It has been 9 years since the release of "33 Days of Lost Love", and many people have scolded Huang Xiaoxian's ex-boyfriend Lu Ran in the movie, because he cheated on his girlfriend and was a scumbag.
But after 9 years to review this movie, Xiaobian seems to suddenly understand why Lu Ran left Huang Xiaoxian, in fact, no one in this relationship is innocent.
When Lu Ran left Huang Xiaoxian, he said, "Xiao Xian'er, don't you really understand?" Did the two of us get to this point by accident? You think about it, after so many years together, every time you quarrel, you have spoken out of it, not a dirty word, but the lethality is so big that I want to hit the wall for a hundred, after the quarrel, you feel comfortable, do you want to think about my feelings?"
Think about it carefully, many couples are eager to use the most mean words in the world to attack each other when quarreling, and even if they make up for it afterwards, those words are like a knife inserted into the heart, how can not erase those scars.
Huang Xiaoxian said when Lu Ran left that Lu Ran was the partner who had given him the most security. There are also a lot of details in the film describing Lu Ran's kindness to Huang Xiaoxian, and love should be really loved.
But if only one party in the relationship is accommodating, compromising, and constantly lowering their own bottom line to cooperate with the other party, then it will eventually break up.
"Every time I lick my face and find a step down by myself like a dog, you will always stand on your toes and stand motionless. This section of the stairs, I have gone to the bottom of the stairs with a gray face. You are still standing in the highest place, I am standing under here, looking up at you, my neck is broken, but you have never thought that people all over the world, is it only you who have self-esteem?"
Huang Xiaoxian actually knows everything, but only when she lands to spoil herself, she is so pretentious, and when she finally wants to save this relationship, she does not want those ridiculous self-esteem, but everything is too late.
Good feelings are equal, and this kind of relationship is not equal, and once the balance is tilted, the feelings are broken.
Lu Ran has been spoiling Huang Xiaoxian without principle, he may think that this is love for her, in fact, this is harming her, first make her feel that she is on top, and finally let her fall into the mire, which is the most cruel ah.
Each of us stumbled in the relationship, and finally learned how to love herself and others well, fortunately, she finally met the Wang Xiaobei who belonged to herself.
In the past, we thought that love was beautiful, but later after experiencing those betrayals, hurts, separations, and unavoidable and unattainable, we knew that love was actually sweet and bitter.
At the end of the film, there is an interview with a passerby. "If one day you can see this video, (choked up and silent for a while) I hope you will forget me forever."
I hope that everyone has forgotten the person who made you cry for him in the theater nine years ago, and now you have your own happiness.