She was the most arrogant little third in history, and openly said to the original match: "I have entered your house freely, so you will give him to me." ”
She is not the most beautiful in the entertainment industry, but she is the richest in love history, the number of boyfriends is too many to count, and she says that she is more successful in running a relationship than running a business.
The well-known writer Wang Shuo once said that he died later, and his inheritance was all left to her.
She has leapt from an inconspicuous little black chick to a famous talented female director in the entertainment industry, in addition to her own talent, relying on one boyfriend bonus after another.
She is Xu Jinglei.
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Xu Jinglei was born in Beijing in 1974 to a working-class family, perhaps because she suffered a loss from no culture, and her parents paid great attention to the cultivation of Xu Jinglei's culture since childhood.
Before going to school, she began to teach her to memorize Tang poems, and when Xu Jinglei first went to school, she did not like to write, so her father sent her to the calligraphy class of the Children's Palace to practice writing every day.
Thanks to this, Xu Jinglei has made rapid progress.
Later, my father quit his job and opened a neon box factory, and to make this kind of light box, it was necessary to match the advertising words, and at that time it was not as computer-designed as it is now, and it had to be written by hand.
The workers' culture is not high, it is impossible to ask a calligrapher to write, and the cost cannot be earned. Her father saw that Xu Jinglei was still able to write, so he let her be responsible for the words on the lightbox advertisement.
At the age of 17, Xu Jinglei germinated the idea of learning to paint, and her father was very supportive when she heard it, so Xu Jinglei traveled through most of the city of Beijing and studied like this for a year.
At that time, she had another idea, she wanted to enter the Stage Art Department of the Central Academy of Drama or the Academy of Arts and Crafts, but after applying for the exam, she did not get in because the score of the cultural class was not enough.
But because I learned everything from childhood poetry, painting and painting, and all aspects of temperament were OK, I changed to the Beijing Film Academy the next year, and this time I was admitted as I wished.
In 1994, Xu Jinglei was a sophomore, and this year, she met someone who could change her destiny.
Since childhood, her parents have been very strict in discipline, Xu Jinglei has always been a well-behaved girl with quiet text, went to college, away from the discipline of her parents, Xu Jinglei began to let go of herself.
In the early 1990s, rock music swept the country, and Xu Jinglei also began to learn to play rock and roll.
At an event, she met Wang Shuo.
Wang Shuo has a good feeling for this generous little chick, and she still plays rock and roll, which is cool and clean, and she likes it more.
Wang Shuo was born in 1958 and is 36 years old, 16 years older than Xu Jinglei. Xu Jinglei is still in school, Wang Shuo has published several novels, and the response is very good, and he also tried to make movies, as if he was a successful person.
Successful people at this age, there are relatively few cases of singles, Wang Shuo is no exception, at this time he is married, his wife is also a Nortel graduate, the two have been married for many years and have a daughter.
Talent is affectionate, and family cannot hinder talented people from pursuing love. The two ignore the love affair.
Xu Jinglei's first TV series "You at the Same Table" in 1994 was rumored to be a recommended resource for Wang Shuo's gang. Now this drama can not be found on the Internet, and the rumors cannot be verified.
But in the same year's TV series "A Matter of Wind and Snow", the director is Zhao Baogang, who is also a person in the Beijing circle and a friend of Wang Shuo, in a word, Xu Jinglei directly entered the group.
In cooperation with Pu Cun Jiang Wu Ding Zhicheng Fu Biao Du Zhiguo (Du Chun's father), a group of male actors tout a fledgling newcomer, Xu Jinglei is the absolute female number one.
In addition to TV dramas, Xu Jinglei also made several movies, but none of them became popular.
It was not until 1998, when partner Li Yapeng's "Carry Love to the End", that Xu Jinglei really had a name in the industry.
This is an urban emotional drama, director Zhang Yibai, actors in addition to Li Yapeng, as well as Liao Fan Wang Xuebing, Xu Jinglei played the female number one Wenhui.
Wen Hui was born in a big city, and later went to the United States to study, ready to get married there, before marriage thought of the youth of the past, so she resolutely returned to China to find her first love, that is, a small city student played by Li Yapeng.
The 24-year-old Xu Jinglei is more in line with the age of this role and the environment in which she grew up, so she played a very successful role. After the drama was broadcast, the characters and songs in it swept the country.
Xu Jinglei finally became red, and at this time, her relationship with Wang Shuo was also in full swing.
The two did not shy away from suspicion, and naturally it quickly reached the ears of Wang Shuo's wife.
According to Hong Huang once wrote in a blog, a married writer looking for a lover is right under his wife's eyes. The lover said to the original match, "I have swung in and out of your house, so you will give him to me." ”
The original calmly said, You don't understand, I'm a, you can't replace me. ”
Although Hong Huang did not name him, everyone knew at a glance that it was written by Wang Shuo Xu Jinglei.
The two were together for several years, and Wang Shuo finally divorced his wife, who left the United States and also took her daughter.
Later, Wang Shuo said in the program that he was very sorry for the mother and daughter, and he did not dare to attend as a father when his daughter got married.
It seems that the prodigal son has gone through thousands of sails and always feels that it is still the original match.
Xu Jinglei, who is eager to turn right, did not come together in the end after her lover divorced.
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In 2003, Xu Jinglei won the Huabiao Award for Best Newcomer for the movie "I Love You".
After Wang Shuo divorced, he and Xu Jinglei did not marry as desired, but broke up.
After breaking up with Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei fell in love with the famous musician Sanbao.
Sanbao is a famous talented musician in the industry, Chen Kun and Dong Jie became famous, the theme song "Dark Incense" in the TV series "Golden Powder Family", it is from the hand of Sanbao, and the singer Sha Baoliang also became popular with this song.
After a few years together, the talented daughter also broke up.
After the breakup, Xu Jinglei came up with the idea of making her own movie, but there was no idea, no script, no resources, no film, completely a layman, it was difficult for a woman to cook without rice, what to do?
At this time, the ex-boyfriend Wang Shuo came in handy again.
Xu Jinglei told Wang Shuoyi about this idea, and Wang Shuo also fought righteously, without saying a word, using his own connections, pulling people to pull resources, building a team, and doing his best.
The two reconciled again and began to prepare for the movie "My Father and Me" together.
This is adapted from Wang Shuo's novel of the same name, starring Ye Daying, Zhang Yuan, Jiang Wen, Xu Jinglei, all of whom are well-known big figures in the industry.
After the film was released, it won many awards such as the Golden Rooster Best Debut Award, and Xu Jinglei also had the title of talented female director.
In the same year, Xu Jinglei directed "A Letter from a Strange Woman", which broke through 100 million yuan at the box office after its release, and also won the Best Director Award at the San Sebastian Film Festival that year.
Xu Jinglei's talented daughter's fame is getting bigger and bigger.
The film stars Xu Jinglei alongside Jiang Wen and Huang Jue.
Jiang Wen plays a writer, and Xu Jinglei plays the woman who writes. When the woman was a girl, she met the writer who lived next door and planted the seeds of love.
The girl moved away to go to a foreign country due to family changes, and when she became an adult (played by Xu Jinglei), the girl returned to her former residence as a student and met the writer again, and the two naturally had a one-night stand.
But the writer still didn't remember who the girl was. Not long after, the writer left for an excuse, never to return, the girl found out that she was pregnant, her life was forced to become a dancer, and she met the writer again, and the two rekindled their old feelings and separated again.
Huang Jue is the second male number, playing an officer, and has a small number of opponents with Xu Jinglei.
The wonderful thing is that Xu Jinglei and Jiang Wen, who has many passion plays in the play, did not rub out any sparks, but they began to have a scandal with Huang Jue.
In February 2005, a reporter photographed the two on a private date, and then photographed Huang Jue driving Xu Jinglei's car and taking Xu Jinglei's pet dog to see a doctor;
In 2007, another reporter photographed two people walking IKEA arm in arm, during which they also had a quarrel for small things such as buying furniture;
Not long after Xu Jinglei posted a home photo on the Internet, the man in the photo was mosaicked, but when interacting with fans, Xu Jinglei admitted that she had a boyfriend who was in love, and the outside world also speculated that the two had reached the time to talk about marriage;
At the 2008 Olympic Games, the two were photographed going to the United States to travel and enjoy the world of two.
Just when the outside world thought that the two were about to achieve positive results, Huang Jue suddenly got married, and the bride was not Xu Jinglei.
From falling in love to breaking up, although the two have been photographed countless times, they have not been officially made public.
There are rumors that the breakup was because Xu Jinglei scolded the well-known host Li Jing without naming on her blog, and Huang Jue and Li Jing's husband are good friends.
A few days later, Xu Jinglei was on her blog and apologized for the insult.
However, the two broke up as a foregone conclusion.
Later, another reporter photographed Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong intimate travel, Zhang Yadong is also a well-known musician, a famous talent, at this time he has a girlfriend who has been openly in love for several years, the goddess Gao Yuanyuan.
The news came out, and Zhang Yadong and Gao Yuanyuan also broke up.
Since ancient times, the talents are affectionate, and the love of the talents is so much that they cannot be tolerated in one person, so that they have to constantly find different people to cling to.
Zhang Yadong and Gao Yuanyuan also had a very sweet past.
When he met Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Yadong had a wife, Dou Ying, who was Dou Wei's sister.
After knowing Gao Yuanyuan in 2000, he fell in love and even confessed publicly many times.
Zhang Yadong also praised Gao Yuanyuan more than once in front of outsiders, calling Gao Yuanyuan "my little girlfriend" and saying that the little girlfriend had completely changed her concept of love.
At that time, Gao Yuanyuan often filmed in other places, the two were in a long-distance relationship, and Gao Yuanyuan also wrote love letters for Zhang Yadong.
However, after Zhang Yadong met Xu Jinglei, such sweetness also disappeared.
In addition to these several relationships or scandals, Xu Jinglei's list of boyfriends is far more than this.
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When Xu Jinglei debuted, she cooperated with Wang Xuebing of the same company in several TV series, and there were also rumors that the two fell in love, because a reporter filmed the two going to the movie together.
In the end, Wang Xuebing and Jin locked together, and the relationship between the two ended. Xu Jinglei also said a little lemon in the show that she was better looking than Jin Suo.
When Weibo did not rise, blogs were the hottest on the Internet, and Xu Jinglei became the queen of blogs as a talented woman.
The most popular male on the blog is Han Han.
In the introduction of his blog, Han Han posted a link, which is Xu Jinglei's blog address.
Two talented women who are not bound by the norms, do not shy away from each other's good feelings, a reporter photographed Han Han going to Xu Jinglei's family secret meeting, Xu Jinglei responded, Han Han is coming to see me, is there any problem?
When two adults meet, do they still need to report to their parents?
In addition to Han Han, another talent, Gao Xiaosong, also had an inexplicable past with Xu Jinglei.
In 2006, Lin Yilun once sang a song "Lei", the lyrics and composition are Gao Xiaosong, such an obvious directional song title, it is inevitable to guess what story Gao Xiaosong and Xu Jinglei have.
Because looking at the entire entertainment circle, especially the Beijing circle, there are famous names with "Lei", and Xu Jinglei is alone.
And Xu Jinglei is a famous "big honey" in the Beijing circle, that is, a more atmospheric and bold kind of Beijing girl, Gao Xiaosong has publicly expressed his appreciation for "big honey" many times.
The lyrics have a sentence "Your ignorant and innocent face is for whom the shy face is", which seems to be a bit sour.
In addition to Caizi, it is rumored that the rich businessman Ji Xiaobo has also pursued Xu Jinglei, but she did not agree, perhaps, caizi loves it.
Although the two did not become lovers, but became friends, there are rumors that the female star Wu Peici, that is, Xu Jinglei introduced to Ji Xiaobo, and later Wu Peici and Ji Xiaobo gave birth to four children.
Xu Jinglei once admitted that since the age of 19, she has not cut off her boyfriend.
Wanye bushes, who is the ultimate choice of talented women, the answer is Huang Lixing.
In 2009, Xu Jinglei directed and acted in the workplace movie "Dulala Promotion", the male protagonist is Huang Lixing, the female protagonist Xu Jinglei, Karen Mok and Wu Peici have cameos.
Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing have a large number of passion scenes in the film, and some reporters asked about this topic, Xu Jinglei frankly said that Huang Lixing is a big handsome man, and the passion scene is her "welfare" as a director.
Probably, Xu Jinglei found her true destiny this time.
In 2014, Xu Jinglei publicly showed her love, saying that in five years together, she had never had a red face or a fight, which was also unbelievable.
In 2018, Xu Jinglei sighed on Weibo, I often have illness, you always have medicine.
Once again, he openly showed his love for Huang Lixing.
Xu Jinglei, now 47, is still unmarried.
The two have been together since 2009 and have been married repeatedly, but have not been confirmed.
"Rich and versatile", the maverick Xu Jinglei, should not need a marriage certificate to prove her feelings.
After many boyfriends, but there have never been cases of bad evaluations or tears, it is no wonder that some people say that Xu Jinglei is a "good ex".
In 2015, Xu Jinglei said on the show that it is normal to be able to become good friends after a breakup. I have an ex-boyfriend who has been separated for nearly 20 years, and now I still contact him by phone every day.
Some people speculate that this predecessor refers to Wang Shuo.
And Wang Shuo also said in the program that the house he lived in was bought by Xu Jinglei at his expense, and he was "raised" by Xu Jinglei, which was "soft rice and hard to eat", and frankly said that after his death, the inheritance was all left to her.
This also fulfills the sentence of Xu Jinglei's self-evaluation, and she is more successful in running her own feelings than in running a business.