Excerpt from a passage from the People's Daily:
When you are young, you can run away from many things, but at the moment of taking responsibility, you are not qualified to be young.
You have to have a job, you have to take care of your family, you have to take care of your children, and you have to have a tree.
Ten years ago, even sentimentality had to be rendered earth-shattering.
Ten years later, the more painful it is, the more silent it is, the more bitter it is, the more silent it is.
Doing things that match your age is called responsibility.
Time has worn away the youthful frivolity, and it has gradually precipitated the cold and warm self-knowledge.
The scenery is still there, and people are no longer teenagers.
I don't know what it's like to be young and wait until I am an adult.
When you are young, you are not more important in the year.
Adulthood, Fang knows bitterness.
There is a younger brother who lived a very chic and comfortable life when he was a teenager, and if he didn't like to read, he wouldn't read, and if he didn't like school, he wouldn't go to school.
Dig out bird's nests with partners who skip class, go on adventures with pickpockets, and go to Internet cafes at night.
His mother did not blame him, thinking that her children were good children, and they were better than other people's children.
At that time, the younger brother did look more superior than the surrounding companions on the surface, with long thick eyebrows and big eyes, able to speak, superior family conditions, and pampered by his parents.
Slowly, from skipping school to dropping out.
Now he is more free, the family lets him fly, without the constraints of the school, his younger brother can do whatever he wants.
The family took the money to let him go to the big city to learn a trade, and he could develop a career when he returned to his hometown.
The idea is good, and the beginning is good.
At the beginning, my younger brother set up a front door and worked hard for two years, because people went to big cities at that time, and I felt that my brother's business was particularly high-end and very rare.
Everyone else came to his shop, and the business was doing very well.
Within a few years, the gap between urban and rural areas was getting smaller and smaller.
Peers have also returned from their studies, others have knowledge and seen the world, and they are doing better than their younger brothers.
The younger brother couldn't do it anymore anymore, so he closed the door and stopped working.
At this time, the younger brother had already married and needed to raise three children, and the daughter-in-law did not have a job.
The pressure came, and the younger brother who was under the pressure of Shanda was worried every day.
He began to look for a job everywhere, with no education, no education, and he was unwilling to work as a coolie, and his family was having a tense life.
How beautiful his mother used to laugh, how sad she is now.
Looking at his son in his thirties and having no job, looking at his three grandchildren, each of whom is spending money, and the daughter-in-law has no income, not only is her pocket ugly, but her face is even more ugly.
His mother often washed her face with tears and went out to borrow money when she encountered something important.
He is getting older and worse, and his health is getting worse and worse, and he doesn't even dare to tell his son when he is sick and hospitalized.
The three children in the family are even more sensible, which makes the relatives feel distressed, the bottom of the shoes is off, and they dare not let their mother buy new ones for themselves.
The eldest wears small clothes and shoes, passing on the second and third children.
What men's clothing and women's clothing should be distinguished, and some are good to wear.
My younger brother is no longer qualified to pick a job, and he doesn't have the time and face to pick a job.
What dirty work is tiring and hard, as long as someone shouts, he will do it.
It can be as much as you want, as far as you want.
For the longest time, my younger brother was on the construction site for nearly a year and did not return home.
You have to have a job, you have to take care of your family, you have to take care of your children, and you have to have a tree.
That's responsibility, and that's what an adult should do.
Do what matches your age and do what you should do!
Don't do anything more when you're young, and you can read it when you're confused.
Looking back on the past half of my life, seven points of sourness and three points of sweetness, I hope that for the rest of my life, the years will be fine, only warm, not sad
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