Many people probably remember the name Tai Lihua from the Spring Festival Gala in 2005.
On stage, she and her teammates' performance of "A Thousand Hands Guanyin" can be described as seamless and beautiful.
Dance "Thousand Hands Kannon"
Amid the melodious music, 21 dancers dressed in golden costumes slowly entered.
First, the leading dancer Tai Lihua slowly opened her arms, and between the changes, she could see that there was an "eye" in her palm that resembled the tail of a peacock, which was dazzling.
Suddenly, one, two, three... Countless hands slowly unfolded from behind Tai Lihua, and then suddenly contracted, and then expanded, and then contracted...
Dance "Thousand Hands Kannon"
The rapidly changing arm is like a peacock opening the screen, and like a lotus blooming, which is exquisite.
After the dance, the audience was still immersed in the artistic enjoyment brought by the dance, and when they learned that they were all deaf and dumb, their hearts burned with deep admiration and emotion.
As we all know, the biggest difficulty for deaf people is that they can't hear sound, and they can contact things slower than ordinary people.
But in order to present the dance perfectly to the audience, they all underwent a long and arduous training for the devil.
In order to maintain the chimerism between body shapes, they have to undergo various physical training every day;
If they want their arms to be neat and beautiful when they swing out, they rehearse with plastic wrap wrapped around their arms;
Unable to feel the rhythm of the drums, they lie on the floor and grasp the beat through the sound vibration...
Ingres said that sooner or later all tenacious efforts will pay off.
Heaven will not live up to every persistence, and the halo will not snub every dreamer.
"Thousand Hands Guanyin", a dance that became famous and became an eternal classic. And the leading dancer Tai Lihua, just like this dance, is tenacious, hammered thousands of times, and finally blooms with the ultimate brilliance.
Tai Lihua was not born deaf, everything stemmed from a high fever when she was 2 years old.
Because she injected the wrong drug, her hearing is only 100 decibels (normal people's hearing range is between 0-25 decibels), which is severely deaf.
At first, Mom and Dad thought there was room for everything.
So her mother quit her job to teach her to practice her pronunciation at home, and her father made her a lot of cards to read pictures and talk, and took her to seek medical treatment all over the country.
By the age of four or five, she could still babble "mommy" sounds, but her lost hearing could no longer be pieced together.
Ordinary schools could not take care of the daily life of a deaf child, so her parents sent her to a deaf school and began to learn sign language.
It was also in this school that Tai Lihua first came into contact with rhythm classes (courses including music feeling, dance, singing and other courses offered by the deaf school to exercise students' sense of touch and vibration), and inspired her love for dance.
At the age of 15, through layers of selection, she successfully entered the China Disabled Art Troupe.
Even if they are selected, the competition in the group is fierce.
Normal people don't necessarily resonate with music, not to mention that she is still deaf and mute.
Tai Lihua did not believe in the fate, she spent all her time practicing dance, striving for every movement to be flawless.
Day after day of practice, Tai Lihua's dance skills have deepened, and she has the opportunity to perform with the art troupe all over the world.
Now it seems that Tai Lihua's success is not accidental, aside from the lucky ingredient and talent bonus, it is hard work and hard work that allows her to have everything.
"The world kissed me, but I sang in return." I think Tai Lihua is the best presentation of this sentence.
Tai Lihua's dedication and love for dance is undoubted, and she also has her own persistence and original intention for feelings.
In 1993, when performing in Malaysia, Tai Lihua's beautiful dance attracted the attention of a wealthy businessman, and he expressed his heart to Tai Lihua.
But Tai Lihua is very sober: I love my motherland, I want to go back to my motherland, I am willing to live here.
After being rejected by Tai Lihua, the rich businessman waited for her for many years until she announced her marriage.
Speaking of which, the acquaintance of Tai Lihua and her husband Li Chun is a coincidence, and it seems to be fate.
At that time, Tai Lihua was in her second year, and when she went to the residential building to find someone, she happened to meet Li Chun, who was eager to help, so the two exchanged paper and pen for a whole afternoon.
Li Chun fell in love with this handsome girl at first sight, and Tai Lihua also felt that the other party was "more reliable".
After coming and going, the two quickly confirmed their relationship, but Li Chun's parents had a lot of worries about the union of the two.
They are worried that Tai Lihua's disability will be passed on to future generations, and Li Chun, as the only son in the family and a high-quality student, has a better choice.
But with the persistence and efforts of Li Chun and Tai Lihua, they successfully kept the clouds open and saw the moon, and after 7 years of long-distance running, a lover finally achieved positive results and formed their own small family.
Tai Lihua is 46 years old, and Li Chun has been married for 20 years and is still in love, and has healthy children.
She also stepped back from the shining stage to focus on public welfare and helping those with dreams but physical disabilities.
She wants to pass on this silent power to more people, telling them that it is okay not to hear, but the heart can thrive if it has strength.
For Tai Lihua's experience, some people praised her as a rose in the wind and snow, which will bloom more brilliantly after quenching.
Some people also feel sorry for her, as a deaf and dumb person, there are many difficulties, if you marry into a wealthy family, you will be more secure in the second half of your life.
Don't regret it in the end? I think Tai Lihua's happy life now is the best answer.
Perhaps there are too many female stars in the entertainment industry who "marry high", making people think that the best destination for girls is to marry a wealthy family.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to pursue a better material life.
But let's not forget that only what you have is the most reliable, and what others give may be taken back at any time.
At that time, how should we deal with ourselves?
I think of a female star in the entertainment industry, who does not marry a wealthy family and marries love, and now she has lived her life as a poem.
She is Zhang Xinyu.
Some time ago, Zhang Xinyu traveled to Yunnan and sent a set of beautiful photos.
Many people thought that it was a professional team shooting, but they were met by netizens by chance and found that her husband He Jie took photos with his bag throughout the process, very patient.
When the two officially announced their marriage, many netizens were not optimistic, and there was even no lack of sarcasm and irony.
But now five years later, the two have not only not parted ways, but have become more affectionate.
Time never speaks, but it is the best proof.
"Miss World" champion Zhang Zilin, there are also countless rich people who fell under her pomegranate skirt, but she chose Nie Lei, an ordinary office worker she liked.
People who follow her can often see her sharing every beautiful moment of her family together on social platforms.
Happy people are always similar, and their smiles are written on their faces.
For women, instead of looking forward to flying on branches and becoming phoenixes, it is better to forge a pair of wings of their own.
Those prosperous scenery and wandering life will eventually come to see you because of your efforts.
It is said that life is a mirror, you laugh and laugh, you cry and cry.
When one day we can't see life clearly, we might as well look up at ourselves in the mirror.
You see yourself clearly, and life becomes clear.
May we all find our sparkling selves in the days of chickens and dogs.
You have to meet one person, your heart depends on each other, and you keep each other.
Author: Uncle Yi; Source: WeChat public account one week book (ID: yer808)