Jia Jingwen once pulled out her father's oxygen mask with her own hands, and Yan Xuejing pulled out her father's ventilator with her own hands.
Li Chen revealed that he also had a younger sister! It turned out that when Li Chen was still very young, his parents divorced. The father restarted the family, while the mother lived with him alone.
After his parents separated, Li Chen's mother single-handedly pulled Li Chen up, in order not to leave a psychological shadow on Li Chen, Li Chen's mother made a lot of efforts and gave Li Chen a very happy childhood with her love.
When Li Chen was a child, in order not to make his mother work so hard, he began to learn to cook and make dumplings for his mother. When he grew up, Li Chen was very filial to his mother, and even if he was busy with work, he would find time to go home to accompany his mother.
In addition to Li Chen, Jia Jingwen and Yan Xuejing are also very filial stars in the entertainment industry. But when their fathers were seriously ill, they pulled out their fathers' oxygen masks and ventilators with their own hands. The approach of the two was also incomprehensible and criticized by many people at the time.
Actually, I agree with Alyssa Jia and Yan Xuejing's approach, if it were me, I would be the same as Alyssa Jia and Yan Xuejing's choice, after all, it has become a fact, so don't let your relatives suffer from illness when they are dying.
Many people will say that you have no conscience in this kind of thinking, but do you feel good when you watch your parents suffer? I think it is better to leave happily than to live in pain.
People who have not personally experienced the torture of illness will not empathize, sick people are really painful, physical, psychological, and spiritual blows and tortures, can really drag down a person.
There are no words to describe the pain that patients endure when they are sick. There is no one to replace the patient's pain, and since it has been diagnosed or is dying, it is better to let the patient leave with dignity.
It is better to let a loved one leave with dignity than to let him leave in pain. Life is fragile in the face of human diseases, and life is also fragile in the face of some natural and man-made disasters.
It is not necessarily a good thing that my parents are still alive and well.
Wealth and longevity are certainly good things, and poverty and illness and longevity are the sorrows of the world.
An old man in a relative's family is over 90 years old, and relatives and friends are very envious of her, always saying that she can live at such an old age because of the blessing of cultivation. As everyone knows, the old man said that he was not enjoying happiness, this was harming others.
It turned out that the old man had three children, the eldest son and eldest daughter all died of illness one after another, and the other child was still healthy, but he was almost 70 years old, and his health was not as good as day by day, and the whole family also needed to be taken care of.
In this case, the elderly can only take care of themselves on their own, and occasionally neighbors will come to see the elderly. Elderly people in their 90s need to eat alone, because their teeth are not good, they have to eat softer, and their clothes need to be washed frequently. Seeing that the child is also old and can no longer take care of himself, he feels that living a long time is not a good thing, but a drag.
I don't think it's necessarily a good thing that my parents are still alive until they are in their seventies and eighties. Although the old saying is better than a treasure, when you can't take care of yourself, you have to face this thorny problem.
For children, as long as the elderly can take care of themselves, it is the happiness of the children, once they are bedridden and cannot take care of themselves, it is another matter, and it is uncomfortable for a long time.
When parents are seriously ill, it is also a kind of unfilial piety to watch their parents suffer from illness. There are always very few people in the world who can understand life and death, and the ideological realm must be fully realized before they can understand that life is sad and death is suffering.
Whether it is a blessing or a curse depends on how much blessing you have accumulated, and it can only be said that your children and grandchildren owe a lot of debts to the elderly in their previous lives, and they can only be repaid in this way. After all, if there is no debt, there will be no meeting, and I hope everyone will cultivate their own share of blessings with a kind heart.
For the elderly, no matter how old they are, as long as they can take care of themselves, it is the blessing of their children. Some elderly people live to be eighty or ninety years old and bedridden, and they all rely on their children to take care of them, and they survive until their children die, and white-haired people send black-haired people, which is not a blessing.
【Conclusion】
Of course, the older the elderly, the better, but there is one thing that is to be able to take care of themselves, if they can't take care of themselves, they live too long and have no quality of life, that is, they will suffer, but they will affect others.
The old man has money like a treasure, and the old man has no money is a root, this society is too realistic. The small depends on the old, the old depends on the small, the reincarnation of heaven and earth, treat it with conscience, and there will be a good reward in the end.