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Text: Nine Nine views the world
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Preface
Today, love in the entertainment industry has long become the audience's favorite "fun".
It seems that no matter how talented an artist is, there will always be something wrong with his feelings, such as singer Sun Nan.
Although Sun Nan's attainments and achievements in music are very high, his private life is like a puddle of mud.
What exactly did Sun Nan do? Will he regret his choice?
The same father does not have the same fate
In 2010, Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei's family underwent major changes.
Sun Nan decided to take Mai Hongmei to court because she refused him to visit the child, an incident that marked a complete breakdown in the relationship between the two.
In this family dispute, Sun Nan claimed that Mai Hongmei cheated on her marriage, and this accusation added fuel to the fire.
The court's judgment on the custody of the child appeared to be quite balanced: the daughter was raised by Sun Nan, while the son was raised by Mai Hongmei.
This decision not only changed the trajectory of the children's lives, but also reflected the court's cautious approach in dealing with such disputes.
Mai Hongmei's experience is quite similar to that of another celebrity at the time, Xin Xin, who both encountered complex human and love problems in their marriage.
In 2019, a video of Sun Nan's family life was exposed, which once again aroused the public's attention to their family situation.
Pan Wei, Sun Nan's current wife, sent Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei's daughter Mai Baoyao to the Chinese Studies Class of Huaxia Xue Palace.
Huaxia Academy is an institution that focuses on traditional culture and etiquette education, but it is not a formal school and lacks education in basic subjects. Despite this, Sun Nan expressed her approval of her daughter's educational choice.
However, this move has caused widespread doubts among netizens.
On the one hand, there is a significant difference between Pan Wei's attitude towards her own daughter's education and that of Mai Baoyao, whose biological daughter was educated abroad, while Mai Baoyao was sent to a school that focused on women's moral education.
Although Mai Baoyao once expressed her admiration for her stepmother, netizens questioned it.
What is even more concerning is that Huaxia Xuegong lacks the qualifications to run a school and may not be able to provide students with formal graduation certificates.
This can have a detrimental effect on a child's future education and career development.
Faced with such a situation, Mai Hongmei chose to remain silent, she focused on her career development and did not publicly express her opinion on the incident.
With the closure of the Huaxia Academy, this matter was gradually forgotten by the public.
However, this series of events has had a huge negative impact on Sun Nan's public image.
In the eyes of the public, he was labeled as a "scumbag" and a "stepfather".
On June 17, 2021, Sun Nan issued a statement on Weibo denying that her daughter went to a girls' school, but this statement did not quell public doubts and criticism.
After becoming famous, he married Mai Hongmei
1995 may be just an ordinary year for ordinary people, but for Sun Nan, it was a turning point in fate.
In that year, he transformed from an unknown music lover to a well-known singer in Asia, a leap that not only changed the trajectory of his life, but also added countless colors to his later life.
Sun Nan's musical journey was not all smooth sailing.
At the 1995 Asian Heart to Heart Music Festival, his performance was excellent, but it was only enough to make him a second-tier singer.
Despite this, Sun Nan is satisfied with his achievements, and he knows that every step is a necessary path to success.
In his spare time, he prefers to spend time with his family and enjoy an ordinary and warm life.
The turning point came by chance. On Chinese New Year's Eve at home, Sun Nan watched the Spring Festival Gala with his family.
In the show, he saw Mai Hongmei's performance and half-jokingly offered to marry her.
This joke turned out to be the starting point of their fate.
Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei have similar backgrounds, they were both born in literary and artistic families, and this common growth environment makes them have more resonance.
Mai Hongmei is a woman with a strong personality, who wanted to be a soldier at the age of 14, showing her independent and strong side.
At the same time, the young Sun Nan is beginning to form his own band and enter the world of music.
Their respective choices show their different pursuits of life and dreams.
In 1996, Sun Nan's career ushered in a peak.
His album "Red Flag Fluttering" received widespread acclaim and numerous awards, and his name began to resonate in the music industry.
In this year, Sun Nan's agent arranged for him to participate in the show hosted by Mai Hongmei, in which he proposed to Mai Hongmei, and this brave act has also become a romantic chapter in the love story of the two.
However, the path of love is not always smooth.
In 2000, Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei got married, but on the wedding day, Sun Nan had to leave due to an emergency phone call, a scene that foreshadowed some challenges in their future lives.
Although the two love each other, the busyness of Sun Nan's career and Mai Hongmei's decision to give up her career for the sake of her family gradually caused a rift in their relationship.
Mai Hongmei took on most of the responsibilities in the family, and Sun Nan's busyness prevented him from fully participating in family life.
In this case, the contradictions between the husband and wife begin to appear, and frequent quarrels over trivial matters are frequent.
Sun Nan felt dissatisfied in the process, but chose to avoid the problem instead of actively seeking a solution, which further exacerbated the deterioration of the marital relationship.
Change
On the lush green golf course, Sun Nan found his safe haven.
For him, it's not the skill that matters, it's the scenery and tranquility of the pitch that really attracts him.
Here, he can escape the hustle and bustle of his family for a while and immerse himself in his own world.
However, this escape does not solve the problems that are accumulating in the home.
At the same time, Mai Hongmei, Sun Nan's wife, is experiencing her own transformation.
Losing trust in her husband, she decided to return to acting while pregnant with her second child. The decision was not only a challenge to himself, but also a silent protest against Sun's growing machismo.
Her actions were undoubtedly a blow to Sun Nan's self-esteem.
At a social gathering, Sun Nan met Pan Wei, an experienced travel TV host who understands the psychology of men.
Sun Nan found someone to confide in her, and the two quickly established an intimate relationship.
The family and emotional struggles eventually led Sun Nan to file for divorce from Mai Hongmei, and Mai Hongmei agreed to this decision after all kinds of struggles and thoughts.
In 2009, their ten-year marriage came to an end.
Soon after the divorce, Sun Nan and Pan Wei entered the palace of marriage.
Child custody after divorce has become the focus of contention between the parties.
They have a son and a daughter, and although Sun Nan lost custody, he still strives to be a good father.
However, due to the tense relationship with Mai Hongmei, she refused to let Sun Nan see the child.
This aroused Sun Nan's anger, and even in order to see the child, he once violently knocked on the door of Mai Hongmei's house, which eventually led to the intervention of the police.
Sun Nan was unwilling to accept this situation, and he took Mai Hongmei to court in an attempt to fight for visitation rights.
In this process, Sun Nan publicly accused Mai Hongmei of cheating in marriage, hoping to win the support of public opinion.
This series of behaviors and accusations has put Mai Hongmei under tremendous pressure.
Although she was trying to revive her career, the impact of negative press forced her to take a break from work.
Faced with such a dilemma, Mai Hongmei finally made a difficult decision to give up custody of the child.
Despite all the challenges that life has given to Mai Hongmei, she has not been knocked down by the difficulties.
Over time, her career gradually got back on track, and she participated in several variety shows and talent show judges.
Eventually, she met Sun Yulun and married him, starting a new chapter in her life.
On social platforms, Mai Hongmei often shares her happy times with her new family, showing that she has achieved enviable success in her career and life.
On the contrary, Sun Nan's life seems to be quite depressed.
No longer has the glamorous appearance of the past, and the years have left a clear mark on his face.
His career has gradually fallen into a trough, and he is no longer as brave as he used to be.
Sun Nan's story serves as a cautionary tale that even in the face of life's pressures and challenges, one cannot run away from problems, let alone allow self-esteem and anger to dominate one's behavior.