My son's high school entrance examination 730 distribution family group was not taken care of, but the red envelopes were received in seconds, and I finally saw through people's hearts.
Growing up, I have always felt that home is a warm place and a safe haven that we can rely on.
My name is Zhang Yunjie, a 21st century middle school student. This year, I ushered in the most important high school entrance examination in my life.
Getting up early and returning late every day, endorsing and doing questions every night, is to be able to get a good score in the high school entrance examination and realize the expectations of your family.
I have a large family, but there are eight people from my grandparents, uncles and aunts, uncles and aunts to my parents, plus me alone.
I was anxious, angry, disappointed, and more often chilled. They treat me so indifferently, why am I so unlucky?.
I was furious. I dialed my dad and I needed an explanation. A father's faint voice came from the other end of the phone: "Son, your grades are not bad, this 1 red envelope is a small trap set by me, which is intended to remind you to be content and happy, and to have a correct attitude towards test results."
After that, I began to realize the sinister nature of the human heart. At a family gathering, my relatives ignored me because I scored better than their children.
I got a good score in the exam again, and this time I didn't show it off in the group, and I didn't get angry at my relatives who ignored me because of my grades.
In the astonished eyes of everyone, I said, "Relatives and friends, I know that I have made you dissatisfied with my good grades in the previous exams, but this should not hinder our family communication.
In any case, we are all family.
This sentence seemed to touch their hearts. I saw that the color of the red envelopes in the family group was fiery red. People began to take the initiative to communicate with me and share their learning experiences and ways to improve with each other.
In the face of my family, I am always full of expectation and hope, hoping that my family can give me warmth and support. However, the word family conflict never seems to be separated from me.
Dad travels a lot for work. Every time he goes on a business trip, we go to see him off, but this month there was an accident.
For me, who is preparing for the third year of high school, I still hope to be by his side and see him off.
I watched helplessly as he left silently, filled with depression that I couldn't release. All the pressure and hope is in vain, and all that remains is doubts and dissatisfaction.
When my father's business trip turned into a week, then two weeks, it became more and more unbearable. I began to quarrel with my mother, sometimes even in front of my grandparents, and they persuaded me to solve the conflict again and again.
"Zhang Yunjie, you are not an adult like this! If you have time, you might as well read more books and prepare for the college entrance examination, don't bother me back and forth all day long!" Mom yelled angrily.
I replied angrily: "I can't see that you are a responsible mother! You only nag at me, and never understand my feelings!"
Mom's face changed immediately, and tears rolled in her eyes. I regret it, I really regret saying these piercing words.
The conflict between me and my mother made the whole family nervous. I no longer cared about my family's reactions, I just buried myself in books and test questions.
A few days out made me realize that escaping won't solve the problem. I decided to go home and face all this, after all, it was the family I had been looking forward to, and no matter what happened, I should take on my responsibilities and roles.
When I got home in the evening, I saw my dad, who looked exhausted. I suddenly felt a sense of vulnerability, and I finally understood that everyone has their burdens and conflicts in the family.
I walked up to my dad and said cautiously, "Dad, I know you're working hard for your family, and I shouldn't blame you for a small thing."
Dad looked at me with emotion and guilt in his eyes. He hugged me tightly and said, "Child, Dad shouldn't be irresponsible to you, just come back."
I felt the warmth of family come back to me. I saw my mother standing aside, the tears in her eyes gone, replaced by a smile.
Although the conflict in the family has not been completely resolved, at least we have taken a step in one direction.
As time went on, I grew up and became a young man. The college entrance examination is getting closer and closer to me, and it is the most important exam in my life.
In order to prepare for the college entrance examination, I devoted all my time to studying. Wake up early and stay up late every day, just to be able to master more knowledge.
This time, however, I faced an even bigger challenge. My father suddenly lost his job, and the financial pressure on the family became very heavy.
During this stressful preparation period, my father suddenly contacted a strange man. He claimed to be a friend of my dad and asked my dad to borrow money.
However, I always felt that something was wrong with this strange man.
One day, I came home and happened to witness this man's visit. When he saw me return, he smiled mysteriously, held up his finger, and motioned for me to be silent.
I crept up behind them and saw them enter my father's room. I hid outside the door and eavesdropped on their conversations.
I had a bad feeling in my heart that my father had fallen into the scam again.
Looking at my father's anxious expression, I decided to expose the man's true colors. When they left the room, I decided to face them bravely.
"Who the hell are you, sir?" I asked bluntly.
He frowned and smiled slyly. "You shouldn't meddle in this, young man. ”
"Don't think I don't know you're a liar! You want to borrow money and then don't pay it back, do you?" I said without fear.
He glared at me, "Boy, you're too arrogant!" and with that, he left our house coldly.
I turned around and saw guilt written all over my father's face. "Son, I'm sorry, I didn't think he was a liar.
I shook my head gently, "Dad, we can't be in this situation all the time. I will work harder to get into a good university and change our lives.
My father looked at me with tears in his eyes. "Son, you are my strongest backing, and your efforts are also the greatest hope for our family.
In the face of difficulties, my father and I were more closely united. We support and encourage each other to face life's challenges together.
The day of the college entrance examination is approaching, and I have shown my last determination and perseverance. No matter what difficulties I encountered, I believed that I would be able to persevere.
I received a letter of acceptance from high school that I had been looking forward to for a long time, and I happily returned home with it.
However, the scene after entering the door disappointed me. The family was sitting around the living room with serious expressions on their faces.
I curiously asked them what was going on, but was met with a cold answer.
This sudden contradiction made me feel endless guilt and pain in my heart. Growing up, I have always been the pride and sustenance of my family, but now I have become a burden to them.
I silently walked into my room and lay quietly on the bed. Tears slipped quietly, and I deeply felt the concern and helplessness of family affection.
I decided that I would no longer cause trouble to my family and would no longer be a burden to them. I want to study harder and try to get scholarships and school funding to reduce their financial burden.
A few months later, I was able to get into my dream high school and pay part of my tuition through a work-study program.
The predicament of this family made me see the true meaning of family affection. It is not only warmth and love, but also responsibility and dedication.
The quarrel started over my future college choices. My uncle supported me to get into a prestigious school, believing that it would have an important impact on my future development.
I was so troubled by their arguments that I couldn't make a decision. I understand that my uncle and uncle have such arguments because they care about me, but I don't want to hurt the feelings of other family members for a choice.
The argument became more and more fierce in the group, and I couldn't stand this situation and decided to communicate with them face to face. So, I made an appointment with my uncle and uncle to meet at home.
When I saw them sitting on the couch, arguing, I walked over and whispered, "Uncle, uncle, I know you're all thinking about my future.
No matter which university I choose to go to, I will study hard and bring glory to my family.
Uncle and uncle gradually stopped arguing, they looked at me, and my uncle sighed: "Yun Jie, you have grown up and already have your own ideas and decision-making ability.
The uncle also nodded, "You're right, children should have their own choices."
I felt relieved that their understanding and support made me even more convinced. Family harmony and unity are the goals I have always pursued.
We should learn to respect each other's choices and create a warm and harmonious atmosphere for our family.