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Editor|Yanagihachihara
Big cities have the luxury of big cities, but they also have their own lights in small counties.
When night falls, the sound of mahjong is endless.
When the lights on the mahjong table go out, the drama of "turning off the lights and hugging the mother-in-law" is also staged.
And these are the unique lifestyles of small counties.
In China's more than 2,000 counties, this happens all the time.
What hidden side is hidden in these small counties?
●○The luxury of big cities○●
It is said that "the north, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen" are the envy of everyone, and it is the existence that young people flock to.
And the luxury of big cities is indeed different from the "Lugang Town" in the heart.
But those bright and green existences bring only superficial vanity to ordinary people.
The big city is full of enviable high-end bars, luxury clubs, and high-end apartments.
These extravagant places seem to be close to ordinary people, but in fact they have nothing to do with them.
Elegant entertainment such as musicals and golf courses have high ticket prices, and the ticket price of a musical is enough for migrant workers to drink milk tea for a week.
Slightly tall KTV, playground, ordinary migrant workers want to play, but also to save food and use for a month.
And these so-called rich entertainment resources are completely out of reach for most ordinary people.
In addition to eating, drinking, and entertainment, the education and medical resources of big cities are also tempting the existence of countless ordinary people.
But if they want their children to go to the best schools, civilian parents have to save most of their monthly salaries, and one semester's tuition is enough to empty the savings they have saved for the past year.
Even if the child can go to this school, the parents' time and energy are squeezed out of work, and the child's growth environment is worrying.
Not to mention, if an ordinary worker is seriously ill, a few days of medical expenses can drive him to a corner.
In fact, in big cities, the lives of ordinary people are not as colorful as imagined.
They work 9-to-5 and hand over most of their income each month to save money to rent a house.
There is too much pressure on weekends and I don't want to go out to spend.
The whole life revolves around working and saving money, and stress, exhaustion, and anxiety are true portrayals of them.
The extravagance of the big city is just a gorgeous superficial article, alien to the life of ordinary people.
Among some of the "drifters", and life in big cities has already overwhelmed them.
The burden of life is on my shoulders, and I just walk in the subway every day.
Didn't notice the beauty of life at all.
In fact, what they need is not vanity enjoyment, but a simple life that truly belongs to them.
What's more, life in big cities is fast-paced, and many people often feel stressed at work and in life.
An ordinary white-collar worker may have to squeeze around in a crowded bus subway every day, and it is not good to be crowded in the morning rush hour.
Overtime is frequent at work, often have to entertain customers, and work overtime until late every day when business comes.
Sometimes in order to catch up with the progress of the project, I have to go to the company to work overtime on weekends.
Not only the pressure of work, but also the pressure of life.
Rent, children's education and other large expenses have left many people stretched.
If you are not careful, you may fall into the consumption trap and owe high credit card debt.
Sometimes unexpected situations, such as illness or unemployment, may lead to immediate financial difficulties.
Many people have to live high-stress lives in order to get a foothold in big cities.
In contrast, life in small cities is slow and many people can lead a more leisurely life.
During rush hour, the roads are clear and there is no traffic congestion like in big cities.
The work is also relatively stable, there is not much overtime, and the pressure is relatively small.
In addition, the cost of living is also low, and the cost of renting and eating is very low.
Even if the income is not high, you can live a life without food and clothing.
This kind of life environment with a slower pace of life and less pressure is more suitable for many ordinary people.
However, although small cities have a laid-back lifestyle, they are not at all lost to big cities in some ways.
It's even more than that.
●○Life in a small prefecture○●
In this era of rapid development, the gap between small counties and big cities is constantly widening.
Many small counties cannot compete with large cities due to their remote location, poor economic conditions and poor infrastructure.
However, small counties also have the charm of life in small counties.
Sister Zhang, who lives in the countryside in a small county, wakes up at 5 a.m. every morning to water and weed in her vegetable garden.
The garden grows a variety of seasonal vegetables, such as cabbage, greens, tomatoes, etc.
Sister Zhang was watering and weeding while chatting loudly with neighbors.
The neighbors chatted about homely things in every word, which made people feel so kind and natural.
After Sister Zhang watered the vegetable garden, she went to the market to buy some ingredients and come back to make lunch.
The market in the small county is small, but fresh fish, shrimp and vegetables are available.
Sister Zhang bought a few catfish that were bouncing alive, and went home with the basket to cook vegetables.
The biggest entertainment in the county is mahjong.
Uncle Li and a few old friends get together every day to play mahjong, and they don't feel bored at all.
At noon, Uncle Li's daughter-in-law would bring over a few hot dishes, and everyone would continue mahjong while eating.
For Uncle Li, this kind of life is wonderful enough.
The largest restaurant in the county is a small restaurant called "Aftertaste".
The owner, Cuong, has had a strong interest and talent for cooking since he was a child.
He uses local ingredients to create many signature dishes that are loved by locals.
Despite the humble conditions, Cuong's passion for cooking makes this small shop exude a sense of life.
The traffic in small counties is not very developed, and a small county town is so self-contained.
Although medical conditions are limited, people live simple lives and feel fulfilled and happy.
This is the simple charm of life in the small county.
However, the disadvantages of small counties are still obvious to all, and the biggest gap is educational resources.
For example, Sister Zhang's son Xiaobao grew up in the county and was admitted to the best middle school in the county after graduating from primary school.
During his time in school, Xiaobao performed well and his grades were among the best.
The teacher suggested that Xiaobao go to high school to study in a big city, so that there would be better development.
Sister Zhang also had this idea in her heart, but she couldn't bear that her son was too far away from home.
In the end, she encouraged Xiaobao to apply for a key high school in the provincial capital.
Xiaobao came to a strange big city and started a new life.
At first, he was not used to the crowds and hustle and bustle of the city.
Even grades have plummeted, and extracurricular activities have not kept pace with classmates.
Xiaobao has never even heard of the activities in the classroom, and the United Nations model has not even heard of it.
At this time, Xiaobao deeply felt the gap.
If you want to get ahead, then you can only hold the knowledge firmly in your hands.
This is true not only for educational resources, but also for human feelings.
In "Thirty Only", this is vividly expressed.
In the life of a small county, you may meet acquaintances without taking a few steps.
Even do everything to talk about human feelings.
Even dressing up will take into account the mood and eyes of the neighbors.
Perhaps this is the advantage of each of them, some people envy the uninhibited nature of big cities, and some miss the leisurely time in small cities.
●○ The life of "Mahjong" ○●
Life is like that, everyone has their own pursuits.
Some people love the simple life of small counties, and some people want to make a breakthrough in the big city.
The important thing is to find your own life, to live simply and happily.
But with the development of the times, this gap has gradually narrowed.
The pressure on big cities gradually decreased, and small cities became more developed.
Everyone's life is developing in the direction of NetGood.
"Fast pace" and "slow life" are just their own lives.
Big cities have their grandeur, but small cities also have their own lights.
Away from the bustling metropolis, small town life is full of "slow" atmosphere.
There is not much commercial shaping, there are countless places to consume, and people live a life back to basics.
In small cities, time seems to have slowed down.
Residents don't have much pressure to spend and don't rush for time like city dwellers.
In addition to work, friends meet to play mahjong, which has become a pastime for many people.
Game after game, mahjong squeaking fills the residential buildings, accompanied by faint speech, forming the main theme of the night in the small town.
Mahjong is not only a pastime for small town residents, but also contains a cultural connotation, which connects the relationship between people.
There is also a seemingly vulgar but understandable pastime, that is, "turn on the lights and play mahjong".
In small cities with limited material conditions, people's way of enjoying life is obviously simple and straightforward.
Unlike in the city, the night in the town is not as lively as the day.
The street lights are dim, and except for the sound of mahjong banging, most entertainment venues have already "slept".
The night in the small town belongs to the residents themselves, and people return to their homes, sit with their families, chat and talk, and live a peaceful and peaceful life.
It will also invite three or five confidants to be guests at home, drinking tea and chatting the sky, a warm and relaxed atmosphere.
During the day, the middle-aged and elderly people dancing in the park are especially active.
The melody of "Little Apple" sounded, the neat dance steps and the beat of the music, and the old people had bright smiles on their faces.
Maybe it's just a few simple steps, but the dancing is very engaging.
People find fun and balance here.
Dance not only trains the body, but also maintains feelings and makes life colorful.
In small towns, the relationship between people is closer.
The acquaintance society makes people feel warm, which has also become one of the charms of the small town.
People live a comfortable life here, a "slow" lifestyle.
Although not as colorful as big cities, in small cities, people find balance in their lives in an easy way.
Perhaps it is this balance and ease that makes the unique life of the people in the small town.
Compared with big cities, the consumption level of small cities is much lower, and the cultural and entertainment venues are relatively single.
There aren't many exhibition halls, museums or fancy bars, and even fewer concerts.
Although there are not many entertainment venues in the small town, the relationship between people is closer, which has also become the unique charm of the small town.
The town has plenty of leisure time, and the rush hour is short, and many people return home before 6 p.m.
Office workers in big cities, on the other hand, can only have a little free time at 7-8 p.m.
Small town life has its own unique charm, and the relationship between people is closer and warmer, and more direct and simple.
Although the entertainment is relatively simple, people find their own fun in simplicity and get balance.
This balance and satisfaction have made the unique living conditions of the people of the small town.
And big cities have their own "fast-paced" life, although it can often make people breathless.
But young people struggling in big cities are fighting for their future.
Everyone has their own lifestyle, and green vegetables and tofu have their own love.
Only by finding a way of life that adapts to oneself can you live your life well.
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