After marrying a rich businessman for 8 years, jumping down from the 28th floor, Shen Lijun left a swastika to expose the inside story of the giants
Everyone knows that once you enter the rich as the sea, the life of a rich person is yearned for by many people, living in a villa and driving a luxury car, it seems that this is the end of a perfect life. But when you really walk into the giants and live the life of a superior person, the bitterness and grievances are slowly revealed. Everyone opens a gift differently, and the process and details determine success or failure. Shen Lijun was once the originator of the Internet celebrity industry, debuting as a flat model, and her figure and appearance are among the best beauty embryos.
Although there are not many works in the film, she is famous, and like many people, when her career is heating up, she chooses to marry a wealthy Shanghai businessman who fell in love at first sight. On the surface, this woman seems to be very blessed and married to a high match for marriage. But unexpectedly, she had just experienced the "7-year itch", and jumped from the 28th floor in the eighth year after marriage, leaving a suicide note of more than a dozen pages. Counting her own luxury marriage, the irony is that when she jumped off the building, her husband was choosing a wedding dress for Xiaosan, what did Shen Lijun experience in the past 8 years?
Marrying into the giants is the beginning of a nightmare
This wealthy Shanghai businessman, whose assets are in the top ten of Jinshan, under the attack of sugar-coated shells, Shen Lijun feels that she has met the true destiny. This is a common disease of many girls in love, when a person is full of financial ability, willing to pay money and material things, and even add a little companionship. Many people feel that they have been blessed with love and the right person. In fact, for men, what is the most precious, the time of the rich, the money of the poor.
Shen Lijun was confused by some appearances, quit the entertainment circle for her love, and lived the life of a husband and a godson at home. For a woman, giving up her career means entrusting all dependence to the hands of men. If the other party cherishes, the future days must be happy and happy, if you meet someone who does not understand, then it is the beginning of the nightmare. The daughters-in-law of the rich have the responsibility and obligation to spread the branches.
After Shen Lijun married into the rich, she began the stage of preparing for pregnancy, because of filming and work fatigue, her foundation was not very good, and she ate a lot of supplements. In order to save the child in the womb, hundreds of injections were given, and it can be said that they suffered a lot in order to give birth to a son. I thought that my own efforts could be exchanged for her husband's wholeheartedness, but I did not expect the days after marriage, and there was no imaginary beauty, and when she took care of the family in a big package, her husband also quietly had his own careful thoughts.
As a businessman, I often contact some people, and the rich second generation husband met a girl in a bar, and Shen Lijun was protecting her baby at home, lying in bed all day and did not dare to get off the ground. Looking at the baby in her belly, looking at the location of the gate, and not seeing her husband return for a long time, Shen Lijun gradually noticed something different. Night without return and indifferent indifference, such a signal represents what, I believe that every woman is deeply touched, Shen Lijun knows that there are people outside her husband.
A third person threatens", "Sooner or later I will replace you."
In the face of "widowed" marriage, Shen Lijun is very lonely in her heart, when the child has a fever, the husband does not pay attention, and when she is sick, the husband is not around. Instead, she found some young girls to fill the gap in her life, and stung her heart again and again. The third party is even more ironic about her, a fertility machine in the rich, just a hen that can lay eggs. Shen Lijun wanted a divorce, but under the persuasion of her mother-in-law, the child became the most perfect reason.
And the husband also realized the seriousness of the problem, converged for a period of time, seeing such a change, Shen Lijun decided to endure for the sake of the child, but did not expect to be in exchange for the intensification. Until 2018, she was diagnosed with cancer, the whole person was discouraged, at this time, the third party threatened "I will replace you sooner or later", under the heavy blow of body and mind, she left a 10,000-word suicide note to give out her 8 years of encounters and interrogations.
Years of encounters are like choking blood in the throat, giving wholeheartedly, and the indifference of everyone. Memories struck again, reminding Shen Lijun of a lot of the past, looking back on the way, happy, happy, sad, grievances have become the norm of life. Although the appearance of the unaccompanied giants looks beautiful, in fact, how the life is, only they understand what they have experienced in their hearts.
It is said that the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, but the rabbit will bite people when it is anxious. Leaving silently is like a deserter, without the premise of losing principles and bottom lines. Shen Lijun used a suicide note to retain the basic respect for marriage and regained the self-esteem that was lost many years ago. At the end of the word weeping blood, Shen Lijun left such a sentence as "the road she chose now makes me have no way to go", on September 10, 2018, she jumped from the 28th floor and ended her miserable life.
At that time, her husband was choosing a wedding dress with a third party, and Shen Lijun's age was always at the age of 35. Many people are feeling worthless for her, putting all the initiative into the hands of marriage, and eventually losing themselves. Leaving a pair of children, and an inexplicable reason, people can't help but sigh that ordinary happiness is much more precious than the giants. Although it is more difficult, but the life is steady, life is plain and happy.
Of course, as a woman, how disappointed she is, she will choose to put down the child and jump out of this world. In fact, Shen Lijun can have a better choice, a unfaithful life, in the face of betrayal, free choice to leave. But she chose to forgive and forbearance, not all the regression can be exchanged for understanding, blindly seeking perfection must be willing to gamble and lose. It was at the cost of her life that she did not choose to stop loss in time.
epilogue
If you chose to divorce at that time, maybe life is a different way, the kind Shen Lijun thought of the child, and did not choose to give up for a long time. I hope that everyone can learn a lesson, do not lose the bottom line of marriage and morality, take all the initiative in their own hands, and let go is not necessarily a loss, but also a fulfillment of themselves. Don't become a vassal of marriage, a victim of marriage, but take the initiative and become the builder of a good marriage. It is said that poor people must have something to hate, do you think Shen Lijun's "hateful place" is kindness or cowardice?