1. The shadow behind happiness
With soft eyes, Tang Yifei quietly watched her husband Ling Xiaosu and the two children under her knees laughing and playing on the soft carpet, this warm picture shows the happiness of their lives.
However, the depths of Ling Xiaosu's brow could not erase that deep worry, and the ups and downs of his career over the years had become an eternal pain in his heart.
Recalling the social turmoil a few years ago, Ling Xiaosu is still full of emotion. At that time, he was violently attacked by public opinion, accused of betrayal in marriage, and became a controversial "scumbag".
The overwhelming condemnation plunged him into a painful abyss of self-loathing at the low point of his career.
It was 2009, when Ling Xiaosu and actress Tang Yifei were cooperating in the filming of the TV series "Lang Heart Like Iron", the intimate interaction between the two on the set aroused people's suspicions. Immediately afterwards, a photo of him secretly taking Tang Yifei sleeping was exposed on the Internet, which undoubtedly intensified the public's suspicion.
Although Ling Xiaosu issued a statement to explain, Yao Chen turned a deaf ear to this, which made the outside world even more convinced that they were divorced and that Ling Xiaosu was the culprit of "marital cheating".
A frenzy of public opinion followed, and the accusations against Ling Xiaosu swept like a flood of beasts. In 2012, he and Tang Yifei got married in a low-key manner, which confirmed the title of "scumbag".
This turmoil not only dealt a heavy blow to Ling Xiaosu's career, but also caused him to fall into the pain of self-denial for a long time.
It wasn't until an explosive news story years later that the truth was revealed. Although Ling Xiaosu tearfully cleared the stigma of "scumbag", the trauma of her career was irreparable.
Fortunately, Tang Yifei has always stood firmly by his side, their marriage is still happy, and they have two lively and lovely children.
2. The once sweet campus romance
Yao Chen was born in an ordinary family, his father was a train driver, and his mother was a post office clerk, and his family was not wealthy. However, Yao Chen has a cheerful personality since he was a child, and has an amazing talent and strong interest in dance.
Whenever the TV shows the little people dancing, she would imitate the joyful dancing posture together, making her parents laugh.
Seeing their daughter's obsession with dance, Yao Chen's parents did not hesitate to sign her up for a dance training class. Surprisingly, Yao Chen's talent was praised by the dance teacher.
Soon after, a well-known dance academy with a good reputation in the industry held a fierce selection competition for the whole country, and among the many outstanding contestants, Yao Chen stood out with his outstanding performance and successfully obtained the opportunity to study.
In the face of such a rare opportunity, the college put forward an important condition, that is, Yao Chen must stick to his post after completing his studies and stay in the school's dance troupe.
However, Yao Chen did not hesitate too much, but accepted the challenge without hesitation, and resolutely embarked on the road to study in the capital Beijing.
When she first arrived in Beijing, Yao Chen was filled with endless curiosity and longing for this bustling international metropolis, and at the same time, she gradually indulged in the charm of performing arts. After careful consideration, she made a bold decision - to give up the dance achievements she had already achieved and instead devote herself to the Beijing Film Academy, determined to become an outstanding actress.
In order to fully support their daughter in pursuing a new life path, Yao Chen's parents ran around and asked relatives and friends for help, and finally raised 100,000 yuan in liquidated damages for the dance company on the eve of the college entrance examination.
In this way, Yao Chen finally got his wish and stepped into the door of Beijing Film Academy and opened a new chapter in his life.
On the campus of Beijing Film Academy, Yao Chen met and got to know his classmate Ling Xiaosu. At first, they were like a young couple, always laughing and playing when they met, but it was this ordinary and warm daily interaction that made the relationship between them deeper and deeper.
Soon after, they stepped into an enviable campus romance. On the occasion of graduation, Ling Xiaosu proposed to Yao Chen affectionately, and since then, they have walked through their youth hand in hand and walked towards a better future together.
However, fate always seems to like to play tricks on people. Just when people thought they would be happy forever, a sudden storm shattered the peaceful life. In 2009, there was a scandal between Ling Xiaosu and actress Tang Yifei during the filming of the TV series "Lang Heart Like Iron".
Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei's tacit cooperation and private intimate interaction in the play aroused public suspicion. Some netizens broke the news that Ling Xiaosu had secretly taken photos of Tang Yifei's sleeping face, and the ambiguous behavior of the two attracted widespread attention.
In the face of the pressure of public opinion, Ling Xiaosu quickly issued a statement to clarify the facts, however, Yao Chen chose to remain silent on this matter, which undoubtedly intensified the speculation of the outside world about their marital status, and some people even thought that Ling Xiaosu had already betrayed his marriage and was an out-and-out "scumbag".
In the online world, Ling Xiaosu's hard work has not been able to reverse public misunderstanding, in exchange for more fierce criticism and slander. It wasn't until 2012 that he finally entered the marriage hall with Tang Yifei in a low-key way, and at this moment, the outside world lost the excuse to blame him for the "scumbag" notoriety he had carried in the past.
The storm not only destroyed his career, but also left him living in endless cursing and mental torture.
However, no matter how dramatic the plot is, there is also speculation waiting for the audience. In 2014, the high-profile journalist Ju Chunlei suddenly revealed a series of shocking insider stories.
The large amount of evidence she holds in her hands reveals that Yao Chen has been involved in cheating scandals many times during her marriage to Ling Xiaosu.
According to Ju Chunlei, Yao Chen had an improper relationship with the actor in the crew three times. For the first time, when they were not married, she had an ambiguous relationship with actor Guo Jinglin.
Although Ling Xiaosu had already noticed it, in order to enter the marriage hall as soon as possible, Yao Chen chose to use marriage to cover up his "infidelity".
The second derailment occurred during the filming of the TV series "Before and After the House", and the relationship between Yao Chen and actor Zhou Xiaogang has reached the point of unspeakable. Although in the end, she chose to be honest with Ling Xiaosu and begged for forgiveness.
The most shocking thing is that for the third time, Yao Chen took the initiative to confess to her husband that she had a too intimate interaction with the actor Sun Honglei in the TV series "Latent".
These cruel truths were like a resounding slap in the face, hitting Yao Chen fiercely. She was once regarded as a "victim", but now she has become a "street rat" that everyone shouts and beats.
Fourth, public opinion reversed, and Yao Chen's reputation was discredited
In the face of Ju Chunlei's fierce attack, Yao Chen chose to remain silent about the public's doubts, which is undoubtedly equivalent to acquiescing in the fact that he cheated in marriage. Even the well-known actor Liu Ye revealed in an interview that as early as 2010, Yao Chen's relationship with her current husband Cao Yu had gone beyond the category of ordinary friends.
For a while, the abuse of Yao Chen on the Internet came like a tide. This "victim", who was once sympathized with by people, has become a "street rat" spurned by everyone in the blink of an eye. What she exchanged for cheating and betrayal was not only the loss of her good reputation, but also the collapse of her reputation.
As the "culprit", Ling Xiaosu, although he publicly admitted that he had a third party intervening in the marriage after the divorce, due to the serious tilt and favoritism of public opinion before, he suffered a heavy blow in his career and fell into a trough for a while.
However, Yao Chen's acting career is a smooth road, and after marriage, he and Cao Yu have a deep relationship, and they have a son and a daughter under their knees. In the face of doubts and criticism on the Internet, Yao Chen has always remained silent and devoted himself to a warm family life.
However, in every interview, when asked about Cao Yu's career achievements, she always proudly praised her husband's talent.
Seeing that Yao Chen was still living a luxurious and wealthy life, the outside world couldn't help but sigh at his thick skin. The reversal of this storm of public opinion undoubtedly enabled Ling Xiaosu, who was once misunderstood as a "scumbag", to completely turn around and clear up his grievances.
However, the price he paid for this was too painful, not only suffered a heavy setback in his career, but also suffered countless psychological traumas over the years, and he was physically and mentally exhausted.
Fortunately, Tang Yifei has always been firmly by his side, supporting her husband out of the haze with selfless love. Their married life is happy and sweet, and they also have two lively and lovely children under their knees, which has become the greatest comfort in Ling Xiaosu's life.
Fifth, win respect by turning over with strength
Yao Chen, who was once abused by netizens, has now won the respect of the public with his strength and superb acting skills. After several years of low periods, the urban emotional drama "It's All Good" starring her was an unprecedented success and became popular, so Yao Chen became popular again and re-ascended to the top of the entertainment industry.
At the same time, Yao Chen's husband Cao Yu also ushered in a glorious period of his career. This master of photography, who is greatly admired by his wife, showed extraordinary talent in the film "The Legend of the Demon Cat" directed by him.
His profound lens skills have been highly praised by the industry, and he finally won the Golden Rooster Award and the Huabiao Award for Best Photography.
This couple, who used to be regarded as a "well-known junior", now both have successful careers and live an enviable life. Yao Chen is extremely proud of this, and her praise for her husband's achievements is endless.
However, while enjoying the current luxury and wealth, she does not seem to reflect on the criticism that caused in the first place.
In contrast, the "third parties" Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei, who were involved in the scandal with Yao Chen, were a little overshadowed. Although they have a happy married life, their careers have been stagnant.
Even now that Ling Xiaosu has successfully gotten rid of the charge of "scumbag", however, the period of Internet violence that was like a storm at the beginning still left him with deep and lasting psychological trauma, and its impact was even far-reaching and long-lasting! I believe that that dark period was such a blow to his body and mind!
The former Ling Xiaosu was a powerful actor who won the hearts of the people and was highly praised, with a superior family background and rich film and television resources. However, the sudden turmoil made him suffer a lot on the road of acting, and he struggled.
Fortunately, Tang Yifei and his two lively and lovely children have always been his solid backing, supporting him to regain the sunshine of life with selfless love. After all, only the parties concerned can truly experience the happiness of marriage.
Extramarital affairs and cheating are undoubtedly great harm and betrayal to the other half, but how to face and deal with these problems, we also need to think calmly.
The marriage incident between Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen once aroused widespread attention and heated discussions in the whole society. Many people are wondering what kind of strength Yao Chen can rely on his superb acting skills to become popular again and continue to win the love of the audience? They believe that an actor's moral character and professionalism are as important as his skill level.
If you make mistakes in your married life, you should be brave enough to take responsibility for them instead of trying to cover up the past. Indeed, Yao Chen's various cheating behaviors in his marriage are really intolerable and seriously violate the loyalty between husband and wife.
However, she is a talented actress after all, and her pursuit of career and professionalism are impeccable.
Whether she can turn over through acting skills may reflect on whether she is qualified to be forgiven by the audience. In contrast, more people sympathized with Ling Xiaosu, believing that he was the victim of this turmoil.
Although he was once regarded as a "scumbag" and was violently criticized, it turned out that he was not "cheating in marriage", but was first betrayed by Yao Chen's commitment to marriage.
As an innocent party, the pain and loss suffered by Ling Xiaosu was too heavy. Marriage is indeed a private matter for two people, and it is difficult for outsiders to fully understand the reason.
However, for Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu, the former couple, they have both lost their most precious thing - loyalty.
Yao Chen exchanged his derailment for the glory of his career, but at the same time, he also lost Ling Xiaosu's sincere love forever, and although Ling Xiaosu was finally able to clear his grievances, the heavy blow to his career will undoubtedly make it difficult for him to climb the peak of his career.
Thankfully, these two people who were once in turmoil have now rebuilt their families and enjoyed a relatively peaceful and loving life again. Perhaps the most valuable revelation brought by this turmoil is that we must face our married life with great caution, and loyalty is the most fundamental and unshakable bottom line in the relationship between husband and wife!
Only on the solid foundation of mutual respect and trust can the flower of love bloom for a long time, never wither, and will not be easily eroded and destroyed by the outside world.