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Sun Nan has immeasurable talent and achievements, and won the honor of "Asian Heart to Heart Music Festival" at a young age. However, fate seems to have played a cruel joke on him.
Faced with the emotional fog, he chose the wrong path, which led to a downhill career and family, and finally fell into an irreparable situation.
So how does this once-dazzling singer spend his time? When he sits alone on a shabby couch and stares at the dim light, does he regret his past choices? He once had a brilliant career and a happy family, but now he has nothing.
Sun Nan left Beijing, which he had fought for many years, and came to a strange third-tier town with his third wife Pan Wei and four children, and started a new life journey.
The former mansion and villa have long disappeared, and only a narrow house of more than 100 square meters can accommodate their family of six, and the balcony has been converted into a small bedroom for the children to live in, and the living space is very cramped.
The livelihood of the whole family depends on Sun Nan's hard work. He had to run around and participate in various small commercial gigs to earn a small income. Since all the property belongs to the first wife, Mai Hongmei, their family can hardly afford even the most basic living expenses.
Even the eldest daughter's tuition needs to go through a lot of hard work to raise all of them. The pressure of life made Sun Nan's career fall into a trough. He tried to turn things around by participating in variety shows, but he was ignored due to frequent scandals.
During an important performance, an angry audience threw a mineral water bottle at him on the stage, making him furious. It is really embarrassing that the participants of the "Asian Heart to Heart Music Festival", which used to be a high-profile music festival, have now fallen to this point.
One step away, all the games were lost, Sun Nan's mistake undoubtedly pushed him into the abyss of no return.
Back in the early 90s of the 20th century, Sun Nan was still a young and handsome conservatory student, studying under the famous composer Gu Jianfen, and his future was bright. During that time, he also experienced an unforgettable first love.
Xin Xin is an extraordinary lady, with a maternal femininity and elegant temperament, dignified and beautiful appearance, and elegant and generous manners. When Sun Nan saw her for the first time, a deep sense of admiration suddenly appeared in his heart, and he was secretly obsessed in his heart.
The two quickly sparked love, and soon entered the marriage hall and spent a long decade together.
Xin Xin originally had the opportunity to study abroad and specialize in the field of music, as a way to promote the vigorous development of her career. However, she did not hesitate to give up this rare opportunity, just so that she could always be by her beloved Sun Nan's side, support each other, and grow together.
However, unexpectedly, this choice turned out to be an obstacle in their emotional path. Just when Xin Xin had just finished studying abroad and was about to start a new chapter in her life in China, Sun Nan suddenly proposed to break up.
"Sun Nan, what are you thinking about?" Xin Xin burst into tears, and her heart was in pain.
In fact, Sun Nan's heart has long since ceased to retain that sincere love for Xin Xin. In the process of watching the TV show, he fell in love with the popular actress Mai Hongmei at first sight, and began his unremitting pursuit of this lively and lovely beauty.
This relationship, which has gone through ten years of ups and downs, was ruthlessly left behind by Sun Nan and fell into the endless abyss. Xin Xin was grief-stricken, she couldn't understand why she had come to such a situation, and Sun Nan had turned her attention to a new relationship.
Just when Xin Xin was cruelly abandoned, Sun Nan had already set his sights on another woman - that is, the lively and playful, beautiful and moving Mai Hongmei. A chance encounter, Sun Nan was attracted by her beauty and decided to go all out to marry this hot female star.
Although the two have only known each other for 24 hours, Sun Nan did not hesitate to propose to Mai Hongmei, and made a vow with firm and powerful words: "I will definitely make you my wife!" In the face of this fiery love, Mai Hongmei was a little hesitant at first, but finally nodded and agreed.
The time of the newlywed Yan'er should have been full of sweetness, but Sun Nan left in a hurry on the grand wedding day and went to another important business event alone. Mai Hongmei stood alone in the midst of the guests, her face revealing a deep loneliness and loss.
For the sake of Sun Nan, Mai Hongmei resolutely gave up her career and devoted herself to family life. She gave birth to a pair of lovely twins, took care of the housework by herself, and worked hard every day and night.
However, what is surprising is that although Sun Nan's indifference and neglect of the family are very painful, Mai Hongmei did not give up her beliefs, but strengthened her determination to move forward in loneliness! She began to frequently complain to the people around her that Sun Nan paid too much attention to work, and her care for her family was extremely limited.
Sometimes Sun Nan needs to be busy outside for several days or even weeks, and has no time to take care of the trivial affairs at home, the birth of two children, so that Mai Hongmei has to take on the heavy responsibility of the family and work hard to manage the housework.
Whenever Sun Nan returns home, when he sees Mai Hongmei, who is physically and mentally exhausted, there will always be a deep sense of loss in his heart. The beautiful and lively Mai Hongmei he once loved has now disappeared.
The hardships of life made Mai Hongmei ordinary, which was exactly what Sun Nan couldn't accept, and just when he was hesitating whether he should end this marriage, another beautiful and moving woman quietly walked into his field of vision.
Just as Mai Hongmei was working hard for Sun Nan and the children, and was very busy, another woman broke into Sun Nan's life - Pan Wei, a well-known host with peerless elegance.
Pan Wei has experienced two failed marriages, but her independent and strong character is full of endless charm, compared to Mai Hongmei's unpretentiousness, Pan Wei is more attractive, irresistible, perhaps it is this unique charm that makes Sun Nan begin to waver in Mai Hongmei's love.
Faced with the glamorous and moving Pan Wei and the plain-faced Mai Hongmei, Sun Nan chose the former without hesitation. "Honey, let's get away from the hustle and bustle and spend some quiet time together. Pan Wei pleaded affectionately, revealing her ardent yearning for married life.
In this way, the man who swore that he would never give up betrayed Mai Hongmei's feelings again and again. In the end, after the fierce struggle for child custody, Sun Nan ruthlessly abandoned Mai Hongmei and took her daughter and Pan Wei into the palace of marriage.
Mai Hongmei's heart was full of pain, she had put in countless efforts, but in the end it ended up with such a cruel ending. What's even more unfortunate is that Sun Nan just divorced her in the first half of the year, and in the blink of an eye, she entered the palace of marriage again in the second half of the year, which undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Mai Hongmei.
When she heard the news that Sun Nan had entered the marriage hall again, Mai Hongmei's heart instantly fell to the bottom, and she even fell into extreme depression for a while, and even had the dangerous idea of suicide.
But fortunately, in the darkest period of her life, many relatives and friends such as Zhang Guoli and his wife often went to visit her door and gave her endless care and support, and they also selflessly took care of her young child, which made Mai Hongmei regain her confidence and courage in life.
Soon after tying the knot with Pan Wei, Sun Nan's career declined rapidly like a meteor falling into the sky, and the participants of the "Asian Heart to Heart Music Festival", which had high hopes, once performed on the same stage with bright stars such as Andy Lau and Jacky Cheung, but now no one cares, record sales are bleak, and there are few performance opportunities, so they can only rely on participating in some low-level variety shows to barely make a living.
Those friends who once walked with Sun Nan for a long time and later became bright stars have now become the object of his wanton abuse on the stage. The repeated attacks of public opinion made Sun Nan deeply aware of his personal moral character and notoriety.
Cheating in marriage and fighting for child custody in divorce have left Sun Nan in the predicament of public condemnation and discredit.
Pan Wei was similarly accused of meddling in other people's marriages. She had no choice but to leave the bustling city of Beijing with her young daughter and move to a little-known third-tier city to live a low-key and ordinary life.
"Mom, I don't want to go to school anymore, my classmates say you're a bad woman. The crying of her daughter is undoubtedly the biggest blow to Pan Wei.
In order to alleviate the family's financial pressure, Pan Wei even sent her eldest daughter to study at a women's moral college that lacked qualifications. However, when her daughter was about to graduate, she found that she could not even get a junior high school diploma, and her future was worrying.
The family's life is very poor, and Sun Nan can only run around to participate in small commercial performances, barely making ends meet.
Since all the property belongs to the first wife, Mai Hongmei, the family can hardly afford even basic living expenses. Even the eldest daughter's tuition needs to go through a lot of hard work to raise all of them.
The pressure of life has caused Sun Nan's career to fall into an unprecedented trough. He tried to reverse the decline by participating in variety shows, but no one was willing to accept him due to frequent scandals.
So, what kind of life is Sun Nan living now? He has missed happiness many times and failed the deep friendship of countless people.
For his first wife Xin Xin, she was the most intimate person in Sun Nan's heart, and they spent ten years together, Xin Xin even gave up the great opportunity to study abroad, just to be able to wait by Sun Nan's side at all times.
However, it is a pity that such a deep emotion could not escape the cruel fate in the end, and Sun Nan ruthlessly crushed this sincere love with cold words.
"I've never seen her!" Hearing Sun Nan's ruthless words, it seemed to shatter all the affection of the past to the ground. At this time, the appearance of Mai Hongmei was like a cloud opening and fogging, Sun Nan was overwhelmed and resolutely married this woman.
Although their wedding process was full of ups and downs, Mai Hongmei still devoted herself wholeheartedly to this marriage, she gave up her career, took care of the family wholeheartedly, and raised two children, however, her efforts were not duly rewarded, and Sun Nan finally chose to deviate.
Sun Nan's third wife, Pan Wei, once gave him selfless help when his career was in a downturn, and she was passionate, beautiful and intelligent, which made Sun Nan obsessed. However, the years they have experienced together have not been smooth sailing, and the doubts from the outside world and the embarrassment of life have made the couple feel stressed.
Singers who were once in the limelight are now in trouble, and there must be complex reasons for this. Sun Nan personally ruined his once glorious future, and every step he took seemed to be struggling and sinking, until he finally couldn't extricate himself.
All of this can be traced back to the love and marriage that he gave up so easily.