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A year before his divorce from Huang Zhizhong, He Yin updated a dynamic on Weibo: "Finally gave up what should be given up, I believe that tomorrow will have a new and beautiful life." ”
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That year He Yin was 43 years old, it was the twelfth year of her marriage to Huang Zhizhong, and it was also the year when Huang Zhizhong's scandal with Ke Lan was boiling.
The combination of He Yin and Huang Zhizhong is the same as all actors and couples: they get married because of the drama, and then they love each other, get married, and have children, if there is no accident, the hand in hand is a lifetime.
He Yin himself thought so.
Because she and Huang Zhizhong met Yu Wei, it was she who accompanied him through the most difficult road, upgrading from a two-person world to a happy family of three.
In order to better support Huang Zhizhong's career and have more time and energy to take care of his family, He Yin is willing to reduce production and sacrifice his career to complete.
Everything develops as desired, the children grow up healthily, the husband's career is getting better and better, He Yin is happy, but the good times are not long In 2008, Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan met because of the filming of "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes" and then there was a scandal.
Are in the entertainment industry, He Yin naturally knows the truth of no wind and no waves, although she has not made any positive response, but from the Weibo she updated, the following year announced that the two divorced, it seems to explain something.
At that time, although the reason for the divorce was not said for decency, less than three months after the two divorced, the media photographed Ke Lan staying at Huang Zhizhong's apartment overnight, and it was revealed that the two had been secretly in love for two years.
After that, I photographed the two people in the same frame many times.
I think that before the divorce, He Yin survived a very difficult time and made a long mental struggle before convincing himself to give up.
After divorcing Huang Zhizhong, her 8-year-old son lived with He Yin, and she also said: "We can't be husband and wife and are friends, we will raise our children together." ”
Ten years later, how did He Yin live? Is it a new life as she says?
Today, let's get close to He Yin and read her story together, she is destined to be a happy person.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 dream</h1>
He Yin was born in Sichuan in 1967, his parents are ordinary people, although no one in the family is engaged in art, but He Yin has loved singing and dancing since he was a child, and he has an artistic dream in his little heart.
If it is just a hobby, the parents are supportive, but if it is to be used as a profession, they are the first to oppose.
Because in the eyes of their parents, any performing arts is not a serious job, so they firmly disagree with He Yin's path of art.
Forced to do so, He Yin had to choose the preschool teacher major.
Of course, the reason why she chose this major is also because she thinks that kindergarten teachers can also sing and dance, and it is with this simple purpose that He Yin graduated from the kindergarten normal school and became a kindergarten teacher.
During He Yin's tenure as a teacher
In fact, when He Yin was 16 years old, someone invited her to enter the show business circle, but after being opposed by her parents, she obediently applied for the kindergarten teacher as a kindergarten teacher.
He Yin is an easy and very simple person, from the beginning of her choice to be a kindergarten teacher, she has been dead hearted: in fact, it is not a happy thing to teach children to sing and dance for a lifetime.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 People with good hearts will be taken care of by Heaven</h1>
But what He Yin did not expect was that after she had been a kindergarten teacher for three years, the god of luck took care of her again.
Once she was out for a walk with her children, and a middle-aged man had been following them and began to think that he was not a good person, and He Yin was still a little wary.
But then it turned out that the other party was a scout, and the man told He Yin that they had a scene that she was very suitable for, and asked her to try it.
Many times rubbed shoulders with dreams, and many times by fate, He Yin felt that this may be fate, she did not want to miss this opportunity again, so she went, that year she was 22 years old.
He Yin's start is quite high, the first play is "Jianghu En Vengeance", to know that China's early martial arts films, to fight and kill, the role is very heavy, the first role is a chivalrous woman, He Yin can look forward to the future.
Sure enough, He Yin has always been a person who has been favored by fate, even she herself has said so, from her debut to now, the road to acting has been quite smooth.
Of course, this is also inseparable from He Yin's own love and persistence in acting, when playing "Qingqing River Grass", He Yin was selected by Qiong Yao to play the role of "Pomegranate".
When she was first asked to audition, she was selected because she could cry, but when the pressure was too great during filming, she couldn't cry for an hour in the theater, which was quite painful at that time.
Fortunately, He Yin was calm and persuaded himself to enter the role and turn himself into a "pomegranate" girl.
He Yin and Qiong Yao
After receiving attention with "Pomegranate", He Yin then cooperated with Qiong Yao in "Plum Blossom Three Alleys" to establish He Yin's status as the "first generation of Qiong Girl".
At the same time, she is also known as the "most beautiful Qiongyao girl", but she herself said: There are too many beautiful girls in Teacher Qiongyao's works, and she can't rank themselves, and the praise given to her by the audience is an encouragement and expectation, and the most beautiful hope.
He Yin is such a humble and elegant person, never in contention, like Qiong Yao's characters are simple, clean, kind, always so beautiful.
From having a dream when she was a child to becoming acquainted with art, becoming the most popular female artist on both sides of the strait in the 1990s, He Yin was not arrogant or impatient, did not hold a beautiful crime, and insisted on herself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 She is destined to be a happy person</h1>
He Yin is a person who truly loves art, and after achieving certain achievements in film and television works, she has put her mind on drama.
She knows that in order to make a good work and create a good role, she must be sincerely committed, not too many distractions, and must become that role herself, and every time she receives the script, she begins to convince herself to become a person in the play.
In 1994, she won the 4th China Art Performance Award for her drama "Bashan Qing", and since then He Yin has been shining in the field of film and television drama.
Although it is not as popular as the current top small flowers, it is also particularly eye-catching, and there are many people who naturally love her, but she has never been moved.
Until 1997, I met 28-year-old Huang Zhizhong and co-produced the TV series "Mainlander" with him, and it seemed natural that the two fell in love at first sight, and then fell in love and got married.
Huang Zhizhong was born in sports, two years younger than He Yin, who was still a nobody when He Yin was on fire.
In the past, he had seen He Yin on tv in the pictorial newspaper, and this time he met and saw "living people" because of the drama, which can be described as shocking, hundreds of times better than in television.
So at the moment he said in his heart, "This must be my daughter-in-law, and it must be taken down." ”
In this way, the two people reflected the emotions in the play into reality, and after a year of love, the two entered into marriage.
After marriage, He Yin used all his resources to help Huang Zhizhong develop his career, and Huang Zhizhong's love for He Yin was also increasing day by day, and the two supported each other and made progress together, so they were not happy.
Especially after ushering in the crystallization of their love, from the world of two to a small family of three, they are immersed in the joy of parenthood.
The arrival of his son is like Huang Zhizhong's lucky star, his career is getting better and better, but as the drama is more and more, it is less and less time to take care of the family.
In order to let him have no worries, He Yin took the initiative to take on the heavy responsibility, reducing production and leaving more time and energy to take care of the family son.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >04 People who have changed their hearts cannot stay</h1>
But who knew that such a happy time was not eternal, and that when their son was eight years old, the marriage came to an end.
He Yin had also tried and retained, she still felt that she was not good enough, when Huang Zhizhong mentioned the divorce to her, she was ignorant, she did not know what was wrong.
She thought that she was not good enough, but in fact it was not that she did not do well, but that he had changed his mind.
You must know that no matter how good you are, it is not good in his eyes, and it is impossible to keep it.
It's just the love that was once, the vows that were said, those happy pictures, saying no, don't want it, this man will not be too cold-blooded.
After He Yin experienced hard work, suffering, and entanglement, she decided to give up, let go of herself and let him go, but the child wanted to follow her.
In order to obtain a free body, he was also willing to give up everything to go out of the house, and there was really no love.
He Yin is really a kind and wise woman, no quarrel, no tearing, no saying that the other party is not half a point, and chooses to put it down and be okay with each other.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >05 New self, new happiness. </h1>
After the divorce, He Yin put more energy into accompanying her son's growth and rarely appeared on the screen.
Someone once asked her if she had retired to stay at home with her baby, and she said that the stage was my ideal, how could I easily lose it.
In fact, in the past ten years, she has also acted in many works intermittently, such as Sister Meng in "Meng Fu on the Sea", Zhao Lan in "Step by Step"; Xue Baolian in "You Are My Sister", Wu Taifei in "The Biography of Female Doctor Mingfei", Wei Huajin in "The Tale of the Sea Wind and Clouds", and so on.
At the same time, He Yin also met a new happiness, she married Xu Yunfan, who was 9 years younger than her.
Xu Yunfan is also an actor, and is a classmate of Chen Kun and Huang Xiaoming.
He has participated in works such as "Nurhaci", "Autumn Leaves of the Distant Mountains", "Mother and Child Once", "Place Away from the Crowd" and other works, although not as famous as Huang Zhizhong, but born excellent, his parents are Kochi, and the key is to be good to He Yin.
Earlier, he yin also confessed on Weibo that "life and death meet, do not leave and do not give up", He Yin also responded "If you do not leave, I will not give up." ”
Now that they have been holding hands for nine years, He Yin's son, Huang Boyuan, has grown into an adult, and he has chosen the same path as his parents.
From the photos of his son after he grew up, it can be seen that he has perfectly inherited his mother's appearance, and with the assistance of his parents' resources, if he wants to embark on the road of art, it will be much easier than ordinary people, but at the same time it will be much more difficult.
Because as the second generation of stars, with his parents in front, it is inevitable that he will be used for various comparisons, but for now, he is not in a hurry to debut, but he has solidly consolidated the foundation to learn professional knowledge.
It's just that as a mother, He Yin occasionally "opens business for her son" and can feel her happiness now from her words.
I often hear people say: What kind of person you are, you will have a kind of life.
Deeply. No one in this world can trap you, only you can trap yourself.
He Yin, from a kindergarten teacher to the most beautiful Qiong Yao girl to Huang Zhizhong's wife and Huang Boyuan's mother, she has never let go of the career and stage she loves.
Even after the divorce, she never gave up on herself, but after experiencing all the twists and turns, she persuaded herself to give up the person who no longer belonged to her and start over.
He Yin once said, "In a complicated world, we may have many ups and downs and many obstacles, but I would rather believe that life is as beautiful as a fairy tale world, and human nature is beautiful." ”
Because of the beauty, because I believe that she really lives happily with the prince like the princess in the fairy tale world, and she is still as innocent and loving as the little girl who does not understand the world in Qiong Yao's works.
Finally, to share a very romantic sentence for you:
"Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." - Wilde
Text‖ DADA
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