Watching "33 Days of Lost Love" again, I found that there are many love golden sentences, this movie is not only suitable for people who have lost love, but also for those who are in love, and some inspiration can be obtained from it.
The story is mainly about the heroine Huang Xiaoxian's 33-day lost love, and when she first found her boyfriend and her girlfriend together, she was unacceptable, and she did not understand what the problem was.
While she was waiting for her boyfriend's apology and explanation, she was waiting for her boyfriend's accusations, and she finally understood that this love could not go back, and this person no longer loved her.
Everyone may experience moments of lost love, but everyone's attitude towards lost love is different, some people will humble retention, some people will let go.
In fact, the loss of love is not terrible, the fear is that after the loss of love, you no longer believe in love, or still have fantasies about the last relationship.
The movie "33 Days of Lost Love" tells you that these four love truths, I hope you can understand!
<h3 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, we want to be "evenly matched."</h3>
The balance of power here does not mean that the door is right, or the ability is comparable, of course, these are also important, but in this movie, it tells you that if one party chooses to quit, then you don't have to try to stay, it doesn't make sense to do so.
Love is mutual, can not only one side to pay, and the other party never understands the return, more afraid of one side to humble love, the other side is completely indifferent, such love you must be passive one.
Just like Huang Xiaoxian in "33 Days of Lost Love", when she saw her boyfriend with other women, she was also angry, she was also sad, but more still wanted to apologize to her, if she apologized, she would give him the opportunity and would forgive him.
This kind of thinking is not right, when you forgive him again and again, it will give him the illusion that no matter what he does, you will not really leave him, no matter what he does, you will agree, unless you can endure him for the rest of your life, otherwise you are doing it to beg for yourself.
This is what Huang Xiaoxian said about "equal strength," even if you break up, the two people must be on a horizontal line, do not let the other party see your vulnerability, do not let him feel that even if he hurts you, you still can't do without him.
<h3 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, love is not a necessity</h3>
If it was me who was a "love brain" before, I would definitely feel that love is all in life, and no love would be a lifetime of regrets.
But now I don't think like this, if I can't meet the love I want, I may regret it, but I won't take love as a necessity, and I feel that there is nothing else in life except love.
A few days ago, several sisters chatted in the group, they talked about this topic, several sisters are 30+ elderly leftover women, they are also worried about what to do if they live alone in the future? But what they are more worried about is that they can really be happy for the sake of marriage.
At the end of the discussion, everyone found that love is not the only option in life, if that person appears, then everyone is happy, if you really can't wait for that person, then you will never be, you should eat, drink, drink and play, life will not be too bad, anyway, now you make money and spend it yourself, a person also has his own happiness.
Love is not a necessity of life, if you find the right person, then consider whether to marry, do not marry because you are old, this is the most unwise choice.
<h3 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > third, do not "low self-esteem"</h3>
In the movie "33 Days of Lost Love", the most sad paragraph to watch is that when Huang Xiaoxian found that he really wanted to lose him, he planned to give up everything to chase him, what self-esteem, what face, all don't want, as long as he can return to her.
Fortunately, Wang Xiaojian let her wake up, if she really caught up with the car with that momentum and whispered to her ex-boyfriend to turn back, what would the result be?
The answer is obvious, but it is not interesting to be self-pleased, the person who no longer loves you, even if you have low self-esteem, even if you are humble, even if you change again, he will not be moved by you, he will only think you are very annoying.
Fortunately, she did not catch up with the car, did not ask for his forgiveness, did not change herself for him, otherwise she would regret it.
There are many people who will "low self-esteem" to keep each other after losing love, she feels that losing him has nothing, self-esteem is nothing, but if the other party no longer loves you, keep a little self-esteem, it will make you live a more decent life.
<h3 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > fourth, cherish the people around you</h3>
When your eyes are stuck on the person in the past, you will not notice the people around you who love you, just like Huang Xiaoxian, in fact, she has always had a Wang Xiaojian by her side to accompany her, but she only thought that she was a colleague and never felt that he would like himself.
Or maybe she is not unaware, but her mind is completely on her ex, and she does not have the heart to pay attention to the people around her who are good to her, even if there is, she will not accept it.
In fact, if what your ex has done to you is hurt, and you really won't be together, then it's better to cherish the people around you, don't let yourself get stuck in that past relationship, and don't let yourself waste time for people who don't deserve it.
Think more for yourself, pay more attention to the people around you, you will find that the loss of love is no big deal, there will always be more suitable waiting for you.
Zhou Guoping once said: "People who have not lost love do not understand love, and people who have not been frustrated do not understand life." ”
Lost love is the norm in love, take the lost love as an experience, cry and continue to move forward, rather than looking back at the person is still not in place.
Lost love is not terrible, afraid of your self-abandonment after the loss of love, your no longer believe, every lost love is like a rebirth, be brave to face it, there will be surprises waiting for you!