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Xiaoling has only been married for two months, but she deeply regrets it, every time she sees her wedding photos, she feels a burst of irony, what is marriage?
Marriage is just a piece of paper, can it bring happiness?
And Xiaoling always felt that marriage was beautiful before she got married, but in real life, she found that it was completely different from what she imagined.
Marriage is not the be-all and all-en-all of life, and when it doesn't bring happiness, it's wise to let it go.
After experiencing painful struggles, Xiaoling finally chose to divorce and start a new life.
1. Marriage is not the whole of life.
Xiaoling is a cheerful, lively and lovely girl, who has been the little princess of the family since she was a child, and is pampered by her family.
Since childhood, I have had a beautiful vision of marriage, and I hope that I will marry a responsible and responsible man when I grow up.
In her vision, after marriage, the couple will run their own small family together, work hard together, and grow together.
But all these beautiful visions were shattered after Xiaoling got married.
Xiaoling and her husband Ah Qiang met through a blind date, and when they met for the first time, Xiao Ling was attracted by Ah Qiang's sunny and atmospheric image.
In getting along with Ah Qiang, Xiao Ling also found that Ah Qiang was indeed a responsible and responsible man, so Xiao Ling firmly established the idea of coming together with Ah Qiang.
And Ah Qiang also likes Xiaoling very much, and he is obedient to Xiaoling, and the love between the two is very sweet.
In getting along with Ah Qiang, Xiao Ling also found that Ah Qiang was indeed a responsible and responsible man, so Xiao Ling firmly established the idea of coming together with Ah Qiang.
After getting married, Ah Qiang also loves Xiaoling very much, and Xiaoling feels that she has found a good man and is very happy.
And Ah Qiang also loves Xiaoling very much, Xiaoling feels that she has found a good man and is very happy.
But after getting married, Xiaoling found that marriage was completely different from what she imagined, and Ah Qiang changed a lot after marriage.
Cuong has a bad habit outside, and he will soak in the Internet café with his friends every day, playing from night to night, or even to a day or two.
Ah Qiang was a motivated person before marriage, but after marriage, he was idle all day long, Xiaoling was very angry and had a big quarrel with Ah Qiang.
Cuong has a bad habit outside, and he will soak in the Internet café with his friends every day, playing from night to night, or even to a day or two.
Ah Qiang was a motivated person before marriage, but after marriage, he was idle all day long, Xiaoling was very angry and had a big quarrel with Ah Qiang.
But Ah Qiang took it for granted, disliked Xiao Ling's anger, and even said that Xiao Ling was unreasonable.
Ah Qiang's attitude made Xiao Ling very sad, she didn't understand why Ah Qiang became like this, and the relationship between the two was also worn off little by little.
And Xiaoling also found more and more problems in Ah Qiang, Ah Qiang's family conditions are very average, but after Xiao Ling got married, he was not self-motivated and did not do his job all day long.
And Ah Qiang's attitude is getting bigger and bigger, and he doesn't care about Xiaoling more and more.
Xiaoling didn't want to force herself all the time, so she chose to divorce Ah Qiang and start a new life.
2. Take a brave step.
Xiaoling's relatives and friends advised her not to give up marriage easily, but Xiaoling did not back down, she said to herself that marriage is not the whole of life, and she still has a long way to go.
If marriage makes her unhappy, then she would rather let it go.
After Xiaoling's divorce, she did not go back to her parents' home, but chose to go out to find a job alone, she wanted to live on her own ability, and she didn't want to rely on her family anymore.
After Xiaoling's divorce, she did not go back to her parents' home, but chose to go out to find a job alone, she wanted to live on her own ability, and she didn't want to rely on her family anymore.
Although Xiaoling has always been strong, the despair of marriage in her heart has always existed.
At the end of the day's work, she returned to the rental house alone and saw her photo, she couldn't help but cry, she felt that her marriage was so ironic.
And Xiaoling's neighbor Xiaohua found that Xiaoling had been very depressed, so she took the initiative to care about Xiaoling and became good friends with Xiaoling.
Xiaohua is a very optimistic person, she takes Xiaoling out every day to play, which makes Xiaoling's mood become cheerful.
Xiaoling and Xiaohua worked outside together, and she also met a very good boy, who was very good to Xiaoling, and Xiaoling realized how bad her previous marriage was.
And now she is the truly happy Xiaoling, she has someone who really loves her, and she has also experienced true happiness.
epilogue
In life, we will all encounter many difficulties and challenges, but only by taking a brave step can we find our own happiness and a better future.
Divorce is not a failure, sometimes it is for better happiness, and starting over is the real success.
Growing from pain can make people cherish the happiness of the present more and have more confidence in the future.
Every marriage is an important experience in life, and running in and choosing is a kind of growth, and every experience makes people stronger and more mature.