Sun Nan bought a red girl to get married in a flash, and she paid a lot to buy a red girl
On a Chinese New Year's Eve night in 1995, Sun Nan's family sat around the TV, waiting for the start of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala. As soon as the show started, Sun Nan saw his long-favorite star Mai Hongmei.
"I must marry her!" Sun Nan excitedly announced to his family.
5 years later, Sun Nan got his wish and entered the palace of marriage with Mai Hongmei. However, the groom disappeared at the wedding, and after Mai Hongmei was busy alone, an ominous premonition surged in her heart.
After marriage, Sun Nan's music career became more and more successful, while Mai Hongmei gave up her dazzling stage career and became a housewife.
Mai Hongmei put all her energy into taking care of Sun Nan and his family. She carefully prepared the dishes that Sun Nan liked to eat, took her father-in-law and mother-in-law to live at home, and personally served them.
Sun Nan often goes out to socialize, and Mai Hongmei takes on the burden of the family alone. She also gave up the opportunity to star in many popular dramas, just to give Sun Nan children.
At first, the husband and wife maintained a superficial affection. Sun Nan will buy some flowers and small gifts to take home in his spare time. However, he became more and more involved in music, and the light in the house was extinguished.
Mai Hongmei gradually felt discouraged while waiting, the love she gave was not reciprocated, and the happy marriage was just her wishful thinking.
Sun Nan derailed and abandoned buying Hongmei, and buying Hongmei was heartbroken
As Sun Nan's career took off, he became more and more focused on music creation and began to neglect his family. Outside of work, he is either playing golf or socializing. Mai Hongmei persuaded him many times, hoping that he could spend more time with his family, but Sun Nan always agreed and couldn't do it.
One day, Sun Nan suddenly proposed to divorce Mai Hongmei because he fell in love with Pan Wei on the golf course. Mai Hongmei was shocked and desperate when she heard the news. She tried her best to save this relationship, dress herself again, and return to the entertainment industry to receive notices.
However, Sun Nan has made up his mind, and the two officially divorced in 2009. What made Mai Hongmei even more sad was that Sun Nan and Pan Wei soon became husband and wife.
For a woman who is fully committed to her family, the blow is huge. Mai Hongmei cried all day and night, feeling that she couldn't live. She took her two children to the beach, and at one point wanted to end her life.
However, she suddenly realizes that if she disappears, her children will be left orphaned. This thought made her sober up and give up the idea of suicide.
In desperation, she told herself that it was not worth dying for the man who no longer loved her. She wants to cheer up and live for herself and her children. Despite the difficult path, she is determined to heal her wounds and start anew.
This will be the darkest period in Mai Hongmei's life, and it will also be the most powerful awakening in her heart.
After the divorce, he bought the red sister Phoenix Nirvana, and Sun Nan collapsed
After experiencing abyssal pain, Mai Hongmei is determined to rebuild her life. She returned to the entertainment industry and focused on the development of her acting career. With her past connections and fame, Mai Hongmei soon received some performance opportunities.
At the same time, she also met her current husband at work and found true love again.
Today's Maihongmei has a successful career, a happy family, and an enviable living state. In her 50s, she is still full of energy and looks the same as she was back then. And Sun Nan, who abandoned her, was quite unsmooth in her career and relationship.
Sun Nan registered her marriage with Pan Wei shortly after divorcing Mai Hongmei, but soon found that life was not as good as she imagined. He was labeled as a "scumbag" by netizens, and his music career also fell into a bottleneck.
In 2015, he suddenly announced his retirement from a TV show, which almost caused a live broadcast accident, and since then he has been blacklisted by the TV station and is no longer sought after.
Now, time has passed, and Sun Nan's purchase of Hongmei has long been a stranger. But looking back on that year, Sun Nan's behavior of abandoning his wife and children is really unforgivable. Mai Hongmei not only found herself again, but also proved with her own life state that even if women fall to the bottom, they can still cheer up and live a wonderful life.
sighed that time has changed everything, and the final victory of Mai Hongmei's life
Time has changed a lot. Once, Mai Hongmei was heartbroken because of Sun Nan's abandonment, and her life fell into darkness; Today, she has transformed into a successful and happy woman.
Time not only healed the wounds in her heart, but also allowed her to regain herself. Mai Hongmei uses her own story to prove that even if a woman falls to the lowest point, she can still heal her soul and rejuvenate herself.
Instead of being crushed by the misfortunes of the past, she was reborn like a phoenix nirvana. In contrast, Sun Nan got a double blow of career and affection.
He not only lost the sincere love of Mai Hongmei, but also lost the public's respect for hurting her.
The road of life is not smooth, and ups and downs are the norm. Mai Hongmei has experienced a trough and ushered in a peak. And Sun Nan is hurting others at the same time, he is also hurting himself.
This is exactly the life philosophy of "good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil". Although Sun Nan's story of buying Hongmei ended in a breakup, Maihongmei used her inspirational experience to prove that women do not succumb to pain. Her life has just begun, and the possibilities are endless.
It is also a reminder to all women to love themselves, gain strength from their pains, and live a wonderful life.
Behind the marriage change, it warns the entertainment industry to hype up false love
The story of Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei also reflects the vain side of the entertainment industry. It took only one day for the two to get married from acquaintance, and it can be seen that this is a transactional lightning marriage.
Sun Nan needs to increase her popularity, and Mai Hongmei also wants to take the opportunity to make a comeback. The two don't know each other in essence, but both see the value of exploitation in this marriage. This kind of mutually beneficial consideration is destined to be difficult to last, and the foundation of the relationship is extremely weak.
And the "speed dating" and "flash marriage" advocated by the entertainment industry often give birth to many unhappy marriages. Public attention and public opinion pressure made couples rush into marriage, and then they were overwhelmed and fell apart.
Marriage requires a long period of time in which both parties live together, gradually building trust and understanding. It's a pity that the vain entertainment industry is always keen to hype up topics and traffic, packaging and selling love as a commodity.
This has a negative impact on the parties, the audience and society. We need to examine our own view of marriage and love, and we can't blindly follow it. Vainly trying to get love through rhetoric and hype is doomed to disappointment.
Only by treating feelings sincerely and paying time and effort can it blossom and bear fruit. The marriage change between Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei is a footnote to the chaos in the entertainment industry. It reminds everyone to look at celebrity marriages rationally and not to be confused by superficial romantic illusions.
Love needs to be cautious, and marriage needs to be cautious. Only by finding the right person and operating with sincerity can we move towards happiness.
Re-examine women's giving and being rescued in relationships
In this marriage, we saw Mai Hongmei's selfless dedication and sacrifice. She gave up her career development and became the help of Sun Nan's success; After he cheated, she was heartbroken again.
This makes people reflect on the fact that women give too much in love, but what they get is often hurt.
Conventional wisdom makes women susceptible to emotional blindness, and they always give unconditionally while ignoring themselves. When love breaks down, the youth and passion that have been paid turns into permanent regret.
In fact, there should be no unilateral giving in love. Feelings need to be equal and forgiving, and should not be based on self-sacrifice. Women need to examine whether their efforts are reasonable and insist on an independent self.
When there is a crack in the marriage, the woman should not fall into despair. Mai Hongmei's brave choice to rebuild her life is an inspiration to all women. Regaining your career, family and self is the right way out of your pain.
Women need to understand that life is not all about love. When it is broken, the world is still beautiful and the possibilities are endless. Don't define your worth by just one man, learn to be independent and redeem yourself.
The road of life will not be smooth one by one, and only through the wind and rain can we see the rainbow. Mai Hongmei conveyed an important message with her own experience: women, love themselves, draw strength from the pain, start anew, and live a wonderful life.