I. Preamble
The prejudice and discrimination against divorced people in society is like a sharp sword, which deeply pierces the hearts of everyone who has stepped into the quagmire of "divorce". This highly derogatory term, "second-hand rose", has once again aroused widespread heated discussions in all walks of life, prompting us to conduct in-depth reflection and in-depth review of the misunderstanding and discrimination against this specific group of people that have been solidified in our hearts and rooted in our bone marrow for a long time.
Divorce itself is not a shameful thing, but it is often labelled as "second-hand" and "failed" and belittled. This notion has been around in society for quite some time and is deeply ingrained.
In the face of doubts and accusations from the outside world, the divorcees are all burdened with a heavy psychological burden, falling into deep guilt, self-blame and pain.
In fact, the beginning of a marriage does not depend solely on the will of one of the parties, and the end of the marriage is not something that can be controlled by the individual. The fading of emotions is often a long and arduous process, and the final rupture is often just a last choice in desperation.
We should actively advocate that the public should give more understanding and tolerance to divorcees, instead of blaming and discriminating against them. Everyone has loved passionately in their youth, they have had good expectations for marriage, and they also have the right to pursue their own happy life.
Divorce does not represent a decrease in a person's value, but requires great courage and wisdom to end those marital relationships that are destined to not bring happiness, and we should convey warmth and love to the divorced, rather than pointing the finger at these innocent victims and adding new wounds to their wounds.
As a society with a high level of civilization, we should accept the stories of each divorced person with an open and inclusive mind, and understand the difficult choices they made at that time, rather than simply and rudely categorizing them as "second-hand roses" and such an overly one-sided and rigid definition.
After all, everyone's definition of happiness is unique, and we should respect each individual's worldview, outlook on life, and values.
2. Huang Jingyu's life course
Huang Jingyu's background is far less dazzling than his current brilliance. He was born in an ordinary rural family, and his father was just an unknown migrant worker. Due to his family's poverty, he had to give up his studies in high school and choose to devote himself to the military and become an honorable soldier.
After taking off his uniform from the army, Huang Jingyu came to the prosperous and majestic capital Beijing alone to realize his dream, and embarked on a journey full of difficulties and obstacles to pursue his dream. At first, he stepped into the glitzy entertainment industry through a talent show by chance, and only signed a contract with a meager monthly salary of 3,000 yuan.
His first film and television work presented in the audience's field of vision did not cause a sensation, and was even unknown for a while. However, Huang Jingyu was not discouraged by this, but he immersed himself in hard training and devoted himself to the filming of the crew, and finally after 3 years of tempering, he gradually emerged in several popular TV series in a row, gaining the attention of the audience.
lived up to expectations, in 2016, Huang Jingyu's superb acting skills in the youth-themed TV series "Addiction" won high praise from the public. In the same year, the role of a cold and warm man he played in the urban emotional drama "Love" attracted the enthusiastic pursuit of many girl fans.
The wonderful performances of the hit dramas have made Huang Jingyu a bright new star, and his acting career has finally ushered in the moment of breaking out of the cocoon. Today, Huang Jingyu's salary has exceeded 10 million, and he has also frequently involved in various variety shows and endorsement activities, showing at the peak of his career.
With his excellent skills and unique charm, Huang Jingyu is favored by people in the industry and is known as a popular superstar in the future film and television industry.
However, when his career was in full swing, Huang Jingyu's love life encountered ups and downs. In 2016, he and a mysterious woman entered the marriage hall like lightning, but the good times did not last long, and the marriage only lasted for two years before it broke down.
After the divorce was exposed, his ex-wife posted a series of false accusations and malicious attacks against him on the Internet, but then she publicly clarified, claiming that the two were just ordinary friends.
In the face of the end of this marriage, Huang Jingyu has always maintained a low-key attitude and rarely speaks out, although his emotional road is tortuous and winding, he has always devoted himself to his career.
Today, Huang Jingyu's salary has climbed to one million, and he frequently participates in various variety shows and endorsement activities across borders, and is at the peak of his career. With his outstanding acting skills and handsome appearance, Huang Jingyu is generally favored by industry insiders and is regarded as a popular potential stock in the film and television industry in the future.
3. Chen Muchi's divorce experience and multiple relationship journeys
Chen Muchi is undoubtedly a "heartthrob" in the entertainment industry, and his love life has always been the focus of attention. It is rumored that Chen Muchi had a short marriage, but the other party was not an insider in the entertainment industry.
The marriage was short-lived, quickly withered, and eventually ended in divorce.
In the face of this false accusation, Chen Muchi did not hesitate to choose to fight back head-on. He posted publicly on his personal social media, bravely admitting that he did have a history of marriage, but regrettably, this marriage failed to grow old together, but ended peacefully after a short period of time together.
At that time, neither of them had children. At the same time, Chen Muchi also earnestly appealed to the majority of netizens to respect his personal privacy and avoid excessive speculation and comments on his emotional journey.
He frankly said that if there are still people who maliciously fabricate baseless rumors, he will have to take legal measures to defend his legitimate rights and interests.
In fact, Chen Muchi's emotional road can be described as full of twists and turns and legends. Just last November, a paparazzi witnessed him dating a mysterious woman at a café, and the intimate interaction between the two was as sweet as a couple in love.
And in October of this year, rumors about his relationship with the wealthy daughter Chen Bing once again caused an uproar on the Internet, and the two were frequently photographed behaving intimately, like a loving couple.
It is worth mentioning that the wealthy daughter Chen Bing has a prominent family background, her father is the general distributor of a well-known fast food brand, and the family assets are as high as hundreds of millions of yuan. If the two really come together, I believe that Chen Muchi will be able to live a carefree life without worrying about daily trivial matters.
In addition, some people familiar with the matter revealed that as early as during the filming of the popular TV series "Fengshen", Chen Muchi had a secret love affair with a female staff member, and the relationship between the two sprouted and grew in the romantic atmosphere of the crew.
Looking at Chen Muchi's current emotional journey, he seems unable to give a long-term and stable commitment. However, in any case, he always insisted on asking everyone to respect his personal life rights and privacy, and to avoid excessive speculation and evaluation of his love life.
We firmly believe that as long as he maintains a positive attitude, the complicated scandals and rumors from the outside world will not be able to shake his bright future in his acting career.
Fourth, Liu Yuning responded to the marital status
Just as Chen Muchi's marital status was revealed, another high-profile young actor, Liu Yuning, was also facing the same trouble. A person who calls himself a "paparazzi" posted a shocking news on social platforms - Liu Yuning had registered her marriage in Jilin Province in April 2012, but the marriage lasted only 20 months before ending in December 2013.
In order to further expose the truth, the "paparazzi" even publicly released Liu Yuning's marriage registration information, which showed that his birth year was 1987, which is obviously different from the statement that he was born in 1990 circulating on the Internet.
What's even more shocking is that this person even boldly released an intimate photo of Liu Yuning's ex-wife and their children, and brazenly claimed that the information he had "goes far beyond the divorce itself."
In the face of such a vicious and cunning behavior, Liu Yuning resolutely decided to respond through a live broadcast on his personal social media. He first confessed with an angry and helpless expression that he had indeed experienced the process of marriage and divorce, but then firmly denied having children with his ex-wife, and made it clear that the children in the photo were actually flesh and blood between his ex-wife and her current husband.
Liu Yuning expressed his deep apologies to the person who wantonly leaked his ex-wife's privacy many times in a row, revealing incomparable guilt and remorse in his words. He promised to use legal weapons at all costs to protect his ex-wife's reputation and rights, and never let her suffer any kind of harm again.
Liu Yuning mercilessly accused the "paparazzi" of maliciously using this information to hype up on the premise that he knew that he had broken up with his ex-wife for many years, and his motives were really despicable.
He stressed that he is not afraid of being "smeared" or his privacy exposed, but his only wish is that the "paparazzi" can point the finger directly at him, rather than involving innocent others.
Many netizens praised Liu Yuning's response this time as both swift and resolute, and the use of legal weapons to protect his ex-wife's privacy is even more affirmative, effectively preventing the further deterioration and escalation of the situation.
However, there are still some opinions that he should have voluntarily disclosed the fact that he was married before such incidents broke out, rather than waiting for someone to be revealed before responding and clarifying.
Looking at the overall situation, compared with those artists who find excuses to pass the buck as soon as they encounter problems, Liu Yuning's performance this time is undoubtedly more responsible and responsible, at least he chose to face the problem bravely, with a clear and firm attitude.
As a public figure, when faced with personal privacy and public relations crises, you should show a sincere and responsible attitude, and face it positively, rather than making promises that cannot be easily achieved.
Although Liu Yuning has a clear position in responding to this matter this time, whether he can stick to his commitment to protecting his ex-wife will undoubtedly need to be tested and confirmed by future time! .