The reason why I watched the novel "33 Days of Lost Love" was because I was very popular at the time and watched a promotional video of the same name starring WenRenren and Bai Baihe, and I was very touched at the time.
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At that time, the promotional film of the movie "33 Days of Lost Love" was really very literary, and I didn't know much about the article and Bai Baihe at that time, but after watching the promotional film, I had a very strong interest in the movie "33 Days of Lost Love", and then became interested in the original work of the movie "33 Days of Lost Love", so I quickly placed an order on the Internet.
"33 Days of Lost Love"
Although I was in a remote area, I still finished watching the novel "33 Days of Lost Love" written by Bao Whale before the movie was released.
In May 2009, Bao Whale began to serialize the novel "Novel, or Guide" on Douban under the online name "Dahlia"; in 2010, he created the romance novel "33 Days of Lost Love". In 2011, she started her screenwriting career as the screenwriter of the romantic film "33 Days of Lost Love", which won the Best Adapted Screenplay Award at the 49th Golden Horse Awards.
Abalone whale, picture from the network
In 2012, Bao Whale was nominated for the Best Screenwriter of the 19th Shanghai TV Festival for the urban workplace drama "Floating and Sinking". In 2013, she worked as the screenwriter of the inspirational film "Waiting for the Wind to Come". On October 1, 2014, Bao Whale and Wang Ran held a wedding and officially entered the marriage hall. In 2017, he won the Most Media Attention Screenplay Award in the Media Attention Unit of the 20th Shanghai International Film Festival - Movie Channel with the youth school film "Flash Girl". One of his most recent novels is My Hero in 2015.
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Huang Xiaoxian'er is a grinning 27-year-old leftover woman with mediocre qualifications and ordinary family, engaged in high-end wedding planning - an industry with more demand in big cities, so this story takes place in Beijing.
Huang Xiaoxian'er, has a boyfriend of 7 years, but one day she bumped into her boyfriend and girlfriend in the mall, yes, it is the kind of cheating. The reason for the derailment was Huang Xiaoxian's only mean words, and her optimism about the world did not help her in this incident.
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And this "Thirty-three Days of Lost Love" is a diary-like record of Huang Xiaoxian's state after falling out of love.
Boyfriend cheating on girlfriends, not clichéd plot. Such things happen almost every day in life, even more bloody than what is written in "Thirty-Three Days of Lost Love", some people are worse than Huang Xiaoxian'er, at least, in this book, Huang Xiaoxian'er also has a male colleague who looks like a homosexual Wang Xiaoxian to accompany her.
In fact, is the loss of love terrible, it is not terrible, but we have to reshape the trust in the lover that we lost in the loss of love, which is the most difficult: this is also a struggle between ourselves and ourselves.
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In "Thirty-Three Days of Lost Love", Huang Xiaoxian'er experienced a lot of seemingly tragic things after falling out of love, and there were many difficulties in work, and because of her work, she watched others sprinkle dog food, and Wang Xiaoxian also constantly added to her blockage in her life... Huang Xiaoxian'er's life is too difficult.
In Huang Xiaoxian'er's relationship, her ex-boyfriend said after the breakup that he was injured by Huang Xiaoxian's harsh mouth, so he cheated and found warmth in Huang Xiaoxian's girlfriend.
No excuse is cheating. The law cannot sanction in the love stage, and the party who cheats in the process of marriage bears a lot of responsibility. Planing away the human constitution of some people who habitually cheat, in any relationship, one party cheats, and both lovers have more or less certain problems. For example, it will not be expressed, when quarreling, it must be vicious to each other, in order to quarrel with each other, the words that are not sincere to their lovers are vicious to each other; do not believe in each other, confirm the whereabouts or location of the other party all the time, so that the other party has a sense of suffocation; afraid of loss, often by hurting their own body to save each other...
In "Thirty-Three Days of Lost Love", Huang Xiaoxian'er's commendable vitriol and meanness are used on his most cherished lover, and time is the yardstick to witness emotions and a sharp weapon to consume emotions. The long-term verbal hurt and the boyfriend who did not take the initiative to communicate and lacked courage created Huang Xiaoxian'er's lost love and let everyone see this novel.
In the book, Wang Xiaoxian helped Huang Xiaoxian'er scold her ex-boyfriend at the classmate's wedding, and Huang Xiaoxian'er was as vitriolous and mean as before, whether in the movie or in the book, this paragraph makes people feel very happy, according to the current words, this is the typical Shuangwen Ah! However, in the process of growing up, we will slowly find that there are only strange cheats in life, but there is no Wang Xiaobei who stands out for himself.
We grow up in introspection, perhaps without introspection; some people give up love after falling out of love, and some people regain trust and expect love... Recognize that people's hearts are cold, maybe learn to experience love, some people can pay the heart, some people learn love skills. Love has changed many of us and made us adults who know suffering.
In love, there are few such applauding and applauding articles in "Thirty-Three Days of Lost Love", and there are also natural creations that make people look jealous, and some are the growth and tenacity after thousands of sails.