In the past two years, some of my friends have lost their jobs one after another, and I have noticed a phenomenon: most of the people who can't find a job after losing their jobs are those who always complain about life. Those who are financially optimistic are more likely to find satisfying jobs.
Unemployment is indeed a big setback for a person, the original peaceful life, disrupted by the sudden unemployment, at the moment of unemployment will often be extremely worried, what to do with the future mortgage? what to do with the car loan? what to do with the children's tuition fees? what to do with the daily living expenses? This series of problems will make us instantly at a loss, some people think more and more sad, break the jar and fall, and finally escape from reality, Some people are optimistic, break their original comfortable life circle, break their own mindset, start from scratch, face reality with optimism, reintegrate into society, reposition, and soon find a job that suits them and devote themselves to a new life.
Different attitudes determine different lives. Life will not be so smooth sailing, there will always be some difficulties of one kind or another, but attitude determines the future.
If you always complain about life, have a negative mentality, and are full of fear and worry about the future, this negative emotion will affect their actions and make them lose confidence and courage about the future.
If you maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, you will have enthusiasm and confidence in life. This positive attitude will make them more confident in their future actions.
This reminds me of Shi Yuzhu, his experience is quite legendary, in the early 90s, he earned his first pot of gold by selling software, in 97 years because of the construction of the Giant Building caused the capital chain to break, and finally a debt of 250 million yuan, when everyone thought that Shi Yuzhu could not turn over, the result was only 3 years, Shi Yuzhu made a comeback with brain platinum and paid off all debts. In the end, Giant Network Group was listed in the United States, and Shi Yuzhu's worth exceeded 50 billion yuan. He went from being in debt of 250 million to becoming an entrepreneur worth tens of billions, and with his optimism and perseverance, he created his own legend.
Guo Guangchang, the boss of Fosun Group, commented on him as follows: I admire two people in the business, one is Ma Yun, I call him an alien, his appearance and way of doing things are different from others; The other is Shi Yuzhu, I call him Shi Daxian, and he is the only one who can stand up again if he fails. Yes, without the spirit of optimism, it would not have been possible to bring so much strength to Shi Yuzhu, prompting him to fall and get up again, and finally stand on the top of the mountain.
Alexandre Dumas once said: 'Optimism is a passionate and beautiful march that always inspires you to march forward on the road of your career.' Optimism is an attitude towards life, which can guide us to persevere in the face of difficulties and perseverance in the face of setbacks. Stay optimistic and look to the future, even if the future looks full of thorns, as long as we remain optimistic, we will be able to run forward.
Stay optimistic and life will work out the way you want it to. Come on, friend!