"A chicken in your left hand, a duck in your right hand, and a fat doll on your back."
This 1984 Spring Festival Gala", "Back to the Mother's Home", made Zhu Mingying fire all over the country, how beautiful the content of the song is, how cruel the reality is.
Originally happy and happy, she went abroad for further study after divorcing her husband due to personality incompatibility, so she missed her son's growth.
After that, the ex-husband married Zhu Mingying's brother-in-law's sister, and the youngest son became a single child, however, when Zhu Mingying learned of this news, she still calmly blessed her ex-husband.
After many years, she still has regrets in her heart, when her son experienced his parents' divorce one after another, and he went abroad for further study, Zhu Mingying always recalled his son and sighed:
"Blame me for not taking good care of him, so that he didn't have the love of his mother since he was a child, although he never blamed me in all these years."
If you return to the original point, will Zhu Mingying still choose to go abroad for further study alone and miss the growth of her son?
01
On an ordinary day in 1950, Zhu Mingying was born in Shenyang, and the legendary life began.
So far, few people know that Zhu Mingying's original surname is Zhang, and her grandfather is the famous Zhang Zhidong, so the door is really Miss Shijia.
But the door belongs to the door, the family belongs to the family, and when she was two years old, her parents divorced.
If Zhu Mingying at this time knew that many years later, her son would also become a single child like herself because of the divorce of her parents, what kind of feeling would she have?
When she was young, Zhu Mingying often went to the Grand Theater with her mother to watch other people's drama performances, and when she watched the joy and laughter of the people on the stage, she was immediately intoxicated, and since then Zhu Mingying's heart has also planted a small seed of wanting to be an artist.
She secretly made up her mind
"Someday I'll be on the stage too, and in the first place!"
In order to support her daughter, Zhu Mingying's mother also accompanied her to various art colleges many times.
It should have been an inspirational story, but there were unexpected storms in the sky, and when Zhu Mingying was really admitted, her mother died of illness.
At that time, she was only 16 years old but had to bear the pain of losing her mother alone, and those who could succeed were motivated by grief and anger, and Zhu Mingying was the same.
After entering the song and dance troupe, the pressure is indispensable, although it is hard but painful and happy, and Zhu Mingying's love also quietly sprouts in the hot sweat.
This man is Wang Mingqi, who is also a literary and art worker like Zhu Mingying.
Because they worked together and got to know each other a lot, the feelings of the two people gradually warmed up, and they soon got married.
At the same time as the family is happy, Zhu Mingying has also broken through a lot in her career, and soon became the "top stream" in the group, and the rehearsal time is busy, and Zhu Mingying naturally cannot take care of the family.
The husband's unit is usually very busy, and the husband and wife do not have time to take care of their son.
Young sons often do not have enough to eat, Zhu Mingying looks at her young son and does not have much love, still feels that career is the most important.
Often give my son a little money casually
"Go out and buy some food yourself, Mom is really busy and doesn't have time to take care of you.
Immediately the son was "sent" away, the young children naturally missed their mothers, and sometimes they would cry and cry to go to the regiment with their mothers, and Zhu Mingying really had no choice but to bring her son to the regiment together.
When she got to the regiment, she didn't allow her son to run around:
"Just stay here and don't run around, or your mother will be angry!"
Zhu Mingying's busy appearance and indifferent tone took deep root in the young child's heart, and at the same time planted a thorn in her husband's heart.
Later, Wang Mingqi finally couldn't help it:
"Do you still have the appearance of a mother?" You don't take care of the kids every day! What if he was so young and didn't have a mother? Just don't sing, just take the kids at home! ”
Zhu Mingying was even more angry after hearing these words, feeling that her husband was hindering her career path, and the two people at this time had become inseparable.
02
In 1981, the two people officially divorced, and the husband also married someone else in the same year, and the son at this time seemed to become a superfluous.
I thought that Zhu Mingying would treat her son with care, but she chose to study abroad and once again left her child with a cruel heart.
At this time, the son was still deeply attached to his mother, and he looked at Zhu Mingying carefully:
"Mom, can you not go?" Or can you take me with you? I want to be with you... May I. ”
Zhu Mingying took a deep look at her son, turned around and walked towards the airport.
The 35-year-old Zhu Mingying still puts her career first, and how much she pays attention to her career in the face of how careless her children are.
She completed her studies in less than a few years and has achieved great success in her career.
Although she has long been a successful woman in her career, so many years of non-stop running have also made her heart begin to empty, and at this time she remembered her son.
Once fierce, she remembered her son's red and swollen eyes when she was leaving, and her heart finally flooded with a sour feeling, maybe this is the instinct of maternal love.
After the prosperity, wash the lead, women will still be reluctant to blend with their own flesh and blood.
For five years, she worked hard, hoping to bring her son to the United States as soon as possible to make up for her negligence and indifference.
The thoughts of my son are getting deeper and deeper, and the regrets I once had are more and more.
When she missed her son the most, she even bought a wall calendar to draw various circles on it, and those were the dates when she was about to meet him.
Looking at the wall calendar and the picture of the child on the wall, she silently shed tears:
"My baby, Mommy sorry for you, wait Mom, fast, it's fast... We will not be separated again. ”
Finally, under the woman's continuous efforts, the date on the wall calendar was finally drawn, and the meeting with her son was close at hand.
When Zhu Mingying stood at the airport entrance and looked forward to it, he finally saw his son who had been separated for five years, and the impression of the child was still a small hairy child, and now he had become a handsome little teenager.
The child will never remember the mother's vendetta, the two people hug each other tightly, and the mother's love that has been indifferent for many years erupts again.
Both of them cried silently: "Mom, have you had a good life all these years?" I really miss you! ”
Zhu Mingying was even more sad to hear her son greeting herself, hugged her son more tightly, and silently vowed in her heart that she must let her baby get the best education.
03
Although it is a biological mother and son who have been separated for many years, there is also friction between the two, and it just so happens that the son is in a rebellious period at this moment, and he begins to be dissatisfied with his mother's decision.
His mother hoped that he would be able to go to the home of a good friend in the United States to learn English, but also so that he could have a better foothold in the United States in the future, but the son was unwilling, he felt:
"We haven't seen each other in five years, so why should we be separated?" I don't want to be separated from you! ”
Zhu Mingying's nose suddenly became sour again:
"Kids, mom is trying to make you have a better language environment to learn English! Not to be separated from you! ”
In order to be with his mother, the son secretly tried to learn English secretly, and soon spoke fluent English, and this move also made Zhu Mingying feel more sad and sorry for her son.
After graduating from high school, Zhu Mingying hoped that her son could go to Harvard or MIT, but her son's decision made Zhu Mingying stunned.
She didn't expect her son to actually want to learn music, but on the surface, his son never showed that he liked music.
What Zhu Mingying did not know was that her son often took the pocket money she gave him to buy CDs, until one day Zhu Mingying found that her son was still so emaciated, and she was shocked, thinking that she had not taken good care of her son.
At this time, Zhu Mingying was already an excellent mother, and the indifferent look of that year seemed to be two people.
When she arrived at her son's dormitory, she learned that his son used to like music so much that all in one room was CDs.
Although Zhu Mingying's indifference left a childhood trauma in her son's heart, it was also a musical enlightenment for her son.
That night, Zhu Mingying called her son to her side and said to him affectionately:
"If you really like music, then your mother will definitely support you, you just have to be brave enough to do it, and your mother will always be behind you!" 」
In order to support her son to seriously engage in music, Zhu Mingying invested nearly a million yuan, and she wholeheartedly did what a mother should do, but also to make up for her past with her son.
Later, before the autumn of 2001, both the mother and son were invited to perform by the Jiangxi Art Troupe at the same time, and before the performance, the son said to Zhu Mingying:
"I am your son, but I am also myself, I am Wang Jue, and I hope that the future road can be broken by myself, instead of relying on my mother's fame!"
Facing her sensible son, Zhu Mingying showed a happy and relieved smile.
Wang Jue also perfectly inherited Zhu Minying's musical talent.
From 2002 to 2004, Wang Jue became the focus of the press conference with her own ability, and also won the Most Popular Newcomer Award in the same year.
At the same time, in 2004, he appeared on CCTV's Spring Festival Gala, standing on the stage where his mother had stood.
He perfectly explained that he was not the second generation of stars, he was the second generation of stars, he was Wang Jue!
In the Spring Festival of 2020, Wang Jue and her mother once again enjoyed the Spring Festival of the two people.
Zhu Mingying asked Wang Jue:
"Did you hate me then?"
Wang Jue replied:
"No, I will always love you, I have only now realized your difficulties and good intentions, you brought me into this world, and I know that you love me!" ”
After saying many years of knots, the mother and son once again held their hands tightly together, and this moment they would never be separated again.
Today's Wang Jue has long been established, and also has his own wife and children, and now Wang Jue and his daughter-in-law are filial piety and fame, and the family of four is happy and harmonious.
Recently, Wang Jue also wanted to introduce her mother to an old wife in her old age, but she was scolded by Zhu Mingying and refused.
Zhu Mingying knows that her son is for her own good, but she only feels that life without marriage is not broken, and it is enough for her to see her son's happiness in this life.
Zhu Mingying is a clever artist and a mother who has awakened.
Now she also enjoys the happiness of teasing her grandson, and the crack between her and her son has also been filled by years of family companionship, and the two people are both mutually dependent and mutually respectful friends in overseas times.
No matter what the past is, just read the present years and be quiet.
Time will soothe all the pain, but also bring infinite surprises.