Jia Jingwen on the stage of "Sister Lang" is hardworking, confident and beautiful, but in the interview session, she suddenly talked about her first marriage and the unspeakable "past of taking a woman".
Now about to turn 50 years old, although she has long been accustomed to strong winds and waves, she still tears her eyes when she mentions the sad past.
As one of the "first generation of actresses who hit the giants", Jia Jingwen spent 13 years "whitewashing" herself - now she has become an inspirational and attractive new female representative.
And behind all this, what kind of untold story is there?
1. Miss Qianjin becomes the queen of scandals
Born in Taipei to a wealthy merchant family, Jia Jingwen's grandfather ran a restaurant called Tianjin Wei in his early years, and although she was not very rich, she definitely had a middle-class background.
This restaurant is very famous, and even attracted many celebrities at one time.
Jia Jingwen is the eldest daughter in the family, and there is a younger brother named Jia Pengli, who later entered the entertainment industry under the stage name "Wesley", but his career has always been tepid.
The siblings grew up in a wealthy family, and Jia Jingwen was also born with clear eyebrows since she was a child, and was discovered by scouts when she was in junior high school and invited her to shoot advertisements.
After filming this eight-treasure porridge commercial, she successively shot many other commercials, and also hosted the children's program "Fairy Fingers".
Because of her acting experience, Jia Jingwen also studied at Huagang Art School for two years, during which she filmed the TV series "Jiajiafu".
In the blink of an eye, it was the stage of going to university, because Jia's father wanted to go to Tianjin to do business, so he took his daughter to the mainland to develop, and Jia Jingwen was also admitted to Beiying, and Xu Jinglei, Liu Lin, Liu Zi and others became classmates.
However, life was not all smooth sailing, she was in the school stage, her father was suddenly diagnosed with cancer, and her career fell into a bottleneck.
In desperation, Jia Jingwen terminated her studies and returned to Taiwan:
In 1994, she began to take on the drama frantically and successively acted in works such as "Four Thousand Gold" and "Crystal Flower" to make money to pay off her father's debts.
After accumulating a certain amount of popularity, I thought that Jia Jingwen's career would rise to a new level, but she fell into a scandal.
At that time, at the age of 24, she met actor Huang Jianqun, who was 4 years older than herself, because of the filming of "Forensic Curious Case".
The man was married to female model Wang Baiyu at that time, and his wife was pregnant, but on the other hand, Jia Jingwen was photographed by the media going in and out of the hotel with Huang Jianqun.
As soon as this news came out, Wang Baiyu was furious, and the next day he was angry and had a miscarriage.
Although neither the male and female protagonists of the incident came forward to respond formally, Huang Jianqun was immediately picked up by the media and had been charging Jia Jingwen's phone bill, and later admitted to reporters: "My morality is indeed lacking." ”
In a word, the side confirms that this relationship did indeed exist.
As a result, Jia Jingwen, whose career is rising, fell into a huge whirlpool, and her reputation plummeted.
What is even more surprising is that in order to save his marriage, Huang Jianqun once poured dirty water on Jia Jingwen, and also took the initiative to break the news that she had a relationship with Ma Jingtao, and Ma Jingtao also had a girlfriend at that time.
Jia Jingwen and Ma Jingtao met in 1998, and the two collaborated on the TV series "Tomorrow with You", and they have a good relationship in private.
And there is no evidence for this scandal, but many years later, the man's then girlfriend Yu Li came forward to "seal", saying in an interview that "he hates men the most", which is also understood by the outside world as connotating Jia Jingwen.
In addition, Jia Jingwen also has a "big guy" righteous father Wu Dun, who was later hailed by the outside world as an important promoter of her popularity on the mainland.
Wu Dun has a background in Hei, and before he was still carrying the Ming case, he began to enter the film and television industry after coming out of Yu, and invested in popular works such as "Whirlwind Filial Piety".
At the tail banquet of "Flying Dragon in the Sky" starring Jia Jingwen, the two met, and Wu Dun fell in love with her at a glance, so they hit it off and signed 6 plays in one breath.
After that, Jia Jingwen's resources really went against the sky, and she entered the domestic entertainment market strongly, successively participating in works such as "The Son of Han Tianzi" and "The Legend of Relying on the Sky and Slaying the Dragon", and also won the title of "First Goddess" of Tiger Pounce Network.
However, although Wu Dun claims to be Jia Jingwen's righteous father, the media has many speculations about the relationship between the two, and there are even scandals that the man paid 50 million to raise her.
This scandal was rumored until around 2004, when Jia Jingwen was really red, but the double labels of "Queen of Taiwan Drama Eight O'clock" and "Queen of Scandal" above her head obviously formed a split contrast.
2. Break into the giants but fail
After the story with Wu Dun came to an end, 30-year-old Jia Jingwen met under the introduction of the man's uncle.
Sun Zhihao had just returned from studying in the United States at that time, personable and arrogant, but he also had shortcomings: that is, he was famous and was a "actress sniper".
It is rumored that Sun Zhihao has always had a good impression of Lin Xinru, but he did not chase it, so he had to chase Jia Jingwen, who was somewhat similar to her.
Soon after the two established their relationship, Jia Jingwen became pregnant - perhaps something other than their accident, so the marriage was put on the agenda as a last resort.
But this "eight-o'clock queen" is not the most satisfied daughter-in-law of the wealthy Sun family, and her in-laws dislike Jia Jingwen's low education and bad reputation, and even directly suspect the identity of the child in her belly.
It can be seen that her status as a wealthy daughter-in-law has not been recognized from the beginning, and even if she finally succeeds in "ascending to the throne", it is precarious.
Sure enough, after marriage, Sun Zhihao still spent days drinking, scandals, bad deeds, and was even photographed drunk driving with hot girls out to play.
Jia Jingwen was so angry that she gave birth prematurely after learning this, but she still couldn't resist the swarming of the media, and she had to helplessly say:
"None of this will affect our feelings, and we all have to bear the pressure that public figures have."
In June 2005, Jia Jingwen successfully gave birth to her daughter Wutong Mei, but only officially completed the marriage procedures with Sun Zhihao at the end of the year.
But this seemingly bizarre marriage lasted less than four years, and the way of divorce was quite explosive.
In April 2009, because she married into a wealthy family and had not been in business for a long time, Jia Jingwen suddenly held a press conference and tearfully accused her husband of not letting her see her children.
Later, the public learned that because the family had a business in the United States, Sun Zhihao sent his daughter to live there and cut off the child's contact with his mother.
The "women-winning war" between the two was fought from the United States to Taiwan, China, and the man even "shamelessly" said that he wanted to recover the money spent for his wife and divide the marital property equally, so Jia Jingwen needed to pay a "price" of 26 million yuan.
In order to fight his wife, Sun Zhihao also exposed the ambiguous text message between Jia Jingwen and Huang Lei, and the two met in 2006 when they collaborated on "Sing a Song When Sad".
Huang Lei's disaster fell from the sky, so he had to reply angrily: "She and her husband have a brain." ”
In the end, this divorce drama comparable to the "eight o'clock file" ended with the husband and wife jointly taking custody of their daughter, but Jia Jingwen could only see her daughter studying in the United States during the summer vacation.
And the actress Gao Yuanyuan, who cooperated with her in "The Legend of Relying on the Sky and Slaying the Dragon" at that time, also came forward to support it, and she directly tore Sun Zhihao with her own hand, who has always been gentle and soft-spoken:
"You are the best mother, you deserve all the rights to be a mother!"
12 years after the judgment of this custody dispute, Jia Jingwen brought tears in her eyes in "Sister Lang" and mentioned the old incident again.
She bluntly said that her relationship with her daughter Wutong Mei is very close, and she has become "so strong" because of her daughter.
My friend Gao Yuanyuan also said bluntly in an interview, "Jia Jingwen is a particularly strong girl. ”
Perhaps, this trait is also the reason why she can be "reborn in nirvana".
3. Middle-aged popularity relies on sober determination
After ending the divorce lawsuit with Sun Zhihao, Jia Jingwen chose to start again in 2011:
She has successively taken out works such as "The Secret History of Princess Taiping" and "Dragon Babu", and even released her own music EP.
Especially in 2014, she returned to the big screen and participated in the movie "Unspeakable Summer".
It was also this year that Jia Jingwen sparked with her younger brother Jia Pengli's friend Xiu Jiekai.
Xiu Jiekai is 9 years younger than her and is also an actor, but she originally appeared as a friend of Jia Pengli, so she met Jia Jingwen early.
But the two gradually developed a good impression of road running in 2014, and according to the man, his first impression of Jia Jingwen was "Flying Dragon in the Sky".
He had a relationship experience in his early years, the woman was young model Wang Siping, and the two met through the collaborative movie "Mixed Sky Group", but after more than 4 years of low-key love, they broke up regretfully.
After that, Xiu Jiekai and Jia Jingwen were together, but the woman was initially insecure about this sibling relationship.
She even said bluntly to Xiu Jiekai: "You have to think clearly, we are quite big in terms of age and all aspects." ”
Unexpectedly, Xiu Jiekai was very mature, and when interviewed by "Kangxi is Coming", she could also answer rationally when asked by Xiao S if she minded Jia Jingwen's past:
"Her past and children are part of her life, and I love her, I love her all."
Jia Jingwen also bluntly said that the reason why she is willing to entrust the second half of her life to Xiu Jiekai is also because "he is a person who can fully accept his past."
The year after the two established their relationship, 41-year-old Jia Jingwen became pregnant, and the two gave birth to two daughters, Zhao Yu and Bo Niu.
In 2018, Xiu Jiekai married her in Bali.
Also this year, Jia Jingwen turned against the wind and came up with a social realistic drama "Our Distance from Evil" with a fairly good response.
In the end, she won the "Golden Bell Queen of Vision" with this play, and three years later, Jia Jingwen won the Golden Horse Award for the feature film "Waterfall", and the scenery is infinite.
At a time when all 40+ actresses complain that "there is no drama to film", or are still stubborn in the "Yatou Sect", Jia Jingwen is striking and shining.
Moreover, when dealing with the relationship with her ex-husband Sun Zhihao, she can also be very ironed.
In 2019, when her daughter Wutong Mei graduated, the former couple who had "broken their heads" both appeared, laughing and hating.
Now, Jia Jingwen shines in "Riding the Wind 2023", knowing that she has the shortcomings of singing, but she can push off all work, practice in retreat, and the stage every time is also amazing.
It can be said that she has lived a beautiful life as a "winner in life", even if there are tears or pain behind this, but she can always spring the wind and rain and laugh at everything.
And the reason for her nirvana is only because of Xiu Jiekai? Not.
Because Alyssa herself said:
"If you don't heal that wound yourself, it's still bleeding." You have to change yourself, you can't stand in your own position and ask others to pander. ”
Perhaps this is the "big heroine, bless her" under the realistic theme.