Shen Lijun, a beautiful and intelligent girl from Shanghai, has shown extraordinary talent and love for acting since she was a child. Her parents saw their daughter's extraordinary talent and were determined to fully support her on her journey to stardom.
Under the careful cultivation of her parents, Shen Lijun has received systematic performance and talent training since primary school, and she has studied various music and dance courses Xi and worked hard to study performance skills.
After graduating from high school, Shen Lijun successfully passed the exams and entered her favorite drama school to study Xi.
In the School of Drama, Shen Lijun devoted herself to acting courses and actively participated in various stage performances inside and outside the school. Her keen insight and brilliant imagination shined on the stage, and professors and classmates alike were amazed by this girl who had a talent for acting at such a young age.
After 4 years of hard training, Shen Lijun successfully graduated from the Academy of Drama and embarked on the road of professional actor. When she first debuted, Shen Lijun could only play some small roles in some TV series, but she always maintained a modest and cautious mentality, worked hard, and waited for every opportunity.
In the youth comedy "Happy on Campus", Shen Lijun starred in a lively and cheerful high school girl, although it was just a small role, she gave the character a unique personality charm and received positive feedback from the audience.
In 2008, Shen Lijun played the second female Lingling in the urban life drama "Ode to Oriental Joy", an honest and kind girl from the countryside, which was also her first important supporting role.
Shen Lijun's delicate and expressive performance moved the director and the audience, and her touching tears and moving smile became a beautiful scenery in the play. This outstanding performance made Shen Lijun completely open up her popularity and brought her more opportunities.
In 2009, Shen Lijun officially emerged with her outstanding performance in the role of dessert shop owner Xiao Min in "Happy Family", and her acting skills and screen beauty were fully recognized, and she was praised as a popular star in the industry.
For a while, Shen Lijun became a bright pearl among the new actresses in the TV industry, and her future is bright.
To tell a story, I try to increase the psychology of the characters and the description of the scene, and ensure that the language expression is different from the original text. The first paragraph mainly describes Shen Lijun's acting training process from childhood to before her debut, the second paragraph describes the situation in the early days of her debut, and the third paragraph tells about her experience of gaining important roles and recognition.
Just when Shen Lijun's career was on the fast track and a bright future was in sight, she met the man who changed the trajectory of her life - Wu Kaixin. Wu Kaixin is a rich second generation, with a wealthy family background and handsome appearance, and he is deeply impressed by Shen Lijun's beauty and talent.
So Wu Kaixin launched a passionate and domineering pursuit of Shen Lijun. He first frequently appeared in Shen Lijun's crew to visit the class, sending expensive bouquets, gifts and blessings, and then preparing a surprise party on Shen Lijun's birthday to confess his heart.
At first, Shen Lijun politely thanked Wu Kaixin, but kept her distance because she didn't want her feelings to affect her rapidly rising career.
However, Wu Kaixin did not intend to give up, he expressed his devotion to Shen Lijun in various ways, and even appeared at her door despite Shen Lijun's refusal.
Under Wu Kaixin's crazy pursuit, Shen Lijun gradually wavered, she began to respond to Wu Kaixin's feelings, and the two began dating. Wu Kaixin's thoughtful and romantic pursuit of gold deeply touched Shen Lijun's heart and made her truly fall in love.
A year later, Wu Kaixin officially proposed to Shen Lijun. He promised Shen Lijun that as long as he married him, he would let her live the life of a princess, and she would no longer have to work hard, just be a wealthy wife with peace of mind.
Shen Lijun is faced with a major choice in her life, career or love? In the end, Shen Lijun, who was only 28 years old, chose Wu Kaixin and decided to give up her fledgling acting career and marry into a wealthy family to be the daughter-in-law of the Wu family.
On the day of the engagement, the smiling Shen Lijun stood beside Wu Kaixin and accepted the blessings of the guests, believing that she had found true love and happiness. As everyone knows, this decision changed the trajectory of her life and led her into another nightmare world.
After marrying into the Wu family, Shen Lijun found that she was facing huge life changes and pressures. According to the Wu family's requirements, she must give up her acting career and become a qualified wife of a wealthy family.
At the beginning, Shen Lijun was still immersed in the sweetness of love, she worked hard to adapt to her new identity and learn how to be a qualified housewife Xi. But it didn't take long for her parents-in-law to start urging her to have a grandson, and the Wu family needed an heir.
Shen Lijun had to face the pressure of pregnancy.
In order to conceive the flesh and blood of the Wu family, Shen Lijun ate countless home remedies and supplements, but the results of the pregnancy test were always negative. She vaguely felt that her husband's emotions seemed to have become cold because she couldn't get pregnant.
Finally, after a comprehensive examination by the hospital, the doctor came to a cruel fact - Shen Lijun is weak and not easy to conceive; And Wu Kaixin also has the problem of difficulty in creating future generations.
The young couple was plunged into great despair and anguish. For the sake of this family, Shen Lijun gritted her teeth and insisted on taking medicine to regulate her body, while Wu Kaixin also had to take various tonics.
With the help of doctors and family, Shen Lijun finally ushered in the good news of pregnancy. However, this was not the beginning of happiness, but the prelude to Shen Lijun's painful life.
Because of her physical weakness, she struggled with the shadow of fetal preservation and repeated miscarriages throughout her pregnancy. She was almost bedridden for the sake of the baby, and she was scared day and night. On the other hand, she found that Wu Kaixin not only did not accompany her, but still went his own way and did not return home at night.
Shen Lijun painfully discovered that Wu Kaixin had been outside with another woman.
Wu Kaixin's affair made Shen Lijun fall into an ice cave, and she sadly realized that her married life had already changed. Wu Kaixin not only betrayed her, but when she was uncomfortable during pregnancy, he continued to have women outside.
Shen Lijun angrily questioned Wu Kaixin, but every quarrel ended in Wu Kaixin's hysteria. Shen Lijun felt desperate and painful, she was suffering from pregnancy and facing her husband's infidelity.
At this time, an even bigger thunderbolt fell on Shen Lijun's head. One day, when she swiped her social account, she found that a woman who claimed to be Wu Kaixin's "ex-girlfriend" actually began to harass her, the woman uploaded many photos of Wu Kaixin's intimacy, and publicly humiliated Shen Lijun as a "pick-up man".
After checking her body, Shen Lijun knew that she had advanced cervical cancer. She was so frightened that she begged Wu Kaixin to accompany her for treatment, but she didn't expect Wu Kaixin to be so indifferent that he left without even asking.
At this moment, Shen Lijun suddenly realized that she was no longer doomed. Faced with the erosion of the disease, she lost even the most basic family support.
The desperate Shen Lijun wrote a farewell letter with a trembling hand, revealing her last lament to Wu Kaixin and this cold family.
On the edge of the rooftop of the 28th floor of the high-rise building, Shen Lijun greeted the breeze and looked out at the bustling city below. She watched the traffic and people coming and going, and her heart was full of desolation and ecstasy.
The best years of my life, I could have been lively and cheerful to move freely on the stage, but I was trapped in this cold and desperate home.
Shen Lijun held the photo of the two children tightly, and tears fell on it. She knew that she was about to say goodbye to these two lovely angels. Thinking that they would grow up in an environment without mother's love in the future, Shen Lijun's heart was torn apart.
"I'm sorry, Mom doesn't have the strength to grow up with you anymore. ”
Shen Lijun wandered on the edge of the rooftop, recalling her beautiful vision when she married into a wealthy family at the age of 28, and the nightmarish life torture that followed for the next seven years. She would rather go back to the past, the self who can freely pursue her dreams.
Finally, Shen Lijun closed her eyes, took a deep breath, opened her arms, and took the last step towards the edge of the rooftop......
At this moment, Wu Kaixin downstairs was choosing a wedding dress with his new love in the wedding dress shop, excited about his new life. Upstairs, the heartbeat of a young life stops forever, and a family is shattered.
Shen Lijun chose to end her life, but her pain and unwillingness will remain in this world forever, reminding us to cherish the meaning of life.
Shen Lijun's choice to end her life in the year of the sixtieth year is a sad lesson for all of us. Looking back at Shen Lijun's life, we have to reflect on why a smart, beautiful girl with a successful career embarked on such a bleak ending in life.
It is true that Shen Lijun herself has her own mistakes. She chose to give up her dream during the rising stage of her career and married into a wealthy family prematurely, which seemed to be a success at the time, but in the long run, she lost the foundation of her independence.
If a person loses their financial resources, it is difficult for them to have an equal status. What's more, Shen Lijun made a wrong judgment of Wu Kaixin, she ignored Wu Kaixin's own character problems, thinking that money could buy happiness, which led her to enter a painful marriage.
However, the main cause of the tragedy is still Wu Kaixin's unfortunate actions. He first pursued Shen Lijun hypocritically and made her give up her career; After marriage, he went his own way, had a crazy affair, and ignored Shen Lijun's dedication; In the end, Shen Lijun watched coldly when she was sick, and it was the culprit who broke up the family.
A family without true love and responsibility is destined to be the birthplace of tragedy.
We would like to use Shen Lijun's death to warn ourselves not to blindly pay in love and marriage, but to maintain the foundation of independence; It is also necessary to distinguish between true and false love, and do not marry a negative person.
Finally, let us wish Shen Lijun rest in peace, and wish her children to thrive, overcome their sorrows, and welcome the light of new life.
I tried my best to write the lessons of this tragic story with warm and positive strokes.