Wang Xinjun: Qin Hailu is such a delicate "Siberian Tiger", whoever marries home will be Wangfu

With the hit of "Flowers and Boys 5", the 45-year-old Qin Hailu is out of the circle again.

Many people were very "shocked" when they saw Qin Hailu in the show!

As for the reason for the "shock", it is that this "sister" is too different from before!

The impression of Qin Hailu is cold, strong, and not easy to mess with!

can combine these 3 points in one, this "sister" is also really strong!

In terms of professionalism, people debuted and walked into a powerful faction, and at the age of 22, he won the actress, and later it was a TV series, movie, drama, and it was in full bloom!

In terms of strength, this "sister" is from the northeast, where there are many resources and resources, her personality is straightforward and hearty, and she can't rub sand in her eyes, and she is known as the "female overlord" in the entertainment industry!

On temper, I won't say much else, "sister" said back then:

"If anyone dares not to recite the lines in front of me and say 12345, don't blame me for slapping him with a big mouth", they still have an impression.

But no one expected that this is Qin Hailu, who seems to have changed in "Flowers and Boys 5".

First, be sincere, don't pretend.

The second is to be straightforward, down-to-earth, and don't take a shelf.

The third is to be careful, when the younger brothers and sisters are not thoughtful, Qin Hailu can take care of it!

In the words of netizens: If you have a friend like Qin Hailu by your side, you must cherish it.

And the reason why Qin Hailu has changed so much is that I have to mention a man here.

This person is Wang Xinjun, who has spoiled Qin Hailu for 9 years.

It is said that "loving people is like raising flowers", Wang Xinjun is Qin Hailu's best florist.

It was he who made Qin Hailu change from a female overlord to a delicate "Siberian Tiger".

01 Before meeting Wang Xinjun, she was always wearing hard armor, and no one could get close.

Wang Xinjun once commented on Qin Hailu:

Before she met me, she was "cold" like a hedgehog, covered with thorns, and would prick anyone who came close.

But Qin Hailu is really not to blame for the "coldness", after all, her life experience is there.

As the saying goes, most people with a somewhat withdrawn personality can't escape the influence of the "original family".

The same is true for Qin Hailu.

Her "loneliness" began at the age of 12.

That year, Qin Hailu's parents made two major decisions, one was to go to the sea to do business, and the other was to send Qin Hailu to Yingkou to learn to sing.

Sending Qin Hailu to learn singing is not because she has any drama talent, but because her parents are too busy and don't have time to take care of her.

But the parents didn't expect that it was this decision that paved the way for the first half of Qin Hailu's "withdrawn" life.

After entering the drama school, Qin Hailu "practiced" every day.

Kicking flying legs, playing with flower guns, and hanging legs, these actions are boring for 12-year-old Qin Hailu.

In order to be able to leave here, Qin Hailu began to resist, and the first thing he resisted was to "do" with the teacher.

The teacher asked her to practice Hua Dan, and she preferred to learn Tsing Yi.

The teacher asked everyone to do morning exercises at 6 o'clock every day, and she got up at 4 o'clock, and when the big guy came, she said that she had finished practicing.

The teacher assigned the kicking task and asked her to rest after 200 kicks, but she didn't stop kicking 300 times...

In Qin Hailu's vision, one day the teacher would talk to her parents and say that she was not suitable for this place, but the result made Qin Hailu very disappointed.

Because his parents came, they didn't think about taking Qin Hailu away at all, except for saying good things to the teacher, that is, to appease Qin Hailu to stay here.

At first, Qin Hailu still had expectations, but slowly Qin Hailu was desperate.

In her words, I knew it was settled, and I couldn't change it.

After despair, Qin Hailu put all her sustenance on practice.

Every day, except for kicking, playing with spears, and hanging her voice, she doesn't speak or listen to anyone.

Just stayed up, stayed up, from the age of 12 to the age of 16, she graduated from the drama school.

After coming out of the drama school, her parents felt that Qin Hailu had changed a lot, she didn't speak, she didn't like to laugh, and she looked "cold" when she saw everyone.

Even Qin Hailu's sister also said in an interview that during the period of drama school, she felt as if her sister had changed and was not close to anyone.

It is said that the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change.

When she was young, Qin Hailu was afraid of seeing people, but after becoming famous, she was still like this.

She said that she actually has a severe "social phobia", and she panics when she sees people.

At the worst time, she saw that her old acquaintance also turned her head and left, for fear that she would have to say hello when she met her, because she didn't know what to say after saying "hello", it was better to pretend not to see it.

Later, Qin Hailu came up with a trick, that is, no matter where he goes, he will not leave his mobile phone, and he will pretend to be in good hands even if there is no message to deal with.

In addition to pretending to be busy, Qin Hailu also made herself very strong.

acting, she is not afraid, after all, she can work hard professionally;

But outside of acting, she is very afraid, because it is human feelings.

In order to protect herself, Qin Hailu gives people a strong aura whenever she goes to a place, and whoever meets her for the first time will have the impression of "not easy to mess with".

Even now, there are still many people who don't know Qin Hailu and they think she is very "fierce".

In this way, relying on "coldness and strength", Qin Hailu "scared away" many people.

The only one who was not frightened away by Qin Hailu's "coldness" was only a man.

He is the tough guy in the Northwest, Wang Xinjun.

Not only was he not deterred, but Wang Xinjun spent 9 years to make Qin Hailu slowly lose his armor and become softer and softer.

02 A lover is like raising flowers, and he spent 9 years to make Qin Hailu change from a female overlord to a delicate "Siberian Tiger".

To say that the first meeting between Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu can be called "Mars collides with the earth", and the two don't like each other.

In 2011, due to the filming of "Independent Column", Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu's crew met.

On closer examination, Wang Xinjun is 7 years older than Qin Hailu, and he debuted early, so he can be regarded as Qin Hailu's predecessor.

But no one expected that as soon as the two met, Qin Hailu asked Wang Xinjun to "not be able to come to Taiwan".

It turned out that Wang Xinjun came from another crew at that time, and he didn't have time to read the script yet.

When Qin Hailu asked him if he had any thoughts and opinions on the script, Wang Xinjun replied directly, let's all listen to the director, and the director will shoot whatever he wants.

Just this sentence, Qin Hailu was directly anxious, she said loudly at Wang Xinjun: "What do you mean to listen to the director, don't you have any ideas yourself?" Didn't you read the script? ”

This is not the end, Qin Hailu also asked Wang Xinjun to read the script within 3 days and write out his opinions in words, otherwise this scene will not be filmed.

Xu was "afraid" of Qin Hailu, and when the two held a script "meeting" for the second time, Wang Xinjun really wrote a few pages densely, all of which were his thoughts and opinions on the script.

Seeing this, Qin Hailu was very surprised, and in her words: "I feel the sincerity and respect of the other party, which is the premise of my cooperation." ”

After seeing Qin Hailu's attitude change, Wang Xinjun realized that Qin Hailu has such a personality, she is not right about things, you respect her, and she will respect you.

But what Wang Xinjun didn't expect was that Qin Hailu's attitude towards him in the future would become more and more subtle.

At first, what Wang Xinjun felt was only Qin Hailu's professionalism in performance.

In his words, Qin Hailu really has nothing to say in acting, people never take the script on the set, but the opponent's lines are remembered, and later I learned that people are in private, and they have already figured out the script thoroughly.

But as he got to know more, he felt more and more that Qin Hailu had a hearty personality, did things neatly, and never twisted.

For example, Qin Hailu will buy him water on the set, often buying the whole box and the whole box, in addition to sending water and soup, often stewing this soup and that soup.

It wasn't until one day that Qin Hailu directly brought the meat stewed by his parents and even the pot to Wang Xinjun, and the man realized that the relationship between the two was a bit delicate.

But Wang Xinjun at that time didn't dare to think about it at all.

In Wang Xinjun's words, we have to be self-aware.

One is age, Wang Xinjun is 7 years older than Qin Hailu;

the second is career, although Wang Xinjun is Qin Hailu's predecessor, his fame and status are not half a star worse than Qin Hailu;

the third is emotional experience, Wang Xinjun has had a failed marriage, and he has a son with his ex-wife Tang Jing;

If you were anyone, you probably wouldn't believe that a young and beautiful actress would chase a divorced second-married man who is 7 years older than herself.

But unexpectedly, Qin Hailu saw that the window paper was pierced, and directly admitted:

That's right, sister is chasing you!

Not only chasing you, but also chasing!

If it is said that at first, Qin Hailu chased Wang Xinjun, just to send water and soup;

When the "window paper" was pierced, Qin Hailu ran directly after Wang Xinjun, and Wang Xinjun was filming, so she went to visit the class.

After chasing for 1 year, Qin Hailu finally took down Wang Xinjun, and the relationship between the two began to reverse.

In Wang Xinjun's words, "When I chased us, I sent soup to drink at every turn, and when I caught up, people never sent soup again." ”

After getting married, many female celebrities will become "good wives and mothers" and control the whole family.

But Qin Hailu is not, she said that she doesn't care about anything else except her husband's money.

In her words, "In her forties, you can't do anything."

To put it more "Versailles", Wang Xinjun is reluctant to let her do housework at all.

In the interview, Qin Hailu told a lot of interesting stories about her life with Wang Xinjun.

There are two things that I still feel like "dog food" is over.

One is that once Qin Hailu burned the boiler at home, but somehow she burst the boiler directly, and the water directly spilled to her knees.

When ordinary women saw this, they were probably stunned, but Qin Hailu didn't panic at all, she took out her mobile phone and took a photo, and sent it to Wang Xinjun, who was filming in other places.

Soon, Wang Xinjun replied: "Yes, the ashes in the cracks in the ground have finally floated up." ”

Then, Wang Xinjun called, and after asking about the situation, he told Qin Hailu to go upstairs, not to touch the water, and to be careful of electric shock.

Then, the professional clean-up personnel came, and Qin Hailu was not in a hurry at all during the whole process, she even posted a message to commemorate this special moment.

In her words, I feel that this gentleman has long been used to "causing trouble" to me, and I don't think there is anything, anyway, he has the aftermath.

The other is Wang Xinjun's tolerance of Qin Hailu's "social phobia".

In fact, if you really have friends with "social phobia", you will find it really difficult to get along with them.

Because people with "social phobia" don't like to go to banquets, don't like to socialize, and even ordinary chats can make them feel uneasy and afraid.

Not to mention, people in the entertainment industry like Qin Hailu and Wang Xinjun, the people they want to meet have more things to deal with.

But Qin Hailu said that Wang Xinjun never felt that she was dragging a man back or making a man lose face in front of his friends because of "social fear".

Instead, he would comfort Qin Hailu, "You can be happy when you go out, don't talk if you don't want to, just be comfortable yourself, and I will do the rest, you don't have to worry about it." ”

If Qin Hailu goes out to work, Wang Xinjun will definitely send her out, and instruct: "Okay, don't be afraid!" ”

People who don't have "social phobia" may not understand this kind of encouragement and understanding, but people who have "social phobia" understand how meaningful these two sentences are.

In addition to being Qin Hailu's support mentally, Wang Xinjun is Qin Hailu's support in daily life.

To what extent does Wang Xinjun favor Qin Hailu?

The simplest example is getting up.

Wang Xinjun shouted Qin Hailu to get up, and the first thing she did was to put the "boss novel" she liked to listen to, and then gently woke up Qin Hailu to have breakfast.

Qin Hailu didn't want to move, so Wang Xinjun brought breakfast to the bed.

Many people may think it is an exaggeration, but Wang Xinjun has been doing this kind of pampering and persistence for 9 years, and he is still not bored.

It is this kind of pampering that makes Qin Hailu in life become a "little woman", she is becoming more and more cheerful and beautiful.

Even Qin Hailu felt that she was too "lai-skin".

She said that she is in her 40s, and she feels like a child in front of her husband, and Wang Xinjun spoils me like my father.

Seeing such a "delicate Qin Hailu", many people may think that she is really lucky to marry Wang Xinjun.

But in fact, if a marriage wants to last for a long time, it will definitely not be a one-way effort.

is like Wang Xinjun said: There is no love in the world for no reason, you think I spoil Qin Hailu, then she must have something worthy of my love.

03 A truly long-lasting marriage must be a two-way street

Qin Hailu is an authentic Northeast woman, like all Northeast women, she is open-minded and generous, and she has mountains and rivers in her heart.

Although she is in front of her husband Wang Xinjun, she looks like a delicate little girl.

But in the face of major events, she will also show her "Siberian Tiger" side.

First, no matter when and where, know how to give face to men.

Qin Hailu once said that no matter how you "do" at home, but when you go out and outsiders are there, women should give men face and achieve men's "heroism".

In the early days of their relationship, because of the big gap between the two of them, plus Wang Xinjun's Qin Hailu was 7 years old, and he was still married for the second time.

Many people feel that Wang Xinjun is not worthy of Qin Hailu.

But Qin Hailu said generously, "What is not worthy, I am the one who chased first, and it takes a lot of effort to chase this man!" ”

In a word, it not only gave Wang Xinjun face, but also showed his firmness in this feeling.

Second, support your husband in major matters.

After marriage, Wang Xinjun became a director and filmed the TV series "River and Mountain".

Qin Hailu personally served as the heroine and also served as the producer.

She said that my husband was born in a military family and had a "heroic dream" since he was a child, and it was also my honor to work with someone like him.

But in fact, everyone knows that Qin Hailu is the heroine to "save money" for Wang Xinjun, and she also serves as a producer to help Wang Xinjun reduce his burden.

In many crews, the producer's "rights" are greater than the director's.

In order to be able to let Wang Xinjun do his own things without distractions, Qin Hailu announced early on that the director has the final say on everything in the crew, and it is useless for anyone to come to me, because I listen to director Wang Xinjun.

It is with Qin Hailu's support that Wang Xinjun finally fulfilled his dream of directing.

Third, at the critical moment, support the backbone of the whole family

2014 should have been the most romantic moment in Qin Hailu's life.

When preparing for the wedding, Qin Hailu specially ordered a 9-meter red wedding dress and prepared a phoenix crown and a veil.

The two also booked the hotel and made invitations.

However, just as the wedding was approaching, Wang Xinjun's family suddenly changed.

Wang Xinjun's younger brother and father died successively.

The sudden change left the originally happy family of four with only the grief-stricken Wang Xinjun and his mother.

Faced with the departure of his loved ones, Wang Xinjun, who has always been a tough guy, couldn't stand the blow, and he couldn't extricate himself from grief every day.

After seeing the changes in her in-law's family, Qin Hailu made 2 major decisions.

First, the originally planned wedding was canceled, although the invitation had been sent out at that time, Qin Hailu still insisted on canceling it without giving any explanation.

The second is to insist on taking her mother-in-law to live with her, she was pregnant at that time, hoping to use the arrival of a new life to alleviate her mother-in-law's pain.

It is with Qin Hailu's support that Wang Xinjun and his mother-in-law slowly walked out of the haze and welcomed a new life.

Later, when he thought of this incident, Wang Xinjun couldn't help crying, he said: Just these two things, I have to be good to Qin Hailu all my life, she made our family go through the most difficult moment.

Seeing this, we understand:

Qin Hailu can be spoiled as a "little princess", not because of luck, but also by strength.

When the years are quiet, she is the delicate "little princess" in front of men;

At critical moments, she is the backbone of a man, and she can use her strength to support the whole family;

Such a woman, which man she marries back, is a blessing for a lifetime.