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Time flies, and it has been a full fifty-two spring and autumn years to buy Hongmei in an instant. However, the years have not left too many traces on her, but have made her face more and more delicate and charming, and her bright eyes that shimmer with aura are still full of happiness.
Whenever she smiles, the calm fine lines at the corners of her eyes seem to tell endless joy.
This happiness was not easy to come by, and she has experienced countless hardships and painful struggles. Now, she has finally ushered in the life she has always dreamed of: she has a considerate companion by her side, Sun Yulun, who takes good care of her and treats her as a treasure.
The two often share sweet moments on social media, and their love is deep.
What's even more enviable is that Mai Hongmei's acting career is at its peak, whether in popular variety shows or high-profile film and television dramas, she has always been the focus, and her superb acting skills have won unanimous praise from the audience.
In addition to her busy work, she enjoys a free and easy life, full of vitality and unique charm.
All of this stems from her unwavering qualities. Despite experiencing countless ups and downs in her life, she has never given up her persistent pursuit of a better life. Now, she has finally realized her dream and is living the most ideal life in her heart.
Looking back at the late 90s of the 20th century, Mai Hongmei at that time was undoubtedly a bright new star in the Chinese entertainment industry. On Chinese New Year's Eve in 1995, she became an instant hit with her outstanding performance in the popular sketch "Something You Call Me".
Since then, he has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for four consecutive years, and his career is thriving and his future is bright.
It was at this critical moment that she met Sun Nan, an equally talented newcomer in the music industry. The interaction between the two in a variety show sparked love for each other. Sun Nan fell in love with this peerless beauty at first sight, and the hours of conversation made their relationship quickly warm up and extremely hot.
So, Sun Nan mustered up the courage to confess to Mai Hongmei and proposed to her affectionately. The young Mai Hongmei was moved by Sun Nan's sincerity and accepted his marriage proposal without hesitation, and the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
In 2000, the newlyweds welcomed their first child. In order to be able to take care of her lovely baby daughter wholeheartedly, Mai Hongmei resolutely decided to put down her busy career and devote herself to family life.
When Sun Nan's music career was in full swing, he was just right for his wife, and he would personally prepare exquisite surprise gifts for his family every festive season, and treat his father-in-law and mother-in-law with meticulous filial piety, all of which made their marriage as beautiful as a sugar-coated cannon in the prosperous era!
The originally happy married life did not last long. Over time, the huge difference in lifestyle gradually created an insurmountable gulf between them as a couple.
Sun Nan is a keen golfer, and he sweats on the grassy course every day until nightfall, and the energy on the course is in stark contrast to Mai Hongmei's dedication to the family, who is so busy with housework and taking care of her children that she has little time to take care of herself.
Gradually, the life trajectories of the two are getting farther and farther apart. Every time Sun Nan returned home, he often looked exhausted, ignoring his wife's requests for help and needs, and his face was full of boredom.
And Sun Nan's evaluation of his wife also became angry and helpless: "She is bloated, dull-complexion, and short-tempered, and has long lost her charming demeanor in the past" In this way, the once loving couple gradually drifted apart and lived in a marriage that existed in name only.
At this critical moment, Pan Wei, a female host with outstanding looks and capable temperament, walked into their lives. Sun Nan fell in love with her at first sight, the two were immersed in joy, and after a long time, Pan Wei soon became the "third party" in their family that could not be ignored.
At this time, Mai Hongmei was pregnant with Liujia, and her physical condition was deteriorating day by day. Faced with her husband's betrayal, she resolutely decided to end this ridiculous marriage. Sun Nan agreed to this without hesitation, and quickly completed the divorce procedures with Mai Hongmei at the price of up to 30 million yuan and 5 properties.
In this way, the once loving couple, only a few years of married life broke down.
The blow of divorce was like a heavy punch, hitting Mai Hongmei's heart hard. At one point, she had thoughts of suicide, and went to the beach alone, gazing at the rough sea, longing to die in order to end this endless suffering.
Whenever she fell into a deep depression, her heart was churning with helplessness and pain, longing to let the turbulent sea drown herself, and all that came into view was the weak and stumbling figures of the two daughters with pale faces in their eyes.
She couldn't help but ask herself, if I were to die, how would they face this cruel world alone? Mother's sense of responsibility and mission forced her to temporarily suppress the urge to give up her life.
In order to protect the two innocent children, Mai Hongmei resolutely walked out of the trough of her life and got rid of the haze. She began to devote herself to her work and rekindled her love for acting.
With her own strong strength and unwavering determination, she quickly regained her former popularity and glory.
In 2011, she cooperated with the famous comedian Guo Donglin again and appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala together, becoming the focus of the audience and attracting widespread attention from the entire industry.
After the divorce, Mai Hongmei's career is thriving, and her life has gradually ushered in bright sunshine. However, her ex-husband Sun Nan clung to the line and tried to take back custody of her two children from her.
He filed a complaint accusing Mai Hongmei of failing to take care of her daughter dutifully, and asked the court to adjust custody. It was undoubtedly an incomparably sharp knife that once again pushed her into the endless abyss.
In those difficult and difficult years, Mai Hongmei seemed to have lost her soul, washing her face with tears every day and couldn't sleep at night. Her heart seemed to be torn apart, and the pain was indescribable.
Fortunately, after years of litigation and disputes, the two parties finally reached a mediation agreement and shared the responsibility of raising their two daughters.
This allowed Mai Hongmei to untie the heaviest shackles in her heart, and her life finally regained the light of hope. So, she poured all her energy into her career, devoted herself to the shooting of film and television works, and actively participated in the recording of various variety shows.
In comparison, Sun Nan's newlywed life can be described as dazzling. His relationship with Pan Wei was a highlight after the divorce, and the two quickly entered the palace of marriage and opened a new chapter in their lives.
As a leader in the entertainment industry, the life of this newcomer has naturally attracted wide attention from all walks of life. Some netizens broke the news that Sun Nan sent her daughter to a school called "Female Durban" in Xuzhou, and the motive behind it is thought-provoking.
As expected, Pan Wei publicized with great fanfare, it turned out that they were carefully planning to train their daughter Mai Bao Yao to learn the traditional skills of the Chinese nation such as female red and embroidery, and expected her to create a contemporary image of a "talented woman".
This seemingly impeccable educational concept has aroused heated doubts and deep reflection in public opinion.
People have questioned whether Pan Wei has an overly narrow utilitarian heart, why is her own daughter sent overseas for further study, but she is so "well-intentioned" in her stepdaughter's training? Public opinion is full of ridicule about the motives behind the newlyweds' actions, and there are deep doubts about whether they are truly committed to passing on the culture.
In the midst of this turmoil, Sun Nan himself seemed detached and turned a deaf ear to the uproar of public opinion. However, during this period, his career also began to show a downward trend, which could not be compared with its former glory.
After entering middle age, his heroic posture is long gone, and the wrinkles on his face ruthlessly reveal the inexorable passage of time.
Time flies. In an instant, the pain of divorce has moved away from Mai Hongmei. With her unremitting efforts and perseverance, she walked out of the shadows step by step and regained the hope and light of life.
Now she is enjoying the life she dreams of. In terms of career, she has become the focus of attention, hosted many popular variety shows, and participated in many movies and TV series with a bumper box office reputation, which can be called a popular fried chicken in the entertainment industry.
In life, she has a considerate lover Sun Yulun by her side, and the two have a deep relationship and happiness.
Looking back on today's Mai Hongmei, and comparing the downfall of her ex-husband Sun Nan, it is really amazing that the fate of the husband and wife has now opened a world of difference.
In the past, Sun Nan was very picky about his wife's figure and appearance, but now he is a middle-aged greasy uncle, with loose skin and a haggard face. The handsome and chic of the past is long gone, as if life is about to come to an end.
Even more tragic is that his career is also showing signs of decline.
As a survivor who still adheres to her self-confidence and strength after many years of divorce, Mai Hongmei uses her own experience to convey the positive energy of vitality and hope. Her journey explains to us a profound philosophy of life: short-term setbacks are not the end, as long as you have unwavering perseverance and endless yearning for a better future, you will definitely have the ability to leave the shadow of the past behind and welcome a new dawn.