I didn't want to go home at all, and my family didn't expect much from me.
The construction site in Golmud is far away from the city, in the deep mountains and old forests, almost isolated from the world, we drill tunnels all day long, shoot cannon holes, the wind on the plateau blows loudly, blowing out pieces of "plateau red" on people's faces, loneliness and loneliness make me think of my college classmates countless times, think about fate.
Three years later, when the project was completed, I returned to the project headquarters in Taiyuan, and I really had no interest in going to a project site like Golmud again. At this time, one of my classmates contracted a tunnel in the northeast and called me to go.
After three years of Golmud project site, there is nothing else, but I have saved money, the project is too far away from the town, there is nowhere to spend the money, I have saved it, I have a small savings, and then, I tried my best to pour some money, and began to build a tunnel in the northeast with my classmates.
At that time, the tunnel was urgently "stopped" during construction, and my classmates and I lost all our investment. At that time, I hit my head on the ground, cried and grabbed the ground, and I had the heart to die, and the money had just been saved from Golmud, and it had not yet been heated, and it was lost without a trace in the blink of an eye.
Life, how can it not be difficult, I have been tossing around blindly for half of my life, and no one cares about me, and no one can help me at all. As long as there is life and there is a breath, there will be endless tossing and turning, and there will be something to eat. God has brought you into this world, and he must let you have something to eat! How can there be so much good luck?
My college classmate in Yunnan, after returning from graduation, sold cigarettes on the border line, drove a truck alone, ran around, once, was arrested, threw all the cigarettes in the car on the border line, picked up a life and came back, no, began to toss again!
Faced with the fruitless investment, I wiped away my tears and began to look for a new way out again, facing the second catastrophe of fate.
This time, I was much more honest and went straight to Beijing. The engineering bureau I signed with when I graduated had left my job, and I was looking for a new job in Beijing.
I have work experience and worked as a project manager, and I successfully joined a construction company in Beijing. In the construction industry, I started from the bottom and went up step by step.
Due to my good English foundation, I have not let go of it over the years, and I often listen to American dramas and watch American blockbusters in my spare time. Although I am away from home, the treatment is several times better than that of domestic projects, so I have been staying at the construction site of the African aid project, and in the past few years, I have slowly become a project manager, with an annual salary of more than one million.
As early as when I was in college, I had a partner, and later, we signed in together to the engineering bureau headquartered in Taiyuan. Over the years, no matter the wind, no matter the rain, no matter the good, no matter the bad, tossing and turning all the way, she has always waited for me. When my income was relatively stable, we became a family in Taiyuan and brought my parents from a small mountain village to Taiyuan. I was in my thirties when I got married, so I was a proper young man.
Now that I have passed the age of not being confused, I have been running around the construction site in Africa all the year round, gathering less and leaving more every year, and it is good to be able to go back once a year. I have a son, also in his teens, who is in elementary school, and because I don't see him very often, the little one is a stranger to me, and I plan to wait until the summer vacation to take him to Africa for a tour and experience the exotic atmosphere. Although I don't have some company, I can still do it if I give him a good enough education. My parents gradually got used to it in Taiyuan, and they happily integrated into the life of the city, getting rid of the appearance of their ancestors as farmers.
Sometimes I think about it, life is really a dream, how can I think of living a life that flies around every year? All life has its price, my price is to get together less and leave more, but with my wife, my son has grown up quite smoothly. Some people say that among the three generations, there is always a generation of people who have to endure hardship, if you don't endure hardship, your son will endure hardship, I am very grateful for life, gave me the gift of hardship, to be able to support my family in the big city, crooked to study the "tunnel" major in college, into the upsurge of the country's infrastructure development, so that I have a bowl to eat, and also live a relatively comfortable life.
People can't ask for too much fate, can let you survive, live with dignity, can make you have a family, and have the ability to take care of the life of a family, this is a kind of luck, this is the spear of fate!
Thanksgiving for life, thanksgiving for fate!
Annotation:
The story comes from the truth, at the request of the people in the text, the name and surname are hidden, but the life experience and experience are real, you can believe in the power of the people in the text to change their fate!
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