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My name is Wang Xiaoxue, and I am an ordinary girl born in an ordinary family in a small city. My parents were both ordinary workers, hardworking and simple, raising me and my sister with hard hands. I grew up in an ordinary but warm family, and although my life was simple, the relationship between our family was unusually deep.
I believe that every girl has a beautiful dream when she grows up, that is, to find a good man who loves her and live a happy life. And I am no exception, I long to have a happy family, a husband who loves me, and lovely children.
Luckily, I met my current husband, Li Ming, while I was in college. Li Ming is a responsible and responsible man, he is considerate to me, and I feel a strong sense of love. We met, fell in love, and finally decided to enter the palace of marriage.
However, my vision of a marriage was met with an unexpected storm on the eve of the wedding. It was a sunny weekend, and Li Ming and I went to his hometown to discuss some details of the wedding. I thought it would be a wonderful family reunion, but something unexpected happened.
During a conversation with Li Ming's family, the mother-in-law suddenly mentioned the bride price. She said proudly that our family Li Ming has the ability, and the woman still sticks it upside down without a bride price. I was shocked and didn't know how to respond. I know that the bride price is an important part of the wedding, but I was taught by my parents from a young age to value equality and that money should not be an obstacle to a happy marriage.
I was a little hesitant in my heart, but Li Ming's mother didn't seem to care about my feelings and continued to talk proudly. She even came up with a detailed list of the various expenses that the woman should pay, which made me even more uneasy.
At this time, Li Ming's expression was a little embarrassed, and he didn't seem to agree with his mother's approach, but he didn't speak out against it. I felt a little disappointed because I had expected him to be on my side and face the pressure of my in-laws with me.
After returning home, Li Ming and I had a big conflict. I told him that I couldn't accept my mother-in-law's approach and that I didn't think money should be a burden on our marriage. I hope that he will stand in my shoes and join me in resisting such unreasonable demands.
However, Li Ming didn't say anything, he just smiled bitterly and said: "Xiaoxue, this is our family tradition, and I can't change it." ”
When I heard this, I felt a pang of disappointment in my heart. I originally thought that Li Ming was a responsible and responsible man, but now it seems that he is not willing to make any sacrifices for me. I began to doubt the relationship between us, and I didn't know if we were really fit together.
Troubled by this mood, I decided to leave this unhappy marriage. I picked up the phone and made a call to Li Ming to tell him that I had decided to cancel the wedding and that our relationship had come to an end.
Li Ming listened to my words, was silent for a moment, and finally agreed to my decision. He said: "Xiaoxue, I understand your choice, and I don't want you to be wronged because of me. Maybe we're really not fit together. ”
Hearing this, my heart felt sour. I know this means that the relationship between us has come to an end, but I don't regret my choice. I believe that only when we truly love, understand, and support each other can we truly have a happy marriage.
Although the relationship ended, I was not sad. Instead, I felt a sense of relief and relief as I finally got out of the marriage that had upset me. I believe that only by sticking to your own principles can you live a happy life that truly belongs to you.