On that day in 2018, Shen Lijun, known as the "first beauty in Shanghai", left her two children behind and chose to jump down from the 28th floor, letting her life fall and stop beating at that moment. This year, she was only 35 years old, what a young life, and she disappeared into this bustling sea of people.
And at the moment when she chose to leave, her so-called husband was carrying a wedding dress with "Xiao San", you and I, affectionate, which is a satire on Shen Lijun.
Not long after Shen Lijun left, the little third entered the room, occupying her husband, her children, and also the property that should belong to her, everything about her.
In fact, Shen Lijun did not enter the marriage before, has been in the entertainment industry mixed up, according to her trend at that time, if Shen Lijun can continue to work in the entertainment industry will have a bright future.
But at that time, she met the man who changed her life. This man is a famous rich second generation in Shanghai, his family is well-off, and his assets can be ranked in the top ten in Shanghai.
In order to pursue Shen Lijun, this man can be said to have brought his own rich attributes into full play. All kinds of luxury goods, all kinds of bags and all kinds of expensive jewelry, send it without stinginess. Shen Lijun soon fell under the fierce pursuit of this man, and finally chose to become an appendage of this man.
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When Shen Lijun and this man were about to get married, they also found that this man had a marriage history, and just when Shen Lijun was wandering and delaying in making a decision, the man told Shen Lijun in a clever way that he was forced to marry by his mother that time, and the only person he really loved was Shen Lijun.
Once a woman is overwhelmed by love, she will unconditionally choose to believe in men, and women in the world of love will never have antibodies to men, and their IQ is negative. Shen Lijun, who fell in love in this way, chose to believe in this man and chose to marry this man. Because of this choice, Shen Lijun's life was ruined, including her life.
After entering this giant, Shen Lijun couldn't help herself. After marriage, at the request of her mother-in-law and this man, Shen Lijun quit her hard-won job and was at ease at home to prepare for pregnancy as a full-time wife.
Shen Lijun suffered a lot in order to have a child, and she shot more than 200 injections before and after to give birth to the child smoothly. Unfortunately, Shen Lijun's efforts were not rewarded with kindness, and the man's nature was gradually exposed after giving birth to the child.
Not long after Shen Lijun gave birth to the child, this man began to stay home all day, even if he went home and didn't care about anything, he still lived his life of the second generation of the rich. It's just that pity Shen Lijun, her body has not yet recovered, she has to take care of herself and take care of herself, but also have to take care of her children.
Later, Shen Lijun found that the man who was a husband and a father had already had Xiao San outside, and Xiao San did not shy away from showing his love on social platforms, and Xiao San also sent photos of their love to Shen Lijun to stimulate Shen Lijun.
Because of all the unhappiness after marriage, Shen Lijun suffered from depression and was later diagnosed with cervical cancer. All the misfortunes poured into Shen Lijun and crushed her, who had become a mother. For the mother, Shen Lijun did not have the bravery and strength.
After Shen Lijun suffered from cancer, this man hated her even more and was willing to buy a bag for Xiao San to buy jewelry. But he was reluctant to buy a pair of hundreds of shoes for his own children. It is really the child who is spoiled by the mother, the mother who is not favored, and even the child is like a grass.
Isolated and helpless, Shen Lijun told her mother-in-law that her husband had a little third, and the mother-in-law did not help Shen Lijun or discipline the man. The mother-in-law feels that this is a normal thing for men.
Shen Lijun, who lost the last straw of life, finally could not stand the betrayal of her lover, the provocation of Xiao San, the snub of her mother-in-law and a cancerous body, all of which overwhelmed her breathlessly, and she decided to choose to leave this life that made her miserable and let herself be liberated.
After Shen Lijun wrote a "suicide note" of blood and tears up to 10,000 words, she jumped down from the 28th floor and died like this.
The kind of love and reluctance for the child in the "suicide note" is a mother's guilt for the child, but it is also a greatness, although Shen Lijun hates this life, she still believes that her child will live well, and did not take the two children together. At the same time, in this suicide note, there is also hatred and criticism of this scumbag.
"I know that it will be difficult for you to live without your mother in the next few days, but your mother loves you and does not want to take you away, as long as you live, there is hope, although you will never see your mother again, but your mother loves you in heaven." 」
Finally, she wrote sadly and helplessly: "The road I once chose myself, but now I have no way to go."
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Men are the warmth that women yearn for, and it is also the great shore that women think that finding a man can shield themselves from the wind and rain, but they do not know that women's wind and rain are brought by men. Marriage is the safest harbor for women, the cradle where happiness can be obtained, but they do not know that marriage is the grave of women.
Although it is said that men are the storm of women, marriage is the grave of women. But when a woman finds that she has chosen the wrong one, she should withdraw from the stop loss in time and not attach herself to a man. Choosing to get out on your own is far better than choosing to destroy yourself, and you will definitely be able to turn the tables when you are alive.
To face the harm of others is not to choose to accept the harm, but to hurt yourself at the same time. Instead, when you are not able to crush the other party, you choose to endure, and in the process of forbearance, you continue to strengthen yourself, and finally choose a strong blow.
In the face of other people's harm, the best counterattack is to live well yourself, living more freely and happily than the person who hurt you. A soft knife, seemingly unhurried, but enough to deal a fatal blow to a person.
Everything in the world is less important than your own life, no matter what kind of encounter you encounter, don't easily choose to give up your life. What will you do to crush those who hurt you when your life is gone?
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About the author: Chu Mengqiqi, a little woman who likes words, likes perfume, likes to travel, and likes to quietly look at you wonderfully.