# The "unspeakable" living expenses of college students reveal how much of the fig leaf for the selfishness of the parents of the original family
## Description
College students are the hopeful stars of contemporary society, they are in the stage of learning, Xi and exploration, but they also face many financial difficulties while living independently. There is also a gap in the cost of living for some college students due to their different family conditions. This topic involves the educational philosophy of the family of origin and the degree of support for the children, and some college students face the problem of living expenses because of the selfishness of their parents. So, let's uncover the fig leaf and see how much of the story is behind it.
## Body
We know that college students are in adolescence and need sufficient energy and resources to cope with new living situations and challenges. However, for some college students, they need to pay for their own living expenses, and this becomes a heavy burden on their hearts.
Some college students have superior family conditions, and their parents can give them enough financial support, which is a kind of happiness and luck. However, there are also some college students who come from ordinary families, who are under great financial pressure and need to make difficult choices between their studies and Xi and life. Among them, some college students are embarrassed to raise the issue of living expenses because of the selfishness of their parents.
**Educational Concept of the Family of Origin**
In our traditional family concept, parents are the responsibility and dependence of children. However, in real life, there are some parents who pass on their financial troubles to their children and are unwilling to take their due responsibility. They use their selfishness as a fig leaf to make it difficult for their children to face their own difficulties.
**Parental selfishness and children's dilemma**
In such cases, college students often find themselves financially self-reliant. They may choose to work part-time or seek various financial assistance to cope with their living expenses. However, such a situation made them feel helpless and frustrated. Parents should be relieved that their children are studying abroad, but in reality, there are some parents who are unwilling to pay more for their children's growth.
**Self-Help Efforts for College Students**
In the face of such a predicament, college students are not helpless. They will look for solutions through a variety of avenues and actively seek economic independence. They use their vacations to work part-time, apply for scholarships, or participate in work-study programs on and off campus to minimize their financial burden.
**Call for understanding and support in family relationships**
On this issue, we need to call for understanding and support among families. Parents should understand that their children's path to education is already full of challenges, and the financial burden should not be a psychological burden for them. Parents should take their due responsibility and give their children enough financial support and attention to help them complete their studies and grow better.
**Advice for College Students**
For those of you who are facing financial difficulties, please don't be discouraged. Learn to find resources and opportunities, make extensive use of resources and help inside and outside the school, explore your potential and abilities, and believe that you can overcome difficulties and achieve your dreams and goals.
The world is not perfect, and everyone faces a variety of challenges. And for those fig leafs of parental selfishness, we need to learn to treat them with tolerance and understanding. At the same time, we also want to appeal to the society to let more people pay attention to the economic plight of college students, and jointly create a better Xi learning environment and development opportunities for them.
In this cold winter, we hope that every college student can feel warmth and love, and no longer need to face the problem of living expenses in an "unspeakable" way. Let's work together to create a more equitable and welcoming environment for university students!