That year, in the middle of summer in Beijing, the campus was full of green trees and a XiXi breeze. Xia Yu and a few friends were playing basketball under the tree, wearing sports short sleeves, and laughter came from time to time.
At this time, a girl in loose clothes passed by the court, her long hair was still dripping with water, it looked like she had just been washed, and she was hurrying away. The basketball in Xia Yu's hand stopped suddenly, and he stared blankly at the back of the girl who was gradually moving away, and an unprecedented throbbing surged in his heart.
The little friends next to him joked, Xia Yu came back to his senses, and hurriedly asked the girl's name - it turned out to be Yuan Quan, a student in the drama theater.
Early the next morning, Xia Yu came downstairs to Yuan Quan's dormitory and plucked up the courage to confess his heart. Unexpectedly, Yuan Quan was a little panicked, blushing and saying that it was too early to know, and then left in a hurry.
Xia Yu did not give up, and confessed many times in the next month, but was politely rejected. It wasn't until that graduation season that Xia Yu asked Yuan Quan to go to the Great Wall to enjoy the lanterns, and Yuan Quan finally nodded and agreed.
That night, the two sat in the car and chatted, and their hearts gradually met. In this way, there is a pair of beautiful people on campus, and they have become an important part of each other's lives.
In 2007, Xia Yu had scandals with many actresses, among which Fan Bingbing and Gao Yuanyuan were the most enthusiastic. An eyewitness broke the news that he had seen the two having dinner together and Gao Yuanyuan entering Xia Yu's house.
These lace news directly made Yuan Quan questioned, and many netizens stood on her side to condemn the "third party". At that time, Yuan Quan was rehearsing a new play at the Beijing Theater, and her colleague hurriedly showed her the report.
Later, there was gossip that Xia Yu and Yuan Quan's feelings changed, and the couple quarreled constantly, and finally broke up. Yuan Quan later confirmed in an interview that the two had officially broken up.
Such a sudden change made everyone unbelievable. Not long after, at an awards ceremony, in full view of everyone, Xia Yu took Yuan Quan's hand on the spot.
The photo of the kiss the next day was even published in the headlines, compounding the stones of other mountains, Xia Yu and Yuan Quan found themselves from the turmoil.
In 2009, they returned to their alma mater to take more than a dozen sets of wedding photos, and there were only photographers and two parties on the scene. On that day, Beijing was rarely sunny, and the blue sky was like a wash.
With their backs to white walls and green tiles, the two snuggled in the sun. In the courtyard, they strolled side by side, and Xia Yu made Yuan Quan happy from time to time. After the simple ceremony, they ushered in a plain and warm married life.
Yuan Quan can give up the film contract at the box office to support his family and go to a small theater to rehearse the play; Xia Yu doesn't care about the outside world, she just enjoys life by herself. For example, he is obsessed with all kinds of extreme sports, skiing, downhill, diving, everything is available, although Yuan Quan is not interested but never interferes, I believe that Xia Yu also has his own dreams and persistence in his heart.
Think about marriage like this, be honest with each other, understand and help each other, support growth, and give each other inner independent space. Now that time flies, they are getting closer and closer on this long road, from the campus to the wedding scene, and the relationship is still the same.
Time flies, and youth is no more. Now that they are middle-aged, they look thoughtfully at the rings of their alma mater. Once upon a time, two hearts were disappointed and sad here, and they also came together again here.
The years can change a lot, and Xia Yu and Yuan Quan also have new identities after joining the small family. But even though the war is raging in Vanity Fair, they still maintain that precious and strong relationship.
Just as the lotus flower emerges from the mud and is not stained, the floating clouds cannot change the nature of their bones. Perhaps the two hearts were attracted to each other when they were teenagers, and after 14 years, they are still willing to wait for the flowers to bloom and fall.
When we chase the glorious stage, we may forget the true nature of life; When the confusion of fame and fortune comes, you may lose yourself. However, life will eventually return to the heart, to that peace and tranquility.
The story of Xia Yu and Yuan Quan reveals that in the face of various temptations, love needs trust and support; In the face of external discussions, life needs to be tolerant and understanding. The most precious thing in love is not the form, but the heart that treats each other selflessly.
When the dust settles down, we can still get back to our original appearance. The road of affection may inevitably be bumpy, but as long as the mind is connected, there will be shade to rest when you are tired, and there will be sound when you are confused, and the wind and rain can also be worth remembering.
Cherish the people in front of you and manage them with your heart, which is the best way to love.